Asian wife on the road to becoming a hotwife

[incertus]

Hey all.

I'm mid 30's, white, with an early 30's Japanese wife. She is very petite, 5'3", about 100 lbs with B cups and a shapely ass. I can pick her up over my head. We've been together about 6 years. Our sex life is pretty good. Always at least once a week, commonly 3 or 4 times a week. We are pretty busy with work and life but make time for each other.

She is pretty conservative. Very monogamous and easily gets embarrassed about sexual things. She gets a little shy when I go down on her or take her picture; however, her wet pussy really shows how much she likes it. She wears lingerie for me and we have a few toys she will ask for, especially if she has had a few drinks. She had only ever been with a couple of Asian men before me. I'm the largest she has had though I'm at the upper of end of average. She gives head like a champ.

I have been interested in cuckolding and hotwifing for a few years, mainly introduced to it by watching porn. From about a year in to our relationship I told her my fantasy of sharing her. Over the past 5 years she has gone through phases of acceptance and disgust with it. During sex she would tell me about past encounters, or she would invent a situation and describe herself playing with another man. The past few months we have really began to talk about men she finds attractive. I will ask her about men she has met at work, if she finds them attractive, or if she would like to fuck them. Sitting on the couch, watching tv, I will ask her if she would like to have sex with another man.

"Wouldn't you get jealous?" she asked

"No, I want to see you enjoying yourself. It would be so sexy for me to see you with another man."

"But I don't want you to be with another woman..."

"I know, that's ok! I don't want anybody else, I just wanna see you with another man."

"Well, he would have to be handsome."

"Let's download an app to find someone."

At this point we have talked about downloading an app like Feeld to find someone. We haven't done it yet, but she is ok with it as long as we don't share our face or any other identifying info. I'm probably going to wait another week or two and talk about it once more before we actually do it.

Another thing I want to mention is an issue/fetish I recently developed: premature ejaculation. About 60% of the time I come early, not necessarily on purpose but I don't stop myself. I make sure she comes, but seeing the disappointment on her face after I enter her and pump for 45 seconds and blow my load all over her stomach is addicting. The second I'm inside her I begin to think, "I can't last, I can't last." About a month ago it happened and she got pretty frustrated, and tried to stick my soft cock in her hot, wet pussy. After a few minutes she wasn't getting anything and we stopped. Since then she has been mentioning that my penis is "dying".

Just today we laid down together and began kissing. We took off our clothes, but I left my underwear on. As we were kissing, I played with her clit and her breasts. After a while, I went down on her til she was dripping wet and asked for me inside her. She guided me in and as I started thrusting said "Are you going last over a minute? Don't cum yet." I lasted less than a minute. She was disappointed, but then she let me fuck her with the dildo we bought recently. She took the whole thing, which is longer than me.

Laying in bed, I asked her about my quickness.

"I'm going to get a boyfriend," she said.

Overall, I'm taking this slow. I want the experience to be something she wants, something that is good for her. There have been months or years when she didn't want to participate in the fantasy and I didn't force her, but lately it seems she is opening up to it.

Feel free to ask questions, and I will update as events happen (probably slowly)!

[Texas Jack]

"I'm going to get a boyfriend," she said.

OMG, so hot. Please keep us up to date!

[SilverStag]

In the meantime take a look at Promesence Delay Spray/ I haven't used it but I hear good reviews from those who have.

Do you bring her to orgasm first, then enter her? You might try switching up your own game that way, so at least she has had one orgasm in the session. Also, thinking about it and/or concentrating on how great it feels will push you to cum too soon also. Try concentrating on a non-sexual part of her while you penetrate her (like her shiny hair, or the sound to the bed creaking, anything to distract your mind from your pleasure).

You might even try hypnosis to delay your orgasm.

[incertus]

In the meantime take a look at Promesence Delay Spray/ I haven't used it but I hear good reviews from those who have.

Do you bring her to orgasm first, then enter her? You might try switching up your own game that way, so at least she has had one orgasm in the session. Also, thinking about it and/or concentrating on how great it feels will push you to cum too soon also. Try concentrating on a non-sexual part of her while you penetrate her (like her shiny hair, or the sound to the bed creaking, anything to distract your mind from your pleasure).

You might even try hypnosis to delay your orgasm.

Yes, generally she cums first either manually or orally. If a longer session is required I will drink a couple glasses of wine before had and can last like a champ. I'm a little hesitant try numbing sprays as I have heard that they can cause hypersensitivity.

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[snoogaloo82]

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"I'm going to get a boyfriend," she said.

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How did things go? Has she gotten a boyfriend? Make sure you keep pleasuring her or you might lose her, but if that is your goal then totally forget about that.

[midnightoh]

She sounds so sexy! Can you share any pics?

[snoogaloo82]

She sounds so sexy! Can you share any pics?

That would be amazing to see!