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Unread postPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 4:59 pm 
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Do you guys think about coming out of the closet??

Sam and I are essentially in an open marriage. She's looking for a BF, and I'm dating a GF. To be honest, I prefer her dating to me dating, but she's still on the hunt. Her interests is to find someone for a longer term thing, at which time we might end up like you guys...

And for this and other reasons I wonder if we should just come out and tell people.

Yes, it's risqué, but does anyone really care, at the end of the day, what people do in private?? Of course another consideration is the kids. They are too round to understand at this point, but later will open parents matter to them? Will it effect them?

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Unread postPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 5:18 pm 
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Samanthasman wrote:
Do you guys think about coming out of the closet??

Sam and I are essentially in an open marriage. She's looking for a BF, and I'm dating a GF. To be honest, I prefer her dating to me dating, but she's still on the hunt. Her interests is to find someone for a longer term thing, at which time we might end up like you guys...

And for this and other reasons I wonder if we should just come out and tell people.

Yes, it's risqué, but does anyone really care, at the end of the day, what people do in private?? Of course another consideration is the kids. They are too round to understand at this point, but later will open parents matter to them? Will it effect them?



I'm not quite sure.... was this question for me or for the gentleman that just posted his story?


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Unread postPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 6:45 pm 
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Both of you...

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Unread postPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 8:34 pm 
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We think about it all the time.

Right now, despite the fact that it has been ten years, there are still some family members who have no idea that we live this way...parents and siblings, for example. As I said, we've never formally had "the talk" with the kids, but we're pretty sure they know something is "unique" about us.

My wife routinely risks going to lunch at various local restaurants with him and without me. (One time our next door neighbor saw them together eating at the local casino without me...and stopped me to wonder if I knew how "odd" it looked.) He routinely goes places (i.e. camping) and wishes my wife could accompany when it's clear I can't.

They have co-workers who would *freak* (in a good way) if they knew he was putting his penis inside of her. There are other co-workers (females) who would be intensely jealous if they knew he was putting his penis inside of her. ("That bitch gets whatever she wants," they'd say. "Leave it to her to have two cocks on demand.")

We know that we're eventually going to have to come out, probably as we close in on retirement. We're waiting until the kids are in college/beyond and able to handle the complex matter of admitting that their mother has two "husbands."


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Unread postPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2017 8:59 pm 
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Nobody knows about this in either of our worlds (or his either) and we prefer to keep it that way. I really don't care what people think actually. But the Mrs does. For now at least. But as I have said before, it's not like she dates him. 95% of what we do is all 3 of us together. We all prefer it that way... It is kind of difficult to explain what we have. It's very deep and very serious. And it's awesome, amazing, and nothing like we could have ever imagined.


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Unread postPosted: Mon Aug 14, 2017 1:13 pm 
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Can't wait to hear more from all three of you!


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Unread postPosted: Tue Aug 29, 2017 9:14 pm 
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Hi,
Jane here. I just love this thread and hearing about your mutual love, respect and admiration. I marvel at how this is working for you and wonder if you could elaborate on how you knew it was time to pursue this? I would love to find this with someone and I agree that it takes a very strong marriage and a very strong husband to share his wife in this way. Hubby and I have been married 35 years and have only experienced mfm with three single men - two of which I am getting quite attached to. They are just wonderful guys - totally different from each other and from my husband. But they are both used to being with couples and not entirely sure about the Hot Wife scenario.

My husband is wonderful about giving us alone time to build rapport because to me it's so much more than just a fuck...I want to build rapport and relationship with them too...not the same as what I have with husband...but something.

I am so happy for you both and hope you will continue to share how this relationship is working. I always say that life is like a box crayons and that we share our brightest colours by loving others...I really believe it's how God intended the ebb and flow of our beautiful lives.

Warmly,
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I hope you and the family are far away from danger.

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Unread postPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2017 5:42 am 
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Three cheers to your "epic" night with Allen. The fact that the three of you all play together is more than awesome, it's a testimony to the love that you all share. Does your sexy lady get some alone time with her special guy?


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Unread postPosted: Mon Sep 11, 2017 7:42 pm 
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I just love this thread and all of the great comments. I would love to find something like this MrsSilverRider and I agree with your Mr. that this arrangement isn't easy to come by.

And your comment was very thought provoking Zorro!
"Sex can be so much better when there is love or at least strong fondness for the extra guy. And your mutual respect and liking make this nearly perfect. Hell, maybe it is perfect."

I think it would be just fuckin' perfect!
Jane
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Unread postPosted: Sun Oct 08, 2017 12:18 pm 
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Mrs jnj doe wrote:
I just love this thread and all of the great comments. I would love to find something like this MrsSilverRider and I agree with your Mr. that this arrangement isn't easy to come by.

And your comment was very thought provoking Zorro!
"Sex can be so much better when there is love or at least strong fondness for the extra guy. And your mutual respect and liking make this nearly perfect. Hell, maybe it is perfect."

I think it would be just fuckin' perfect!
Jane
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I really apologize for being too lazy to give you a adequate response to this... I really am just too damn lazy. Since I only get on here on my phone, long answers on this small phone keyboard get tough.
I can say this... those not in a poly situation have a hard time understanding all this. But those in a real one often can or do. It’s not perfect. Nothing in life is... but it can be absolutely awesome if it’s navigated correctly. And currently, that’s where we are. In an awesome place...


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That's because the three of you are awesome together ... And that's because the two of you are awesome together :)


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