Our Hotwives

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am

I'm not sure that "BF/FB/FWB/Bull"s are looked at somewhat unkindly. I don't really see the evidence for that.


Yeah, poor old Bull....my heart is bleeding for him....(not!).

Uhuuh.....

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am

....but surely the bull, FB or whatever, knew that was the situation at the beginning.

At the beginning maybe, but the situation can change.

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am

As a Bull/FB etc you shouldn't expect to 'have your cake and eat it'.

Correct, which is why I did not say that.

trecital wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:04 am

Jen showing him the door was the right thing to do.

I agree.

Fascinating!

Just made it through this whole thread, and I wanted to add my thanks to LG3 for the amazing job he did (over the course of years!) of sharing his poly experience. It was incredible to read, and I do find myself hoping against hope that he and Jen find a way to experience this excitement once again! I’d also love another update, if LG3 can find the time…

I just finished reading thru the posts and thanks for sharing your experiences in polyamory. As I read thru the thread I was hoping against hope that it would not end this way, but real life and people are complicated.

Hope things are going well for your family.

Venus

I still get surprised when I see people checking this thread. It was a very unique situation, thanks to all of you who expressed support and interest over the years.

There has been no reunion between Dan and Jen and at this point I doubt there ever will be. In the past two months there has been a major unexpected new development in Jen’s life however. I have started posting about it in a separate thread on this board entitled “New Developments” for anyone who is interested.

I still get surprised when I see people checking this thread. It was a very unique situation, thanks to all of you who expressed support and interest over the years.

There has been no reunion between Dan and Jen and at this point I doubt there ever will be. In the past two months there has been a major unexpected new development in Jen’s life however. I have started posting about it in a separate thread on this board entitled “New Developments” for anyone who is interested.

your separate thread bought me here LOL.