Our Hotwives

I don't fall into sexual relationships with non lifestyle married men unless they are actively searching for partners outside of the marriage. If he is going to do it anyway and I find him attractive, it may as well be me.

Good for you Jane!

OMG. He sounds perfect, I'm so happy for you!

My husband suggested it. At first I rejected it out of hand but then I thought about it for a quick minute. I had already had one long term affair, and lots and lots of partners before Hubs. It wasn't a month after Hubs brought it up, that I spent a weekend in bed with another man.

My first was a lovely man named Drew. We met him online and we chatted for a month, before spending a weekend together.

Many of our friends are swingers, and although we're mostly in the HW crowd, they know - and yes, it's very nice to have people to talk to about how to manage with other men and women.

Hubby's best friend knows as well. Allen is a 2-4 time per week frequent flyer.

jane wrote:i'd feel childish if i called myself dicktwat

LOL! I hope someone helped dicktwat back up from the floor.

My sister, girlfriend, and 2 gay male friends know. Everyone in our old neighborhood knew - hard to mistake the noise when guys were fucking me in the back yard while Hubs was at work.