Indian WannaBe Cuck - Trying to get wife into Hotwifing

[cuck075]

Hey Guys - I've been happily married for last 10 years and have had an amazing sex life. My wife is from India and so am I, and she has been receptive of things I want to try during sex and has never turned me down for any weird requests.

Last year I ordered a clit sucking and penetrating vibrator for her of almost same size as my dick and while she loved the various settings, she always loved my tongue and fingers more than the vibrator. Fast forward to last 2 weeks, I ordered an 8" Dildo which is quite girthy, and when I used that on her, she started moaning like I've never seen in last 10 years and when we finished sex, I asked her how she felt and her response was it is so big and thick and she really loved it. I asked her a follow up question, if she likes the dildo more then my dick and while she said "My dick", but I could sense that she wanted to say the Dildo. I was so turned on when she was riding the dildo and later sucking the dildo while I fucked her doggy style.

Last night when we were having sex, I wanted to test waters for being cuckold and I asked her if she would be open for a fantasy and she asked what the fantasy was. I responded that lets take it like a story where you and me were out at a pub and there was this guy hitting on you and we finally brought him home and he is butt naked resting on your body while I am forced to the corner to watch.

She did play the role of a hotwife and while fucking her I pretended to be the bull talking to her dirty and belittling the cuck sitting in the corner and she also kept responding to me, the bull! I told her the 8" Dildo is Bull's dick and fucked her just with the dildo. As a bull, I also said how hot she looked at the bar and she responded "The way you were looking at me at the pub made me so wet". On the otherside as a cuck, she had anal beads from our bdsm pack which she inserted into my ass with a lube and dominated me with her bull which also excited me a lot.

All this fantasy play went well and while I thought my wife is natural hotwife, after the sex was over and things had cooled down, I asked her did she enjoy what we just roleplayed, and she said I really don't like all this and that she only wants to have sex with me and don't want to be touched by any other man, but happy to roleplay to "make me happy". She also said she would never use the dildo by herself as she is not a sex addict and more than happy with my penis!

She is very monogamous and I am wondering what my next step should be. She is a very hot and sexy wife whilst having sex! and we also have a lot of skimpy lingerie which she always wears to get me horny, but other than the fantasy and roleplay she doesn't want to try this in real life.

Would watching hotwife porn help here?

Hoping you guys can recommend some steps here.I really want her to enjoy an amazing sex and truly become a hot wife, enjoy multiple real thick and big dicks compared to my cucksized dick.

[Juancarlos5901]

One of the most important things is that you need the right guy.

She will say never and that will not ever concider ever. But she needs to meet the right guy and also she needs time. Open honest conversations that you are ok if she just talks or flirts with some will not bother you. Don't be pushy and don't try to feed guys information about her. It needs to be natural and organic. She needs to feel safe and comfortable. You can mention that is normal for a relationship to explore and try different things.

The emotional part goes first and also the physical too. Fit, charming guy easy to talk too. Overall expand your friend ship and see what she thinks of a guy I mean no sexually go slow like his personality and that let time do it's thing and see if there's something blooming.

Hope everything works out with you and your partner.

[2inUPMichigan]

No watching hotwife porn probably wouldn't help as she has already mentioned that she isn't interested in another man touching her. Besides porn is nothing like the reality as far as I am concerned.

Understand that just because our body may respond does not mean that our mind can "go there". The mental barriers to becoming a hotwife are huge and for a lot of women there just isn't any interest at all.

She has to decide in her own mind if she can see herself as a non-monogamous hotwife instead of a monogamous married woman. There is a big difference and it is in the way she views herself. It us not just a question of if she wants to have sex with someone else (which she has clearly already answered) but how does she view herself as a woman.

Keep in mind even if she did agree with your suggestion she might not agree with the "enjoy multiple real thick and big dicks compared to my cucksized dick" . What if she would only want men with dicks the same size as yours? Or wants to stick with one man? If your fantasy becomes a reality it will not play out exactly as it is in your head because her ideas will most likely be somewhat different than yours.


It is awesome that she will role play with you and help you live out your fantasy that way! She has made sure you have a way to explore it without overstepping her own limits - that's great It may not be all that you had wished for but it is a wonderful compromise.
Could she at some point decide to change her mind? Yes it is possible but from what you have said so far I would concentrate on enjoying the opportunities for hot bedroom role play and let her know that if she ever changes her mind you are ready and willing

[cuck075]

@2inUPMichigan - Thanks for your response.

Last night we decided to have a bath together. My wife loves having bath together where we are both skin to skin, rubbing each other and especially she loves when I cup her boobs from behind.. She made me sit on the edge of the bathtub and asked me to close my eyes.. The next moment when I was asked to open eyes, she had the 8" dildo in her hand playing with her body and sucking it.. She knows I love it a lot when she brings the dildo in play. She stuck the dildo on the bathroom tiles and started fucking it and I was so fucking turned on by it.. She kept on fucking it and she could see I am being rock hard.. She then comes down and asks me to lick her pussy which I happily did and then she said come on my suck this big dick..

Then we reversed the situation - She sat on the edge and again asked her to lick and finger her pussy while she was sucking the dildo and once I got her enough horny, she said darling fuck me with Badboy(Dildo name) and the moment that happened, she started moaning like anything and only after 2 mins of going in and out with the dildo, she squirted!

We finished our bath and cleaned each other and went out and had another round of fucking which was so passionate.. She again took the dildo in her pussy and was she was taking it all in her pussy was so amazing to watch!

I just hope she somehow accepts this to happen in real life!

[indiaboy7]

Thats a lovely note. I would love to chat with you & explore