Our Hotwives

Is having a hotwife everything its cracked up to be? Is it something that is over rated / under rated? Is it something that was buikt up and turned out to be no big deal? Is it something you are happy that you persued? Any regrets? Wannabees want to know the answer to these. Please share. It's hard...

It sounds like she's not far off of wanting to give it a go. Caution though; if you (or she) needs to get drunk to do something, it's likely a very good idea to not try it. A drink or two, sure. Beyond that starts to get dicey. Plus, there's an allure of doing it without alcohol. With it, you can ki...

STDs are a possibility. They are also a possibility in regular dating too. Did she ever ask for an STD test report from anyone she had sex with? As noted above, she can ask for an STD report and expect to get it if the guy wants to have sex with her. It's not hard. As to sin; this is a personal jour...

I echo SilverStag. Communication is key. Take the following with utter respect for you, and by no means any sort of condescension.... It is common to see husbands who want their wives to be hotwives to ask us what she is thinking based on tidbits of conversations, or (monogamous) sexual escapades wh...

Welcome INcouple! Sounds like you're close! Just know you can't pressure her; it's got to be her decision to get into it. You won't get any pleasure out of it if it isn't her decision. I take it you're from Indiana? Likewise

Try to eliminate the long distance part as soon as possible. Long distance is a relationship killer.

Steaming hot! Congrats I know the first solo date jitters. Had them myself. The jitters fade, but the excitement doesn't!

My wife has taken three men bareback since we started in this lifestyle more than 15 years ago. Two of them were long term boyfriends whom she had sex with for years. They were her special guys. The one other was a guy with an absolutely enormous cock, like 10-12" (I didn't ask) and almost as thick ...

Well that all sounds very promising! You're right; the thought about feeling bad for your kids isn't rational (and I don't mean that as an insult!). But, our brains don't always give us a perfect reason for everything. Feeling is...feeling. There's a part to it that could be valid; if she has sex wi...

Woohoo! Welcome to hotwifing! Congrats!

KelliandChrisTX, hoping for updates :) Hi all, wanted to give you all an update. First of all, we have been having a ton more sex since I told her my fantasy. One time before sex, I told her I should had said I wanted other guys to fuck her sooner. She smiled and pulled me into her. What was wild ab...

What a great experience! So happy for you LFA!

I got a hard on just reading

To answer concerns; On falling love: My wife and I considered the "falling in love" part before we got into this. It came up as part of a discussion about having sex with a guy multiple times. We had been discussing that if you find a great guy to have sex with, then keep him around if the sex is so...

Don't you mean left your head and went south to your brain?

Even if you don't think she would be too upset if you did a setup without her knowing, I strongly advise against this. This can go south very, very fast and result in her never wanting to try it again. Hotwifing it built on trust and open communication. It's a journey you do together, not one where ...

I don't know if the figure would be over 50%. But, I think the figure would be a LOT higher than the ~4-5% of marriages that are consensual non-monogamy. Looking at https://comparecamp.com/open-marriage-statistics/ , there's an alarming figure in there that 67% of women would leave their partners if...

I think the only risk here is whether or not she would ever leave you for him, wanting to get back with him. If that's not a concern, if she's devoted to you, then why wouldn't you want it to happen? It sounds like she really wants to fuck him again. Assuming he lives somewhere within range, I don't...

Glad you had so much fun LFA Your intensity makes me envious, wishing I was the boyfriend walking down that ramp

Thought of an apropos hockey penatly... high dicking!

When my wife and I first got into this, she very much wanted me involved. She didn't want me to just watch. So, the first several times I was directly involved, either in stimulating her in one fashion or another, kissing her as the other man fucked her (oh how delightful to feel her moan from him f...

WOOHOO! CONGRATULATIONS!

I'm glad it went so well for you, both the playing with the "prospect" and the all nighter with your husband

Fighting social programming and how you were raised can be very difficult. So much of it says that having sex with other men when you are married is wrong, wrong, wrong, a thousand times wrong. It can be very hard wrapping your brain around it, even if your husband 100% supports you. My wife had sex...

Based on what you've said, it seems fairly obvious he wants her. As to your wife's confidence; if it is because of her own self assessment of how attractive she is, that's a very common issue. Many times I have seen women getting into the lifestyle who think they are not ready because they're just n...

Mlghten, it's wonderful that you are showing so much patience. Getting into this lifestyle can never be about pressure. I know I absolutely wouldn't want my wife having sex with other men if she were doing it because I wanted her to. It's awesome because SHE wants it. Perhaps your wife will get ther...

Well, it's quiet HERE! I suspect it's not so quiet in mrs_reese's world

Well, there's only one way to find out ;) No seriously, it is possible to be allergic to semen. It also might be the makeup of your semen. Our bodies all go through changes. Did she have this reaction before menopause? You might consider altering your diet, but I would do so under the guidance of a ...