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Jealousy is a normal emotional response to wanting to protect the relationships we value. There are healthy and unhealthy ways of coping with it.

Anyone have any cool sex games planned for the Super Bowl? This group should have ideas that no other group would think of for having fun. For having an excuse to have more fun. Coming from a BDSM perspective, it would be fun for the wives/girlfriends to serve the men with both refreshments and sex...

Tank Turner wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 28, 2024 1:03 pm

Three lies women will tell"

Their age
Their weight
The number of men they've fucked

This crowd actively encourages honesty, though. Perhaps women just need some reassurance and erotic coaxing.

I would love to keep a scorecard of how many guys my HW fucks - kinda like how many planes a fighter ace has shot down. I'm thinking a necklace, keychain trinket, bracelet, etc. that has a way to keep count. I'd love it if there was a way to not only keep count of each new guy but also keep count o...

It's complicated to say the least. In our case, KK and I are very much in love, and in lust with one another. Similarly, she is both in love, and in lust for Andy and David. The inverse is true for both men; consider that they left, and divorced their wife to have this kind of intense relationship ...

Hi! I am wondering if the poly lifestyle might be something for me. I dont think I am able to separate sex and love… Could be. While I can separate sex and love, sex for me isn't enjoyable without love. As both a polyamorist and a swinger, I don't need love to enjoy sex, but there must be at least ...

Where are you located? There are polyamory groups in most major US cities that are easy enough to find using an online search engine. Meetup.com is also a good website. Most have casual get togethers at bars or restaurants for discussion, called Munches. This is a good way to meet friends and potent...

Age gap can be quite fun. I often had fantasies of my (now ex-) wife fucking younger men, teaching them the art of pleasuring a woman. Of course, I too have had fantasies of being with younger women.

I'm exercising my freedom of expression.

Kissing is one of the best parts of sensuality and sexuality. I wouldn't be interested in playing with a woman who wouldn't want or be allowed to kiss.

Clickbait? Perhaps fishing for attention?

mundyman wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 22, 2023 6:42 am

I love your sense of humor.

He doesn't have a sense of humor.

He has a sense of humour.

(Look how cultured I am.)

I would have loved to film my (now ex-) wife. I would have also liked it if her dates filmed her with her phone gonzo style. Edit: it would be fantastic to see porn depicting the training of innocent, shy wives into submissive sluts: a slut school or slut training. The school theme is common, such a...

I've fantasized about something similar, with DDLG flavor, and where her other lovers are my best men. We're in a BDSM club and she's wearing bondage cuffs along with her wedding dress. Immediately after the vows we have our way with her.

She has even insisted on seeing their driver's licenses when suspecting they may be giving her fake names or fake home addresses. Encountering men who report their true age as either younger or older isn't unusual either. Those are good ideas, as is requesting recent STI test results. Before my div...

Thank you for the response. Very helpful knowing that it seems that we are on the right track. My husband also places ad looking for men (he did it for this weekend), but at the same time, I also so my own meet and greet, and due to his work schedule, he doesn’t always get to go to the initial meet...

Meaning that when my husband is not presented physically (watching or participating), then there should be photos, videos, and/or live streaming involved to share with him That's how I feel, too. I want to always be involved in some way. Moving forward, we have changed our approach meeting other po...

Self-confidence isn't that important to me. In fact, as a Daddy Dom I'm attracted to girls who are naturally submissive, even a little insecure or shy. I like natural beauty, the cute girl next door type. I don't like plastic surgery or a lot of cosmetics or tattoos. Only authentic, thinking girls. ...

An honest mistake with a sincere apology can be forgiven. But if someone can't own their mistakes they aren't worth having around. Expectations and boundaries shouldn't be violated.

I get jealous or have similar emotions if she violates expectations or boundaries that we've discussed or if she is more considerate to her other lovers than me. As an example, she is naturally going to text her lovers, but if she is going to text back and forth a lot in my presence, ask or let me k...

You asked about meds, but maybe also try edging yourself on a regular basis. Watch porn and stroke yourself until you get close, next slow down or pause for a short while, and then get close again. Repeat as necessary. Practice this a few times a week. Also, sex isn't necessarily finished after we e...

That wasn't my intention with this post and I apologize if I gave the wrong impression.

Hi, my name is Dameon and I'm a pervert. I like stag & vixen and BDSM (DDLG, bondage, blindfolds, restraints, light impact) and especially combining the two. Also into swinging, polyamory, and nudism. I've been into these lifestyles on and off for about 20 years, but being in the military has limite...

Anal never interested me much. I do like to use beads and butt plugs on my wife or girlfriend, though.