Hey James! The real problem is this. Sex with a partner is about intimacy. Without it, and unless she is into replacing it with someone else, your relationship will likely die no matter what. Which means, you are in a lose/lose situation. Your ex-wife has stolen your future. She is still controlling you without even trying. She has made it impossible for you to have another meaningful relationship.
UNLESS you decide to seek the kind of help you need to figure this out. Break the cycle. See a therapist, and start working on yourself.
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Re: Post Divorce , new relationship
Very wise advice!!GenerallySpeaking wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2023 2:43 amHey James! The real problem is this. Sex with a partner is about intimacy. Without it, and unless she is into replacing it with someone else, your relationship will likely die no matter what. Which means, you are in a lose/lose situation. Your ex-wife has stolen your future. She is still controlling you without even trying. She has made it impossible for you to have another meaningful relationship.
UNLESS you decide to seek the kind of help you need to figure this out. Break the cycle. See a therapist, and start working on yourself.