Am I the only stag who hates the term, bull.

[Intosex]

I am a stag. I am not a cuck. Men must be respectful. I very much dislike the term bull because that implies that he will not be respectful since a real bull doesn’t respect anything. If a bull tries to seem otherwise and turn into a bull then I will be a matador. This is not to be disrespectful of those that enjoy a bull, but we are the ones in control.

[Outlaw]

Well stated.

[Wife4Guys]

We never used that or any other (fantasy?) testosterone overload related term, there were guests that passed through our time and space. In hindsight, as there are certain protocols and restraints on the behavior of guests, perhaps that may have been an unconscious motivator for guest becoming our term in referring to the gentlemen callers we have entertained.

[rocknjoe]

Nope. We hate the term as well and we never use it. We refer to them as her black boyfriends.

[Adabel]

We dislike this term as well. If someone refers to themselves as a bull we move to someone else. Makes me believe they're not respectful or courteous and only after their own pleasures.

[funforbothnsa]

We say thanks but no thanks when someone refers to themselves as a bull. Not what we are looking for.

[Wisher]

It's been discussed a few times.


I find it odd that the OP uses one animal term while rejecting the use of another.

[kaskap79]

I don't like the term Bull either.

I prefer to use the terms Lover or Playmate.

[PANTIES]

I agree this is not a good word, but a word worse is the “c” word guys use numerous occasions. To me that is the ultimate nasty word.

Pauline

[Outlaw]

The OP didn't name the category.

[WPBCouplex]

I think it’s all relative. There’s a guy, our wives, he’s going to have sex with her and that’s that. However, I can understand how “bull “ sounds like a not great term for some people . It’s not that they’re being bullies. Male bulls fuck a bunch Of cows with no fucks given (no pun intended) We just call them play dates and don’t get too caught up in the minutia.

[blondemilf]

In a cuck way, I guess it may fit. I openly share my wife but bull implies we're not man enough to get it up.

I not only hate the term bull, but I think it's stupid.

Most "bulls" are:
(1) pretending to be a player or alpha, but just normal guys
(2) cheating on their gf or wife
(3) not better in sex, not pleasing more the women, not having a huge cock
(4) guys that can get a girl way out of their league because of you who share yours with them



When they're nice interesting guys they don't call themselves Bulls and that's the type of guys we like to meet.

[Rooter48]

I a male guest star and hate the term

[Outlaw]

Well put blondemilf. We've been married almost 50 years. If my wife called them a bull, I'd rethink this open marriage.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife once said "My lovers are not bulls and I am not a cow.

[Outlaw]

I didn't name the board or the header. I never use stag except in this forum. Lovers or friend usually covers us. However, to each....

[hendonKiya]

i dont think there are many words for the choice of guy one picks, bull as mentioned implies alpha,
cant stand the thought of a guy trying to think were into cuckolding and playing that role, so always clear before we meet

[Outlaw]

Exactly what bull implies. That would be a huge mistake in our case. Looking back, we just call it a date..

[Lugnut]

Neither my wife nor I like the term "bull." We prefer our third to be an equal partner and enjoy the fun and friendship as much as we do. Wife prefers "boyfriend."

[Outlaw]

I think bull works on a cuck thread. I won't even read anything that has bull in it.

[jw_kk]

Another opinion: the terms/labels/categories used in for aspects of this lifestyle are for the most part stupid, idiotic and offensive. Most often, they are racially over-toned, an in origin. Others are attempts by the homophobic, or ego-driven to avoid feelings of inadequacy, or dance away from homophobia (stag).

Participants in this lifestyle are not livestock (bulls or cows), nor are they livestock (stags and vixens) - they are men and women. Technically, definitionally and semantically, any man who's wife has sex with another man is a cuckold. It really is that simple.

A vixen is a female fox. A stag is a male deer. A bull is the male counterpart to a female cow, usually bovine. My wife is not a cow, or a fox, her encounter partners are not livestock or wildlife. The labels and artificial terminology is just ridiculous.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Another opinion: the terms/labels/categories used in for aspects of this lifestyle are for the most part stupid, idiotic and offensive. Most often, they are racially over-toned, an in origin. Others are attempts by the homophobic, or ego-driven to avoid feelings of inadequacy, or dance away from homophobia (stag).

Participants in this lifestyle are not livestock (bulls or cows), nor are they livestock (stags and vixens) - they are men and women. Technically, definitionally and semantically, any man who's wife has sex with another man is a cuckold. It really is that simple.

A vixen is a female fox. A stag is a male deer. A bull is the male counterpart to a female cow, usually bovine. My wife is not a cow, or a fox, her encounter partners are not livestock or wildlife. The labels and artificial terminology is just ridiculous.

VERY well-stated, and I have to agree. Since joining this board, I have come to dislike the term. I think it's a very human and habitual thing to want to put labels on things (and people). It helps us better identify them...but it' still can be offensive, depending upon the context.

[SimpleEnigma]

Another opinion: the terms/labels/categories used in for aspects of this lifestyle are for the most part stupid, idiotic and offensive. Most often, they are racially over-toned, an in origin. Others are attempts by the homophobic, or ego-driven to avoid feelings of inadequacy, or dance away from homophobia (stag).

Participants in this lifestyle are not livestock (bulls or cows), nor are they livestock (stags and vixens) - they are men and women. Technically, definitionally and semantically, any man who's wife has sex with another man is a cuckold. It really is that simple.

A vixen is a female fox. A stag is a male deer. A bull is the male counterpart to a female cow, usually bovine. My wife is not a cow, or a fox, her encounter partners are not livestock or wildlife. The labels and artificial terminology is just ridiculous.

Couldn't agree more. In our circle of special friends, we run the gamut of those who just like to watch (guys and gals), want to become VERY immersed in participation, are bi, and those who dig humiliation to various degrees. These friends are not stags, cucks, vixens, or wimps. They are Tim, John, Sally, etc. etc. While name calling has its time and place (for example, to enhance someone's sense of arousal or humiliation because you know they like it), we otherwise avoid any of those silly labels.

Let's face it, most of us here feel a bit on the fringe of mainstream society anyway. We don't need to fit inside categories created by people who don't and never will understand us.

[Wisher]

Perhaps a first step would be to petition Admin to change the name of this and a couple of other forum sections.

[warmnsalty]

Neither Mrs or I are big on labels of any kind. Find amusement and bewilderment with the current "need" to have every tiny segment of sexuality categorized and labeled. We both identify as bi, meaning to us, we enjoy sexual play with either sex. Don't care what % someone thinks they are etc. IF they've got a body part we want to get our mouths on we're on. That said, we understand that roleplay etc can be a key part of the way some play, not something that makes sense for us. To each his one, we're not going to yuck anyone's yum as they say. We just want to play with as many new sexual organs as we can, regardless of their label.