Our Hotwives

My wonderful husband got me an early valentine's day gift! It arrived in the mail today in a mysterious yellow envelope. I wasn't expecting a delivery, so I texted Adventurer at work to let him know a package had arrived. He responded, "It is a present for you. Just to celebrate our awesome poly re...

I'm sorry for being late to this discussion, especially since I've never commented on your thread before! As a poly man, I've seen this happen before. The rule I subscribe to is not dating monogamous people. With that in mind, the biggest mistake was trying to have a polyamorous relationship with a ...

Luis, Try asking this question on Reddit. There's a subreddit there called r/tipofmypenis

I'm not sure that we've covered any of the charming rhetoric that has been abused in pursuit of our hot wives. Does anyone have experience with terrible encounters with awkward men such as myself? I heard one just the other day. "I think I'd like to take you for a ride on my tractor!" ;). Can't. St...

I have posted something along the same line once before. In a revised form, I believe it worth to post here. Sharing my first wife could have, maybe should have, been part of our wedding vows. Imagine the minister saying the following, "Do you, [Groom's name], promise to permit, [Bride's name], to ...

These are fair questions to ask. And I know I've spoken a lot of "heat of the moment" decisions, but I honestly feel like Lana and I have the same priorities for our family and marriage that no matter how far down into this we go, we both can make the tough decisions together, even if that means pu...

Sorry if this has been discussed, but I don't recall this being mentioned - is G (Seekingmore12) monogamous with you?

In all the years of this accounting of your hotwife journey, I only recall two times when you and Gigi took a vacation together. Is that just something you don't want? And if so, why?

Oh yes, jealousy... this has stirred up quite a bit of fights between my wife and I. She is the very strong-willed, stubborn type who believes she can do what she wants and say what she wants in this world, without any regard for others, and beyond the normal boundaries of freedom. :lol: So, trying...

A woman makes a decision to say yes or no. If it is yes the man is happy and doesn't think twice about her reasons why. If it is no he blames religion, her upbringing or an assortment of other things. Why? Maybe because he can't imagine himself actually making the decision to say no. No is a comple...

Can't wait to hear the recap.

Hey James! The real problem is this. Sex with a partner is about intimacy. Without it, and unless she is into replacing it with someone else, your relationship will likely die no matter what. Which means, you are in a lose/lose situation. Your ex-wife has stolen your future. She is still controlling...

So long as they are healthy and happy, that’s the main thing. Exactly! I know what you mean. I do too. I used to really look forward to their posts. Yeah - I'm convinced since to paraphrase, "she has deeper feelings for two men," means that their marriage has ended or he is now in a sexless true cu...

I want to thank everyone for their suggestions and support. I was expecting a lot of "dogs" saying shit like "if he wont fuck her, I will". DUH.... But everyone has been real kind and helped be get through this when I was not comfortable disclosing to friends. I am happy that nothing seemed to chan...

Damn that pesky 2.1 rule!

Did Sherry ever wear the body chain again?

Please continue!!!

A good resource that so many men miss when embarking on a nonmonogamous relationship/marriage is
"Nonmonogamy for Men: The Big Picture" over at Freak Sexual.

You all seem to forget that it is very common for many couples to be starting after being married for 20 years. Menopause is the great pregnancy neutralizer 😉 Many of us have absolutely 💯 nothing to worry about at all when it comes to pregnancy as there is 0% risk. Why would you automatically assum...

I wrote a post last week at one point and then deleted it. It was a bit melancholic, I guess, and I wasn't sure that I wanted it "out there" after all. The post was about "Sir" and also about Charlie and Tess. The gist of it is that I find it hard to say goodbye. The way that I play in this lifesty...

Using the r/polyamory subreddit as a guide, "Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consenually loving and being committed to more than one person." There is a lot of leeway on either side of how deep one must be to be in a poly relationship. I suggest you visit the Reddit dot /r/polyamory "About" secti...

My wife and I have only tried “hotwifing” one time, but it definitely was not what I had envisioned. Little back ground info, I have desired this for 10+ years and have been working on my wife for 6 years. We finally decided to take the plunge on May 13th with a familiar friend we both trusted. Lon...

How did you start in this lifestyle? How old are you two? How often do you partake in hotwifing?

This news is so exciting! I've been reading your entries here since the beginning. Quitting drinking isn't just about getting off the booze. It's also about realizing how that drug affects your ability to make sound decisions. And not just when you were drinking, but those times in between when your...

When my wife has been in ongoing relationships with men, an emotional depth almost always develops between them. She and some men have expressed love in the heat of sex. All her relationships with others have had an expiration date. . We don't consider ourselves as polyamorous in that none have eve...