Our Hotwives

Dear VHWs, what is one piece of advice you’d give to a young man ( or maybe any man ) about women? What comes to mind is something Farmgirl said about women’s feet being sexual - that I know at this old age to be true but didn’t at 20,30,40. If had truly known that as a young man I could have treat...

Dear VHWs, what is one piece of advice you’d give to a young man ( or maybe any man ) about women? What comes to mind is something Farmgirl said about women’s feet being sexual - that I know at this old age to be true but didn’t at 20,30,40. If had truly known that as a young man I could have treat...

I have found this site absolutely fantastic. I am still very new to this lifestyle and the information on here has helped me have my first experience with another man.

I wouldn't worry too much about labels, just go with what works for you and enjoy the journey

I have started talking with a few potential playmates online. I am just starting out as a hotwife and still learning. One thing I am struggling with that I am hoping others will have some ideas on or share what they do. So before meeting a guy for a play date I want to get to know them first via ch...

Dear hotwives, before you married him, did you have a sense that your husband had this desire? Did it kind of freak you out when he first brought it up to you? Thanks! I wouldn't say freaked me out but wasn't really expecting it either. After discussion and my own research it made things clearer an...

Thank you for this thread. Husband has been very interested in this lifestyle and I have had a lot of reservations (although not disgusted or opposed to it, just not fully understanding what is involved). Your guide has helped a lot to understand the relationship dynamic and put some of those reser...

Not sure if this is the right place for this question but how long does it usually take to see my posts after registration? How long before I can I get rid of my 'newbie' status and not have posts go to admin/moderators for approval? I just approved all of your pending posts 😁👍 There isn't a specif...

Not sure if this is the right place for this question but how long does it usually take to see my posts after registration? How long before I can I get rid of my 'newbie' status and not have posts go to admin/moderators for approval? I just approved all of your pending posts 😁👍 There isn't a specif...

Thank you truckstar and Mrs T for again sharing some invaluable information about your experiences

Not sure if this is the right place for this question but how long does it usually take to see my posts after registration? How long before I can I get rid of my 'newbie' status and not have posts go to admin/moderators for approval?

Thank you for this thread. Husband has been very interested in this lifestyle and I have had a lot of reservations (although not disgusted or opposed to it, just not fully understanding what is involved). Your guide has helped a lot to understand the relationship dynamic and put some of those reserv...