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Unread postPosted: Sat Aug 05, 2017 8:54 pm 
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Even during cuckolding, a wife and the other man often feel love between them, That might happen to most cucking wives at the moments they're fucking. It has with my wife during hot sex but when she comes down the feeling dissipates. It's common though for a deeper friendship to develop with my wife and most often with me as well.

If a marriage is otherwise solid, those feelings would be unlikely to be a threat. Cuckolding wives tend to stay with their husbands. Even those who cheat (very) rarely leave their husband for another man unless there are serious problems that don't involve sex.


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Unread postPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2017 5:28 pm 
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yielding william wrote:
Even during cuckolding, a wife and the other man often feel love between them, That might happen to most cucking wives at the moments they're fucking. It has with my wife during hot sex but when she comes down the feeling dissipates. It's common though for a deeper friendship to develop with my wife and most often with me as well.

If a marriage is otherwise solid, those feelings would be unlikely to be a threat. Cuckolding wives tend to stay with their husbands. Even those who cheat (very) rarely leave their husband for another man unless there are serious problems that don't involve sex.

Very well said William. Our experience has been much the same as yours. My wife naturally has an emotional bond with her lover. All of the various labels (intimate friend, fuck buddy etc.) are so subjective, it's difficult to choose the right one for any particular circumstance. And I think each couple have their own unique bond anyway.

I never went into the lifestyle with a naive notion that my wife could make love to another man and not develop some feelings for him...or him for her. And I think that knowledge is part of the arousal for me as a cuckold husband. To know that another man is enjoying not only my wife's body, but his own unique emotional bond with her. Not to the point of him taking over my place as her husband, but somewhere between a platonic friendship and a marriage bond. I have never felt threatened by him that way, and I know Juli does not desire more than a sexual / intimate friendship with him.

But I do think this is one area of the lifestyle that often gets over looked. It's easier to talk about the physical sex that takes place between a hot wife and her lover, but the emotional connection between them is much more vague. But it is also the most erotic part of the lifestyle for me as the husband.

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Unread postPosted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 2:58 pm 
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I completely agree: the emotional bond is part of the erotic intensity of cuckolding. It is not just the sexual part which is, after all, mechanical. It is the je-ne-sais-quoi that the emotional bond brings or adds to the sexual that makes it so mind-bending.


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Unread postPosted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:01 pm 
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I completely agree: the emotional bond is part of the erotic intensity of cuckolding. It is not just the sexual part which is, after all, mechanical. It is the je-ne-sais-quoi that the emotional bond brings or adds to the sexual that makes it so mind-bending.

Perfectly said EDAS. It's been difficult at times for me to describe the feeling in words, but that is exactly how I feel. Allowing another man to bond emotionally with my wife is the most erotic part for me. The sexual intercourse between them is only the vehicle that the emotions use to bond them.

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Unread postPosted: Fri Aug 11, 2017 11:18 am 
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yielding william wrote:
Even during cuckolding, a wife and the other man often feel love between them, That might happen to most cucking wives at the moments they're fucking. It has with my wife during hot sex but when she comes down the feeling dissipates. It's common though for a deeper friendship to develop with my wife and most often with me as well.

If a marriage is otherwise solid, those feelings would be unlikely to be a threat. Cuckolding wives tend to stay with their husbands. Even those who cheat (very) rarely leave their husband for another man unless there are serious problems that don't involve sex.

Very well said William. Our experience has been much the same as yours. My wife naturally has an emotional bond with her lover. All of the various labels (intimate friend, fuck buddy etc.) are so subjective, it's difficult to choose the right one for any particular circumstance. And I think each couple have their own unique bond anyway.

I never went into the lifestyle with a naive notion that my wife could make love to another man and not develop some feelings for him...or him for her. And I think that knowledge is part of the arousal for me as a cuckold husband. To know that another man is enjoying not only my wife's body, but his own unique emotional bond with her. Not to the point of him taking over my place as her husband, but somewhere between a platonic friendship and a marriage bond. I have never felt threatened by him that way, and I know Juli does not desire more than a sexual / intimate friendship with him.

But I do think this is one area of the lifestyle that often gets over looked. It's easier to talk about the physical sex that takes place between a hot wife and her lover, but the emotional connection between them is much more vague. But it is also the most erotic part of the lifestyle for me as the husband.

