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As people beyond just me have pointed out, she doesn't see you sexually anymore.. If anything she helps you from time to time just as her wifely duties, her sexuality is for him and him alone and you can just get yourself off thinking about her being with him.. At this point it's not her problem and...

As a 38 year old virgin myself, I can tell you that still being a virgin at this point, let alone never having had a girlfriend, is absolute hell.. especially factoring in that I'm a Libra-Scorpio cusper and I definitely live up to the stereotype of being highly sexual... With no outlet for my sexua...

I'm curious, in her slut years was she ever a submissive to someone like in a full on D/s relationship? Did she ever hook up with black men? Both would partly explain her actions with him. Her “slut years” were in college—they were largely just drunken hookups after the bars. She never lived out an...

I'm curious, in her slut years was she ever a submissive to someone like in a full on D/s relationship? Did she ever hook up with black men? Both would partly explain her actions with him.

Why does all of this remind me of Tool's Opiate? "Choices always were a problem for you
What you need is someone strong to guide you
Deaf and blind and dumb and born to follow
What you need is someone strong to guide you"

It's funny that your wife, that's so against feeling like a slut or being called a slut, is actually getting off on that aspect of it. Kind of makes me wish I could bring my Dom side out on her, not that that'd ever happen.. but I'd definitely have fun getting her to do things she wouldn't typically...

Yep, conversation is key, if she's going to keep lying to you then you have absolutely zero reason to trust her and your relationship is pretty much over. The problem with that idea being we all heard how vitriolic she got during the end of the affair and how much hate she threw at you and tried to ...

Thought I’d give a quick update. Was a very busy week at work and no word from F. Wife and I finally had sex this morning—first time in six days. She has dinner plans with three girlfriends tonight, so she plans to be out next 3-4 hours. F had mentioned he’d only be available late nights this week,...

You need to figure out a way to get her into a tight dress and then a bar on weekend nights.. Nature will take it's course. Well we have discussed doing something like that when we’re down in Mexico in May—I have no doubt she’s nervous though. Honestly, I’d love for her to just go meet B for a drin...

You need to figure out a way to get her into a tight dress and then a bar on weekend nights.. Nature will take it's course.

it really seems to me like she's kind of checked out on your relationship.. like she's gotten back into the whole "I'm cheating on him, he's not worth my time" thing she was doing with him before you started listening to me except that now you know she's doing it so she's free to do it even more. I'...

the only thing I've ever really heard about the IUD being a problem, unless the woman is super sensitive, is when a guy likes to use her like F does and keeps smashing into her cervix over and over and leaving her raw and bleeding from it sawing on her cervix... though that's most often when the guy...

It still worries me how her mental state is so tied to hooking up with him now.. It's definitely not a good thing that her getting railed by him is the only thing keeping her somewhat regular and the moment it's gone she starts kind of turning on you for it a lot of times when you had absolutely no...

It still worries me how her mental state is so tied to hooking up with him now.. It's definitely not a good thing that her getting railed by him is the only thing keeping her somewhat regular and the moment it's gone she starts kind of turning on you for it a lot of times when you had absolutely not...

She definitely needs to find someone else she can have fun with.. I just wish she was able to let it not be people she already knows. It sounds like her biggest hangup is the connection to the past, yet at the same time she's clinging to the idea of a relationship and not just getting off so she nee...

By the way, having just listened to it again.. your wife wasn't being completely honest with you about that recording.. If it was sitting on a table outside in the hall, or even on the dresser next to the bed.. then why does it sound like it keeps getting moved repeatedly? Unless he has a cat with a...

Damn.. in so many ways I can easily see myself in your shoes someday.. if I somehow find a woman that wants me that is.. With how inexperienced I am, my autism, and all my physical issues.. it just feels like I'll never be able to live up to what women expect from a guy, especially one my size. (bot...

Sounds like he's an insecure little manchild that everything is about him.. probably why his relationship was on the rocks before he hooked up with your wife.. She really needs to find a way to move on from him and find someone more respectful and not childish.

Your wife really reminds me of two songs.. Hinder's Get Stoned, and Buckcherry's Crazy Bitch. She definitely has issues beyond just anxiety and "survivor's guilt" there definitely sounds like at least bipolar if not even some dissociative personality disorder stuff going on. If your doctor is saying...

The "F" thing has me cracking up.. I'm sitting here "How many F names are there? Frank, Fred... .... .... Ferdinand." and of course being the dork I am that has me thinking back to Rolling Kansas "My name?... My name is Ferdinand..." "My name? My name too is Ferdinand.." "Heads up here, this Ferdina...

Sounds like your wife is already starting to get bored with him and she's going to have to learn to be more confident in herself and ultimately get used to finding new partners every now and then when she gets bored. I think the "NRE" is already gone and she's realizing that just being a fuck hole i...

if you want to give her a real thrill, buy her Skyn non-latex condoms. From everything I've read and heard they are pretty much like wearing nothing for both partners. They're more expensive but worth it. (I need them because I'm allergic to latex.. should I ever go there.. but learned about the si...

if you want to give her a real thrill, buy her Skyn non-latex condoms. From everything I've read and heard they are pretty much like wearing nothing for both partners. They're more expensive but worth it. (I need them because I'm allergic to latex.. should I ever go there.. but learned about the sid...

So while I see where you are coming from and I take your criticism to heart, it doesn’t change that my wife was more callous to me last night than I’m currently capable of handling, even if you think I deserve that treatment. Could also be that because you're tired and raw you are taking things out...

You opened Pandora's box and now it can never be closed. She's trying to do what she thought you wanted, she went against all her fears and self doubt for you and found she absolutely loves it, and now you're trying to tell her no.. and that resentment will either destroy her self esteem, destroy he...