Our Hotwives

Awesome.

I'm the boyfriend. So I get it. It works for a lot of reasons.

First STI… Jen came down with what seemed a UTI on Monday which was Memorial Day. She stuck it out until Tuesday when she could get in to see her PCP. Chlamydia. Not a UTI. This put a damper on things immediately. The following day Tory and I both got tested and we were negative. It seemed implausi...

Sarah has a complicated personal life. She started dating me knowing that I am not monogamous, and with her own non-monogamy style. She's been dating a man for several years, and for professional reasons they live in separate states. Long term the goal is to grow their careers into a place where the...

Her number1 wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 24, 2024 5:12 am

I'd vote for uninhibited, some of us are just that way.

Lots of overlap in the lifestyle. If he was in the swinger scene, it wouldn't even be a thought.

I am so sorry. Strictly on the topic of consent, my vote would be that since mental health conditions tend to remove our ability to give informed consent, that dementia would be a withdrawal of consent regardless of what he actually says. I don't envy any of you this situation; I've seen so many fr...

I think I had a lot of jealousy very early in my dating life. I also think that a lot of it came from not understanding what my feelings were and how to process them. I was very jealous in the beginning with my first real girlfriend, but I think that was just misplaced fear of missing out. Once she ...

Thanks again for everyone's continued interest. I have some updates, maybe I'll get a chance by Friday to write them down. I did hook up with a hotwife, and wrote about it briefly but that's not really central to this story so I told it in the Stags and Vixens forum. Grace and Sarah are my primary p...

Iamgroot wrote: ↑

Wed Mar 27, 2024 6:43 am

Nice! I wish I saw more of that at weddings when I do photography.

Never saw or caught someone hooking up?

So I went to an out of state wedding this weekend. I ended up going stag because of some conflicts with either of my potential dates. It was an old coworkers daughter who got married, so I only knew a few people. I got seated at the "Guest+1" table where people didn't bring their guests. I was doing...

It's an interesting thought experiment, but I can tell you the "content creators" have made places like reddit r/hotwives unbearable. Once the creators got into it, the amateurs were slowly pushed aside, and "cuck" bled into the postings too. Maybe my own personal bias, but one of the things I've al...

To me it's sort of like whip cream on dessert. I don't really care either way, but if it comes with the dish I won't turn it down.

I've met a few women who really liked to perform it, but it was really more about the naughty aspect to them. That turned me on that they were turned on.

Leave out the "Hotwife" dynamic. Build a profile that lists you more along the lines of swingers looking for a 3rd. Then much later in your profile, add that you are looking for someone who is "well equipped". This way your pool of applicants is coming from a different source. If you're cool with th...

I was wondering if you fine folks of OHW's could help me crowd source an old story. I frankly don't know where I saw it and my google foo has not helped me find it on the usual places. Likely it was on asstr.xyz but I'm not sure what collection. Base of the story was new hubby and wife rent a small ...

Tryagain wrote: ↑

Thu Mar 14, 2024 5:46 am

This thread picks up a story already posted. Where can i find the beginning of this story?

Search function, and wayback machine. It can be tedious though.

Thanks again for writing all of this. I know from personal experience it's a lot of work to put the words down.

I know we're past the holidays roughly, but is this timeline near current or like 2023/before?

The stranger has a lot of fun variation. My first "hotwife" relationship started because she confessed to fantasizing about fucking a stranger. We did a bunch of variations, from bar pick up, to park pick up, to hotel pick up. For the first part of our relationship I lived in a different city and wo...

Mine was something that evolved out of a break up. We were still in school, and she was scared of how serious we were. So she broke up with me, after cheating all summer while I was away . When I got back she wanted to get back together but see other people and keep it casual. Turns out a date happe...

My ex-wife fucked a guy from her work after going out with a group for after work drinks. We were experimenting with non-monogamy, and while it wasn't sanctioned or discussed about first we ended up getting past it. It was done with dishonesty and poor intent. Ironically if she would have told me up...

Wow, I'd love to hear more about the house mom stuff.

I've shared girls with friends in the past, and it's been fine. I would even say it's been better with friends that were skilled with the ladies. Like you said, an ability to separate love and sex? It's fun for all.

I've had a few relationships that would be called hotwives over the years. The first was kind of accidental, and her thing was she just liked to fuck and have fun. She wasn't adverse to me having fun besides her, but it was way easier for her. In college, I had a relationship where we thought of our...

The wife I date explains her relationship to casual observers that I'm a friend of the family her husband met through golf. We all play at the same club. With everyone having kids and other lives, it's not a lie, but it does provide plausible deniability. I do in fact play golf with him. He's not a ...

Not really me too, younger people seem to be less interested in sex than being on social media and porn, at least from what i've been hearing. I don't know what it is. I have a teenager, and he's really good looking; tall, muscular, the whole package. I'm not saying that as his dad, other people ha...

Lead early with your intentions. I've found that non-monogamy can freak people out, especially if they feel they've been misled. So get to the point quickly. Don't be disappointed if he flakes. Just keep searching as there are people who will be fine with it. He fully understand the cuckolding/hotw...

As a male, I try to move quickly to video, something app based like (Signal, Whatsapp, or Element are my preferred). There's a lot of picture hunters and fakes out there. But as a couple/hotwife you have an advantage. Serious people will be ok to move to video and the fakes will quickly filter thems...