Taking it to the next level

[WPBCouplex]

We’ve been swinging for three years now and she’s had 6 partners. Every moment has been erotic, with the exception of the vetting process. I’ve brought up the thought of a gang bang or maybe even adding a third to our two guy rotation. I’m hoping to find someone way more endowed than the last 6 guys she’s been with. But she’s insistent that the two guy rotation is good for now and a gang bang while not out of the question is something we need to discuss further. Am I being glutinous and should I just be happy with what I have? Or is it normal to push the boundaries a bit more? Thanks!

[Tank Turner]

Hi WPBCouplex,

My belief is your wife's pleasure and euphoria are most important. She knows her comfort level. I'd respect her comfort level. She might expand it if she feels comfortable.

Years ago, while my wife and I were watching monster cock porn, I asked her if she could fuck a monster cock. She said she could but wouldn't want to. Hence, your wife might not want to fuck a 12" cock.

[WPBCouplex]

Thanks Tank,

She’s an undercover size queen for sure, her comment to me is “we have two guys we’re playing with right now, I’m not ready for a third”. I think that’s her hesitation.

[SilverStag]

Emotionally and physically, it is taxing for her.

My HW, Cecil, is not a fan of multiple men. She feels (because she is inherently a "pleaser") that she would feel obligated to focus on pleasing her multiple partners, and thus deny herself the concentration on her own body to achieve orgasm.

Don't let your own agenda screw up her fun.

[WPBCouplex]

Thanks SilverStag! Good point, I won’t ruin the good time

[leo-cpl]

We do not have like a bf for her, she enjoys meeting different guys, doesn't want to have anyone exclusive. I usually try and interact with guys online and explore, if there's a guy I like and I think he may be a good fit I continue to chat and have him on the horizon. She just says she doesn't want to chat n interact with too many new guys coz its time consuming. She prefers me to do the vetting and then introduce the guy to her on chat and then they chat n she decides of she wants to meet the guy casually, usually 2-3 voice calls also help her decide.

WPB, I would suggest, she's telling you exactly what she wants and she's making it simple for you. I for one feels the best part of hotwifing is the wife having a good time! Vetting may not be exciting but its important to weed out the jerks and increases of possibility of meeting good people. We have kinda similar stats as you, in over 2 years we have met 7 guys and except for 1-2 guys we have played multiple times with the guys. IMO it helps keep things exciting and different.

[WPBCouplex]

Thanks LEO, I agree with your response. The vetting can be exhausting, but very necessary. Keeping things exciting is what helps keep a relationship strong

[warmnsalty]

Let Mrs make the call, that being said it's important that you're open with her about your wants as well. In our current situation Mrs has 2 regulars she's been fucking almost weekly for that last several months. She'd got another couple who she'll fuck now and then when timing allows. I like variety and love watching her with random new guys. She's more into regular FWB fucking at the moment so that's what we're doing. For this lifestyle to work communication is key you both need to know where the other's head is at. Neither should pressure the other and she should have the final say, after all, she's the one getting fucked. LOL Keep up the good work and have fun!

[Emma3]

How about suggesting an MFM with two new guys, while you just watch? It may satisfy both.

[snoogaloo82]

Thanks LEO, I agree with your response. The vetting can be exhausting, but very necessary. Keeping things exciting is what helps keep a relationship strong

For me I just let my sweetie handle the vetting process, but then again right now we're in separate countries! lol