Our Hotwives

I know this is an older thread, but I just wanted to say that SC and I put a lot of these ideas from Mr. T into play on our last MFM, and it was by far the best one we ever had. I was way more involved than ever, and SC's overall mental/physical satisfaction was brought to a higher level. We especia...

You got a keeper there. Don't push her, you are a lucky man.

Totally off limits

Bubba may I try to translate for you. My sincerest apologies if I get it wrong. Ladies I think he's asking if y'all are running roughshod over your husbands with this lifestyle and if they might be running over you. He seems to be thinking as do many are you really fooling him into thinking it's ab...

Bubba Jack - I am sitting her smiling, laughing a bit...you think you made the question clearer when it has gotten so much more complicated...or shall we say philosophical! BUT I do love intelligence in a man...it is a trait I almost need to connect *S You certainly seem to have that....I applaud y...

SC - I was trying to get at whether hotwifing, from the feminine perspective, can be experienced more a "partnership" or "teamwork" activity or is more likely to be felt as an expression of dominance by one partner and submission by the other. Both ways are seen here on OHW. SC and I are pure teamw...

gotcha. that sounds cool.

it's a combination SH. this guy i met off ashley madison. just got contacted by another guy i contacted months ago. other's ive met other ways. nc hubby i'll be whatever he wants me to be for an hour or so ;) ah, ok, gotcha. does this guy know about Dave, and that he knows, etc.? (cause I know AM i...

Jane, how are you meeting the guys lately? From profiles on websites, something else?

^^^^ this is SO perfect for newbies, and those that always run a non-sex solo first meet.

EXCELLENT.

FWIW, this should be a "sticky" post in the main HWing section. Many never come to the library, and this is one of THE most important subjects/topics for those that really do this.

this is excellent. should be required reading......

will the quiz require a ruler or protractor?

thanks man!!!

Everybody should read their old stuff. It's very enlightening.

SSQ, we all go through that, in many respects in our lives.

Perhaps you can channel some of the mis-spent energy into advising SC how to properly deal with me.

lol, Dave on the hot seat!

their method of doing this was a train wreck waiting to happen. perhaps, it happened.

Ben wrote:
I am determined to honor my statement that she can play alone if she wants to.

best of luck with that.

our exposure to Ashley Madison was a real eye opener. so many cheaters out there. glad it ain't me/us.

it's probably THE most amazing thread on OHW. good learning thread also. it's not without mistakes, and missteps. it has those. and alot of them.

but, if you read the whole thing, it can really help guide you as to what to do (and what not to do) in this adventure....

SH

Just have to say, I am a big SSQ fan.

carry on.

(nevermind)

the emotional stuff is completely unacceptable for alot of us, as well as most swinger couples. this is for obvious reasons. there's a whole raft of us HW husbands who would not get within 100 yards of SM's HWing style.

Again, for good reason. That's where the fail comes from.

I really am curious about the true "risks" of HWing. The truth is we ARE playing with fire here. Anyone the says we are not is lying, in denial, or a fool. Yes, there are different "models" for doing this, and some are probably more risky than others, but this is somewhat irrelevant because differe...

NECTcouple, welcome to the forums.

you know, your own tale and journey does not have to proceed as recklessly as this one. THAT is the lesson here.

well, that's certainly some good news then.....