Stags with bad ending. I have Filipina.

[Mexicoman]

Hello, I'm Mexicoman. New user of this forum.
Unfortinately, we need to know about bad endings as well. I live on Germany.
I'm just married since 4 months with pinay that i meet through Filipinocupid many time ago.
We are very religious and activists, charity, fight againts abortion, etc. And we want to make many kids.
But since many time ago I cant stop masturbate thinking in she with other boys. She doesn't lets me see porn neither, only hentai.
One time I make the joke of say during missionnaire:
I'm thinking that Im one big dick caucasian fucking you very well, she was totally angry saying that how is that I'm thinking that and sex stops.
Yesterday I ask she to imagine having sex with other boys and she was crying saying that I want to become her a bitch.

I only want to see her face enjoying other dick and drinking her pussy full of male milk.
What can I do?
I dont want to put in dangerous our marriage, is very important to me the family. I dont want my wife in the future divorced of me due to she choosing a rich bad boy due to hedonism addiction.
If I ends up being divorced I would feel miserable all my life and destroyed forever...
Please, I need help...

If you have relationship with pinays similar mindset say It, please.

[SilverStag]

Any woman who reacts like yours did, is not interested in playing out your fantasy. If you value your relationship, I suggest that you just keep your fantasy to yourself and enjoy what is offered here vicariously.

[wannabecUKold]

Silver stag is absolutely right. Many women see this suggestion as you seeing them as sex object to be hawked around to other men. She sees it as totally personal between you two.
Best to enjoy others stories here.

That said, things are not too bad for you. She will watch hentai. Over time try to get her to relax more and open up about what turns her on. And when you are married longer she might find any form of external sex as less threatening to your marriage. Take baby steps such as going to a nudist beach. Make friends with couples who are liberal and open to talking. Etc

[gulfcpl]

This is pretty simple. Keep your fantasies to yourself. That or keep talking and lose your wife. Some just can’t stop talking.I hope you’re not one of them.

[Mexicoman]

Thanks for your advices.
I Will stop saying these things. But yes, we see hentai Netorare and with rape scenes together.
But not sex toys neither porn. She is totally againts porn because she say It generates false sex expectations and make people wish other people. She is right but she doesnt see that hentai has the same effect.
The only mind change due to hentai looking, is that she ask me if I want a boobs expansions to hers because in hentai many Girls has Big tits.

[Des 31]

Sadly, our way of life isn't for most. It requires interest and desire for extramarital sex by the wife and the appreciation of that by the husband. Aside from that, the relationship requires a solid marriage with trust and good communication. Without those circumstances, I can't see how experimenting can turn out well.

I wish you luck, but you have a high hurdle with your wife's current attitude.

[aandmp]

From another perspective - My wife is Asian also. 2nd marriage for us both. People around her had told her that when she came to the US, I was going to make her fuck my friends. Very conservative, modest. As I'd been in the LS a bit before, knew she was not going to want to be involved, I never mentioned or pressed. But, after about 6 years of marriage, I suggested we visit some nude resorts, so we went to one. Family type place - heck, I'd never been to one. She was very embarrassed, and shy. We went back a few times, and ventured to some in FL. No mention ever made towards swinging. Fast forward, and she'd been back home to Asia (hot weather) I was home (ice & snow). For about 3 weeks, we facetimed, and she would complain about the hot, me the cold. So, I surprised her with a trip to Jamaica when she returned. A week at Hedo, and, not knowing about Hedo, I had booked during swingers week. Well, we got there, and it was a bit of a shock, compared to the family style nude places we'd been to. She stayed nude in the pool, but with a look on her face that said "don't get near me". lol
Still, I asked her a few months later if she wanted to return, she agreed. Went, had a better time. Met a couple talked with them, had meals with them, she enjoyed this. Still - no swinging mention or tried. But the atmosphere there is great. The couple were returning a few months later, so I asked MP if she wanted to go, she did, so we went again. Along towards the end of the week, it was obvious the couple wanted to 'party' with us, and my wife liked the male, he was not pushy or anything. So, we ended up with him in our room for a bit of a mfm, then his wife came and joined in. Was great fun. Afterwards, I had no idea how my wife felt about our mfmf. But, she sat up on the bed, said "that was fun, I want to do it again". I smiled. Now, almost 8 years later, we've been with a few other couples, but have settled into mfm or mmf. Works for me, works for her. So, never say never.

