London England

[Used4love]

Youngish married couple with very time consuming occupations but no children, together since meeting at school and through university.
Wife has suddenly become aware of almost reaching 30 but being far less wild than some of her friends. We've had to join a club to find out about swinging but unsure about the future.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Used4love. You only get one shot at life. Don't leave things on the table that you wanted to try.

[athlete915]

Welcome and good luck with your adventure.

If you don’t mind me asking, how did she originally admit her desires to you? Did you have any clue ahead of time? Were you familiar with swinging, cuckolding, etc. prior to her telling you about her feelings?

[snoogaloo82]

Youngish married couple with very time consuming occupations but no children, together since meeting at school and through university.
Wife has suddenly become aware of almost reaching 30 but being far less wild than some of her friends. We've had to join a club to find out about swinging but unsure about the future.

Welcome to this site! I have found this place so helpful in figuring out the ins and outs of the lifestyle. If you have any questions feel free to ask anyone.

[Used4love]

Welcome and good luck with your adventure.

If you don’t mind me asking, how did she originally admit her desires to you? Did you have any clue ahead of time? Were you familiar with swinging, cuckolding, etc. prior to her telling you about her feelings?

To answer your questions, totally unprepared for any change in our daily lives and certainly completely unaware of any deviant activities. It has been more a sudden awareness as she reaches her 30th. birthday that all her friends have been more adventurous. It was by chance that we got introduced to a club last New Year's Eve where she was able to dance and saw other girls topless late at night.

[Treat yourself girl]

What specifically is it she wants to do... have you asked her?