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I have only one major regret..that I didn't discover and ive this lifestyle in my late teens instead of mid-life.



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Urban Dictionary has a word for it: Compersion https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Compersion Yes, that has been the traditional definition of compersion, but as many of us discovered in this lifestyle know from experience, there are actually two sides to compersion - one is the traditi...

Urban Dictionary has a word for it: Compersion https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Compersion Yes, that has been the traditional definition of compersion, but as many of us discovered in this lifestyle know from experience, there are actually two sides to compersion - one is the traditi...

Urban Dictionary has a word for it: Compersion https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Compersion Yes, that has been the traditional definition of compersion, but as many of us discovered in this lifestyle know from experience, there are actually two sides to compersion - one is the traditi...

My question for the ladies. I've had the impression that many women fall for a man emotionally much easier after he has come inside her- even if she was on the fence beforehand. Does a man cumming in a woman carry that much weight in emotional bonding for women?

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My question is for the ladies. I've had the impression that many women fall for a man emotionally much easier after he has come inside her- even if she was on the fence beforehand. Does a man cumming in a woman carry that much weight in emotional bonding for women?

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Why? First, there’s the experience of my wife messaging and flirting with her would-be lover. Of late it’s with her first boyfriend and first lover from high school who is visiting the area. They've been messaging each other for over a year from afar. I find that part fun. It’s less physically arous...

For myself it turned out to be a combination of a few specific aspects which have evolved and become clear as the years have progressed and as our relationship has grown and strengthened. #1 Erotic Compersion - which differs from emotional Compersion. I learned long ago how to transform the angst an...

Not only is is essential her lover inseminate her over and over, it is also essential that she beg him while fucking him and beg him to own her. And when she returns home to me it is essential that she show me her cum-filled panties and tell me, in no uncertain terms, that he owns her and she's love...

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phaedruscj, I have a thick skin and prefer to take the high road. Cody Alston made some interesting observations to which s/he is entitled. For example, I tend to agree that my use of the word 'brainwashed' would normally be over the top - in a formally published manuscript that is. What I wrote wa...

Of course, neither partner is in control of the other partner's sexuality; I don't think that is what was implied (see my PM). But you have to admit, a commitment of sexual fidelity is either implicit or explicit in most marital vows, which is a form of mutual control and a social contract. Either p...

I think from experience that there are many males who for infinite reasons like to give up control and secretly want to be in a female led or dom/ sub relationship but most are too shy to admit this . Wives are too often thinking that this would be wrong . Sharing openly could be the key to both un...

nnjcpl2002 wrote:Great writing and a convincing story. Thanks!

I hope its convincing - it is based (mostly) on actual events!

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Any woman that feels sexy and is self-confident about it is sexy to me.

I much prefer I be around when she's with a lover. Not only that, I love it even more if before they go to bedroom they get affectionate as if I'm not even there in the same room with the two of them before they go play in our bedroom. When they go to our marital bedroom they play without me while I...

Yes, she has done another woman, but after a weekend away with her she said it just didn't do it for her like a man does. I am hoping she might try an FMF or partner with her new boyfriend, or better, do full-swap with one or more other couples that she won't do with me - that would be pure nirvana ...

He wanted to lose her. Not literally lose her but played out through a risky mutual fantasy. Married five years, he adored his wife and worshipped the ground on which she walked. She was the embodiment of the perfect woman, petite, sexy, classy, and so very pretty. Though their marriage was solid an...

My wife has a new lover. I came home from work today, walked upstairs, and saw a naked man on top of my wife. He was fucking her brains out in our marital bed. She didn’t tell me about her plan ahead of time – she wanted me to catch her “cheating”. It’s a game she knows I’ve wanted her to play for a...

I didn't see this in the list. What does it best for me is when my wife uses dating and sex with other men to mentally, visually and (especially) verbally, make me jealous before, during, and after - showing me her desire for the OM and relentlessly verbally taunting me that the OM is better than me...

I would add one more reason which I think is frequently overlooked. A husband can get an intense erotic "vicarious thrill" form the woman they love, having a sexual encounter or sexual relationship.... .even a romantic bonding on some level.... with another man . The erotic vicarious pleasure can b...

I love to watch. She is OK with me watching, even turns her on, but not until she's into it with her lover, and, she prefers I don't spend and extended time with them after I've watched and have partaken of my pleasure (taking her after he has, or licking her etc). She prefers to have private time w...

I slid my manhood into her sweetness slowly, inch-by-inch, stopping, pulling out slightly, then pushing in a little more each time. She was still tight as a teen, but so wet that there was only light resistance. “You tease!” She playfully accused me. “Fuck me already!” I responded the same as before...

We arrived at Jack and Becky’s home for the key party. It was a large home with many bedrooms and a guest house. Eight couples were invited, but separated into two groups of four couples. We met only four of the eight couples; we were all strangers in the lifestyle. We had been immediately led to th...

I knew there would be hell to pay afterwards. I’ve never been good at being a well behaved submissive/slave. My kink has always been wanted to be dominated sexually by my wife, and that only worked when she was still committed as my life partner. Diana didn’t utter a word all the way home. She drove...