[Mexicoman]

From another perspective - My wife is Asian also. 2nd marriage for us both. People around her had told her that when she came to the US, I was going to make her fuck my friends. Very conservative, modest. As I'd been in the LS a bit before, knew she was not going to want to be involved, I never mentioned or pressed. But, after about 6 years of marriage, I suggested we visit some nude resorts, so we went to one. Family type place - heck, I'd never been to one. She was very embarrassed, and shy. We went back a few times, and ventured to some in FL. No mention ever made towards swinging. Fast forward, and she'd been back home to Asia (hot weather) I was home (ice & snow). For about 3 weeks, we facetimed, and she would complain about the hot, me the cold. So, I surprised her with a trip to Jamaica when she returned. A week at Hedo, and, not knowing about Hedo, I had booked during swingers week. Well, we got there, and it was a bit of a shock, compared to the family style nude places we'd been to. She stayed nude in the pool, but with a look on her face that said "don't get near me". lol
Still, I asked her a few months later if she wanted to return, she agreed. Went, had a better time. Met a couple talked with them, had meals with them, she enjoyed this. Still - no swinging mention or tried. But the atmosphere there is great. The couple were returning a few months later, so I asked MP if she wanted to go, she did, so we went again. Along towards the end of the week, it was obvious the couple wanted to 'party' with us, and my wife liked the male, he was not pushy or anything. So, we ended up with him in our room for a bit of a mfm, then his wife came and joined in. Was great fun. Afterwards, I had no idea how my wife felt about our mfmf. But, she sat up on the bed, said "that was fun, I want to do it again". I smiled. Now, almost 8 years later, we've been with a few other couples, but have settled into mfm or mmf. Works for me, works for her. So, never say never.

Is she Filipina also? I never will fuck other woman, I'm sure this will destroy my relationship but I'm ok if she let's you fack other woman in mfmf

[aandmp]

No, she's not, she's from Vietnam.

[dickiea584]

My wife is also Pinay(been together over 25 years)she also looked super tradition when we just met but time gone by now she's mid 40 and started to much lighten up, allowing me to bring in any of my buddies to join us as long as those guys aren't local and keep it private. Although,we haven't gone that far yet but it's a start so be patient and take it slow best to start with some porn movies while fucking her.

[Mexicoman]

My wife is also Pinay(been together over 25 years)she also looked super tradition when we just met but time gone by now she's mid 40 and started to much lighten up, allowing me to bring in any of my buddies to join us as long as those guys aren't local and keep it private. Although,we haven't gone that far yet but it's a start so be patient and take it slow best to start with some porn movies while fucking her.

Do you think you are close to share your wife? Be loyal and accompany her to mass, thats very important.

I'm triyng to make my filipina into a corrupted sex lover: now I'm pissing on her body and boobies, last time she masturbate in a taxi and in the airplane I was masturbating her pussy until she cums a lot.

[dickiea584]

My wife is also Pinay(been together over 25 years)she also looked super tradition when we just met but time gone by now she's mid 40 and started to much lighten up, allowing me to bring in any of my buddies to join us as long as those guys aren't local and keep it private. Although,we haven't gone that far yet but it's a start so be patient and take it slow best to start with some porn movies while fucking her.

Do you think you are close to share your wife? Be loyal and accompany her to mass, thats very important.

I'm triyng to make my filipina into a corrupted sex lover: now I'm pissing on her body and boobies, last time she masturbate in a taxi and in the airplane I was masturbating her pussy until she cums a lot.

My wife is ready to take any cock I bring in as long as I can prove that her privacy is safe.As a matter of fact,there were numbers of time she agreed and ready to fuck some of my out of town business partners when they have a chance to be in town and invited us to dinner in their hotel if those guys brought it up. Unfortunately,those guys didn't but she'll let them join if they asked.

[Mexicoman]

It become worst, I cant see hentai neither. She becomes againts that.
But in the same time she wants to try public sex during night...
How each other corrupted her filipina?

I thought in invite a friend, and let he say how afortunate I'm that my girlfriend doesn't cheat me for a real big Dick. And ask me and her to show us his Dick, and me seeing yes to see her reaction. But it wont work with me filipina, she is enough smart.
Do you think a real province Filipina could fall in that trap and let the other guy touch his Dick in front of ther? And next time go to work and let the filipina with that invited friend alone in my house.

[Mexicoman]

I have broken with her. I need to follow my wishes and the stag vixen life of fuck my future Filipina with other men.

[SilverStag]

I think you have given away a woman who loved you for a dream that may never be realized. Too bad. I hope you have learned from this and that it did not cause her too much pain.

