I’ve come to realise what I want is not for her to just fuck some dude, I want her to find herself a boyfriend; someone who wants to take her out and treat her right - dinner and drinks, not just trying to get in her pants. In my mind, someone she knows at work, or through the kids school, or someone she knows elsewhere, asks her out for lunch or dinner. I’ve told her that while her fucking a stranger is a hot fantasy, I know she’d never do it. She might, however, go out for an innocent meal if the opportunity presented itself.
I’ve told her many times before that if this was to ever happen, she’d have my full support. I know she’d be a little reluctant, but I’d want her to do it. She’d go out for an innocent meal and it would go nowhere, but she’d come home after having a good time and want to do it again, and I’d encourage her to do so.
After another date or two, she’d be getting used to the situation, and if her date tried to steal a kiss she wouldn’t resist, then she’d come home and tell me, and again, I’d be supportive and encouraging. After a few more dates maybe they’d want to go further and, after talking it over, she’d tell me she wanted to sleep with him and I’d be quietly ecstatic.
The one time we got close was with a guy at work called Tom. They'd worked together for a while and got on really well. I remember one year for her work Christmas party and after going out for a big meal a few of us went to a bar together. Louise and Tom walked to the bar together, almost arm in arm, and sat together and chatted all night. I didn't say anything at the time because I didn't want to ruin it, but it was so hot for me (it helped that I didn't really like Tom, too).
A few months later, she got nominated for an award at work. There was going to be an awards party, but because of the venue there would be no +1s invited, and she mentioned Tom was going. I told her I'd watched the way they behaved together, and that they clearly got on well, and that I thought Tom might be looking to start something. I told her I wanted Tom to start something, and that if she was happy too, she should try and engineer dinner with him before the ceremony, and maybe drinks afterwards, and see what happened. I told her I wasn't expecting them to sleep together, but if she had a good time, she might want to do it again, and maybe again.
In the bedroom she seemed keen, but in the cold light of day she was less happy; she was a good girl and didn't want to cheat on me. In the end she agreed that if Tom started something she would play along to see what happened, but she wouldn't push anything. In the end, Tom never showed for the night, so nothing happened, but that was the closest we've got so far.
My biggest turn on would be for her to be in a proper long term boyfriend & girlfriend relationship with another guy. Dates, meeting his friends, maybe even holidays, who knows. My kids are a bit old now for them to accept mom’s boyfriend as a new uncle, but that would have been a major turn on too; for Louise’s boyfriend to be a part of our extended family. I have other fantasies that branch off from that one, but that’s enough of a starting point, I think.
I’ve put some pics of Louise here:
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Let me know what you think (and if you’d want to make her your girlfriend…
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