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luckyguy3 wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 24, 2023 1:22 pm

Only had three quick days with Jen, already back at the grindstone up north. Love our business but it can get tiresome as the summer draws to a close. Only so many ways you can answer the same questions to literally thousands of tourists in the course of the season. Fortunately just another three weeks and we will be wrapping up for the year. Jen is hoping to join me for closing up the shop, that will be nice.

It should come as no surprise that most of our discussions while I was with her concerned Jen’s rapidly developing relationship with Bart. Their long weekend together could not have gone much better. Lots of sex including one particular session which she described as “great”. They are getting much more familiar and comfortable with each other physically and taking their exploration to new levels. But it is the rest of their interactions which is probably most remarkable. Seems like they talked pretty much nonstop the whole time about a wide variety of subjects. They just really enjoy each others company and the more they share the closer they become. So far Bart has not shown any reluctance about entering into an ongoing involvement with a woman who is already married to someone else.

They talked about their relationship and where it is headed. Jen told him that while she is happily married to me, her affair with Bart is definitely not just about the sex. Jen told him that she likes him a lot and that she would like to continue seeing him on a regular basis. Bart seems equally enthused. He rearranged a business trip to allow him a couple of nights in our home town late next week. They plan to get a VRBO and just hangout for that time. Jen says a lot of their time together this past trip was very “domestic”, they were very much a couple both at his place and when they went out together. They both seem to like that a lot.

I could not help myself and asked her if she was “falling in love with him.” Jen said no but that he was a “neat guy”, that she “really enjoyed their time together” and other similar stuff. She also said that they are now being more affectionate with each other in non sexual situations, cuddling on the couch while chatting, and even using endearments. She admits that it is “romantic”, they have become much closer and it is already a “genuine relationship”.

So that all sounds pretty serious to me. On the one hand I am excited and happy for her - genuine compersion stuff. At other other times I get those old butterflies. Then there are odd moments where I feel really protective of her, but not in a jealous way. It’s more of a “Papa Bear” thing. For example, since I came back up here she told me that he had been a little slow about responding to a text from her. That made the hairs on the back of my neck rise a little, I wanted to say “Hey you, she is an amazing woman, don’t be taking her for granted even for a moment.” In reality as far as I can tell he has been a total gentleman with Jen and treated her with genuine respect and affection. But I still go through that whole range of emotions.

Overall though I am happy for both of them and would like to see this work. They are already talking about plans for additional visits over the course of the fall. Hopefully I will get the chance to meet him on one of those, that would be good.

So that’s where things are at.

LG3

luckyguy3 wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 24, 2023 1:22 pm

Only had three quick days with Jen, already back at the grindstone up north. Love our business but it can get tiresome as the summer draws to a close. Only so many ways you can answer the same questions to literally thousands of tourists in the course of the season. Fortunately just another three weeks and we will be wrapping up for the year. Jen is hoping to join me for closing up the shop, that will be nice.

It should come as no surprise that most of our discussions while I was with her concerned Jen’s rapidly developing relationship with Bart. Their long weekend together could not have gone much better. Lots of sex including one particular session which she described as “great”. They are getting much more familiar and comfortable with each other physically and taking their exploration to new levels. But it is the rest of their interactions which is probably most remarkable. Seems like they talked pretty much nonstop the whole time about a wide variety of subjects. They just really enjoy each others company and the more they share the closer they become. So far Bart has not shown any reluctance about entering into an ongoing involvement with a woman who is already married to someone else.

They talked about their relationship and where it is headed. Jen told him that while she is happily married to me, her affair with Bart is definitely not just about the sex. Jen told him that she likes him a lot and that she would like to continue seeing him on a regular basis. Bart seems equally enthused. He rearranged a business trip to allow him a couple of nights in our home town late next week. They plan to get a VRBO and just hangout for that time. Jen says a lot of their time together this past trip was very “domestic”, they were very much a couple both at his place and when they went out together. They both seem to like that a lot.