Re-evaluate your purpose in life. This stuff is just the special topping on the meal of life, it isn't the reason for it.

[Mexicoman]

I didnt have alternative, for me was imposible cum inside her due to vanilla sex. I was tired from it, even no more porn or hentai. She loves intercourse but she didnt know or wanted to do other things outside intercourse.
She loved me a lot and i love her too, but maybe with patience I could find other good woman loyal in love who will be agree to suck my Dick while other Man fucks her anus bareback and cum inside her.
I was so frustrated, always looking cuckold or threesomes sex with the husband involve there. Why does she not wants make me happy?
I was so, so frustrated. And after every month, my frustration grows and grows... thanks to god we werent married by god, just in Major, in other way I couldnt divorce. I has been with a lot of anxiety since my lasts posts, jeaolous about all men with filipinas opened to stag vixen or cuckold sex.
I love her, she doesnt want to accept my help never more but Im trying to help her even now, i Will help her forever and as much as I will can. I dont want to make her miserable, but I want to enjoy life also. Get the nice wife who is also my private pornstar who loves big dicks and fuck other men with me. I want to see how other dicks men become hard due to my love.

[2inUPMichigan]

I didnt have alternative, for me was imposible cum inside her due to vanilla sex. I was tired from it, even no more porn or hentai. She loves intercourse but she didnt know or wanted to do other things outside intercourse.
She loved me a lot and i love her too, but maybe with patience I could find other good woman loyal in love who will be agree to suck my Dick while other Man fucks her anus bareback and cum inside her.
I was so frustrated, always looking cuckold or threesomes sex with the husband involve there. Why does she not wants make me happy?
I was so, so frustrated. And after every month, my frustration grows and grows... thanks to god we werent married by god, just in Major, in other way I couldnt divorce. I has been with a lot of anxiety since my lasts posts, jeaolous about all men with filipinas opened to stag vixen or cuckold sex.
I love her, she doesnt want to accept my help never more but Im trying to help her even now, i Will help her forever and as much as I will can. I dont want to make her miserable, but I want to enjoy life also. Get the nice wife who is also my private pornstar who loves big dicks and fuck other men with me. I want to see how other dicks men become hard due to my love.

You are treating this as if her choice is to make you happy or make you miserable.
Her choice to make is something else entirely.
She has to decide if she can accept herself as a non-monogamous hotwife instead of as a monogamous married woman (which she had planned). It would be a completely different way of viewing herself and how she fits into the world around her.
She also has to decide if she wants to have sex with someone else. That may sound simple to you since you already have this fantasy.
However she has to consider what effect it will have on your relationship, concerns about privacy, how she will manage the time elements.

Hopefully my words have you considering that her decision is a lot more complex than making you happy or being concerned if you are ready for this to happen.

[tit5atat]

Many pinoys will slowly learn to play the way you want if you work slowly at it and let them feel comfortable. In general, they are very horny woman in that culture. However, there are some that are very strict and not willing to play any games. It would be best to start with one that works in a bar/club that caters to sexy things with customers. They will adapt quickly to your desires.
My previous Pinoy religious wife played rather quickly but after we were married was very reluctant. Once she felt it wouldn't hurt our relationship she eventually played with several guys. My current Pinoy girlfriend/fiance plays when the opportunity strikes and she has let me also play in a FFM within her rules (no contact info).
PM me if you want more details.

[Mexicoman]

Tit5salat,
The point is that I want a good mamá and wife also to raise many kids, and thats not easy to get.
For example, I have the contact fron filipino cupid of a good girl of 23y old opened to cuckolding who is not a scammer, but she is not the housewife type also. I can share that contact with someone who is willing to a stag/vixen or cuckold relacionados.
Im opened to get more info from you in private, although it seems you had been divorce from your first filipina wife and it would destroy me if my marriage ends like that. When I mean, marriage i mean church wedding, for me Major wedding is Just a document.
I Just want serious conservatice relationship and some big fucks of my wife with other men to enjoy her like a pornstar.
I dont know how good mamá and love loyal wife could be a bargirl accostumated to fast money and bad peers friends.

[tit5atat]

No, my first filipina and I didn't divorce. We had a close relationship. Unfortunately she died from covid at young age. My current filipina fiance is even more open but still would make a good house wife. She is a very dedicated partner and enjoys the idea of having fun together and with others. As long as she feels comfortable that our relationship is solid she will play. If she feels threatened by others that it will affect us then she would not want to play.