Mark


You two gentlemen are on to an aspect of open relations that is typically treated as threatening, yet has the potential to create a greater marital bond between husband and wife. The act of cherishing your wife's pleasure, both physical and emotional, can be the most intense and satisfying aspect of a marriage based upon loving devotion to each other. Women do have the capacity to emotionally and physically bond with more than one person.

Whether your wife carries on a relationship by herself in a classic affair, or you share the bedroom together with other partners, to see the glow in your wife's face, the extra energy in her step; this is worth the "risk." I believe the over-wash of love, lust, and romance this generates back in the marital home is worth it.

I see this as an evolution of adulthood. Once men and women reach either a certain time in their marriage and/or reach a certain age, the interest in extra marital adventures increases. It does not have to be the beginning of the end of a marriage, as it is so often portrayed, but a natural evolution of it.

This does not to have to turn into a negative, but it does require a higher level of maturity on all parties involved to be successful.


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Unread postPosted: Fri Aug 11, 2017 4:41 pm 
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When a couple reach the peak of their sexual life 2 things happen, gets better or worse. Lol. Getting better would involve fantasy , when a couple can life out their fantasy it is a great thing. Helping your mate have their sexual fantasy meet will prove your love and they allow you to have yours. 2 cents


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Unread postPosted: Fri Aug 11, 2017 4:43 pm 
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I can see our long range life filled with a metro type guy that isn't mean to me but friends and all 3 living together and having sex with each other. And then she cuck a us both with a 3rd guy. I would let her have as many as she wants.


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Unread postPosted: Sat Aug 12, 2017 8:30 am 
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NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:
When a couple reach the peak of their sexual life 2 things happen, gets better or worse. Lol. Getting better would involve fantasy , when a couple can life out their fantasy it is a great thing. Helping your mate have their sexual fantasy meet will prove your love and they allow you to have yours. 2 cents

nevertoolate wrote:
You two gentlemen are on to an aspect of open relations that is typically treated as threatening, yet has the potential to create a greater marital bond between husband and wife. The act of cherishing your wife's pleasure, both physical and emotional, can be the most intense and satisfying aspect of a marriage based upon loving devotion to each other. Women do have the capacity to emotionally and physically bond with more than one person.

Whether your wife carries on a relationship by herself in a classic affair, or you share the bedroom together with other partners, to see the glow in your wife's face, the extra energy in her step; this is worth the "risk." I believe the over-wash of love, lust, and romance this generates back in the marital home is worth it.

I see this as an evolution of adulthood. Once men and women reach either a certain time in their marriage and/or reach a certain age, the interest in extra marital adventures increases. It does not have to be the beginning of the end of a marriage, as it is so often portrayed, but a natural evolution of it.

This does not to have to turn into a negative, but it does require a higher level of maturity on all parties involved to be successful.

I totally agree with your thoughts nevertoolate as well as NC-hotwife-hubby. I think we have finally hit on the best part of this lifestyle. Accepting and even embracing the reality of the emotional bond that our wife has with her lover. Rather than a threat it is a wonderful addition to our marital relationship.

I agree with you too that as my wife and I have now been married for over 35 years, we feel quite secure in our relationship to each other, and this security allows us to include a third person. For me seeing my wife and her lover bond emotionally, and to give them the freedom to express their bond sexually in private, is the best part of our own marital / sexual relationship as a couple.

Mark

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Unread postPosted: Sat Aug 12, 2017 1:41 pm 
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we think that women need many things in and out of a relationship. and many men cant do it all for women. so if you really loved her and wanted her happy and there was something you couldn't do but another man could why would you let him give that to her. when a woman has truly everything she could ask for out of 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 men she will be in heaven and treat each man great but for the husband that let her have everything in life she will love like no other.


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Unread postPosted: Sat Aug 12, 2017 5:13 pm 
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NC-hotwife-hubby wrote:
we think that women need many things in and out of a relationship. and many men cant do it all for women. so if you really loved her and wanted her happy and there was something you couldn't do but another man could why would you let him give that to her. when a woman has truly everything she could ask for out of 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 men she will be in heaven and treat each man great but for the husband that let her have everything in life she will love like no other.


Hence; "variety is the spice of life."


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Unread postPosted: Wed Aug 16, 2017 6:37 pm 
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The emotional connections my wife has with her lovers has been intense for us as well. That bond keeps me excited about continuing as it does her. I look forward to our annual pro footaball game with one lover. He will fuck her all weekend and he and I connect on the football game.


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