I could not help myself and asked her if she was “falling in love with him.” Jen said no but that he was a “neat guy”, that she “really enjoyed their time together” and other similar stuff. She also said that they are now being more affectionate with each other in non sexual situations, cuddling on the couch while chatting, and even using endearments. She admits that it is “romantic”, they have become much closer and it is already a “genuine relationship”.

So that all sounds pretty serious to me. On the one hand I am excited and happy for her - genuine compersion stuff. At other other times I get those old butterflies. Then there are odd moments where I feel really protective of her, but not in a jealous way. It’s more of a “Papa Bear” thing. For example, since I came back up here she told me that he had been a little slow about responding to a text from her. That made the hairs on the back of my neck rise a little, I wanted to say “Hey you, she is an amazing woman, don’t be taking her for granted even for a moment.” In reality as far as I can tell he has been a total gentleman with Jen and treated her with genuine respect and affection. But I still go through that whole range of emotions.

Overall though I am happy for both of them and would like to see this work. They are already talking about plans for additional visits over the course of the fall. Hopefully I will get the chance to meet him on one of those, that would be good.

So that’s where things are at.

LG3

luckyguy3 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 25, 2023 3:05 am

Hello All, sorry that I have not posted in a while. It’s probably because my angst is pretty much dissipated. Jen got to spend a few days with Bart in a town about two hours drive away from our home last month. On the third day I drove down and met the two of them for dinner. Meeting went really well, he and I got along great and Jen was comfortable - even pleased - to have her two men with her. At then end of dinner they walked me back to my car, she kissed me goodbye, then they headed back to their VRBO while I drove home.

Jen drove herself home the next day. She was pretty much glowing after this last visit, she said it had been their best yet and that she felt the connection was deepening. She really enjoyed being able to be open as part of a couple with him. We both felt confident enough about how things were going that we invited Bart to spend Thanksgiving weekend here with us in our home. We have introduced him to several acquaintances as a friend we met through the business who we really hit it off with. Once the guests had left and the cleanup was done I told Jen and Bart that I would see them in the morning and headed off to bed on my own. As I write these words in the early morning hours they are sleeping in each others arms in the apartment above our garage. I had hoped that they would use the guest bedroom down the hall but Jen (and I suspect Bart as well) had wanted more privacy. Hard to argue with that.

I think this weekend will be a significant one for a lot of reasons. First, to see how comfortable they are spending time together here in our home. Next, what plans will they be making for the next month? It has been six months since they met, holidays are important markers. Will they want some special time together around Christmas or New Year’s? Am also curious to see if they start planning a trip somewhere together, Jen has told me that is something that she would like to do.

But probably the most significant step will be for Bart to decide what he wants from this relationship going forward. I can tell how much he likes Jen, how comfortable the two of them are together. He clearly has enjoyed spending time with her. But will he be content to remain in a long distance polyamorous relationship with a woman who is married to someone else? My gut tells me that Jen is ready for it, that she is mentally and emotionally liking being both my loving wife and his significant other. I suspect they will have some talks about all this before the weekend is over. We will see.

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 25, 2023 7:12 am

Thanks for the update LG3. It was very nice of you to have Jen and Bart spend time as a couple over Thanksgiving.. Looking forward to how the relationship evolves over the Christmas break and in the New Year

luckyguy3 wrote: ↑

Wed Nov 29, 2023 10:04 pm

The most honest answer to your question is yes, it would interest me. Not so much for my own physical pleasure but rather to watch Jen enjoying hers with someone she truly cares about. In her only prior polyamorous relationship with my former best friend the three of us got together several times over the course of over two years. I liked the creative ways he and I could collaborate to please Jen. But without question what I liked most was watching her. When I am with her, we are so physically close to one another that it is hard to really see everything that is going on. But to be close to her watching while she loses herself in the passion of lovemaking is probably the most beautiful thing I have ever seen in my life (with the sole exceptions of her in her bridal gown on the day we were married and the look on her face after each of our daughters was born.)