My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

When a fuck buddy becomes something more.
germancuck-1
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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by germancuck-1 » Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:39 am

trecital wrote:
Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am

I'm not sure that "BF/FB/FWB/Bull"s are looked at somewhat unkindly. I don't really see the evidence for that.


Yeah, poor old Bull....my heart is bleeding for him....(not!).
Uhuuh..... ;)


trecital wrote:
Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am
....but surely the bull, FB or whatever, knew that was the situation at the beginning.
At the beginning maybe, but the situation can change.

trecital wrote:
Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am
As a Bull/FB etc you shouldn't expect to 'have your cake and eat it'.
Correct, which is why I did not say that.

trecital wrote:
Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am
Jen showing him the door was the right thing to do.
I agree.

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by DoctorLuv » Fri May 12, 2023 5:25 am

Fascinating!

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by WACouple » Fri May 19, 2023 9:17 pm

Just made it through this whole thread, and I wanted to add my thanks to LG3 for the amazing job he did (over the course of years!) of sharing his poly experience. It was incredible to read, and I do find myself hoping against hope that he and Jen find a way to experience this excitement once again! I’d also love another update, if LG3 can find the time…

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by venus-can99 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 12:14 pm

I just finished reading thru the posts and thanks for sharing your experiences in polyamory. As I read thru the thread I was hoping against hope that it would not end this way, but real life and people are complicated.

Hope things are going well for your family.

Venus

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by luckyguy3 » Tue Jul 18, 2023 8:03 am

I still get surprised when I see people checking this thread. It was a very unique situation, thanks to all of you who expressed support and interest over the years.

There has been no reunion between Dan and Jen and at this point I doubt there ever will be. In the past two months there has been a major unexpected new development in Jen’s life however. I have started posting about it in a separate thread on this board entitled “New Developments” for anyone who is interested.

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by luckyguy3 » Tue Jul 18, 2023 8:03 am

I still get surprised when I see people checking this thread. It was a very unique situation, thanks to all of you who expressed support and interest over the years.

There has been no reunion between Dan and Jen and at this point I doubt there ever will be. In the past two months there has been a major unexpected new development in Jen’s life however. I have started posting about it in a separate thread on this board entitled “New Developments” for anyone who is interested.

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Re: My wife has fallen in love with my best friend

Unread post by lovethis » Tue Aug 15, 2023 6:20 pm

your separate thread bought me here LOL.

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