Fellow Wannabes…

[Justaregularguy]

Just curious for all you current wannabes (or those who have graduated from wannabe) what type of activities do you and your wives do if they are aware of your fantasy?

[Gmor]

Im a wannabe. For us 95% of our sex life consists of me masturbating while she tells me a 'story'. The stories are always of an anonymous man (or 2or more) who are always hugely endowed. Im on the smaller side and Ive learned that size is very important to her. Her ex was huge and I have learned over time that she had by far and away the best sex of her life in this relationship. In fact from her perspective the relationship was mostly just sex for the last couple of years.
The stories are all meant to be 'made up' but its obvious that they are often actual things she has done or at the very least what she fantasizes about when she masturbates (i.e often its a woman on a business trip. She travels for business, in a male dominated industry, regularly).

[Bluetoed]

I travel a lot. I spend 130+ nights in a hotel a year for work. A typical week is me leaving Monday morning and getting back sometime on Friday. So usually four nights in a row away.

After I accidentally let it slip that I fantasized about her having sex with other men, she eventually shared with me that she had fantasized that I would send another man to please her while I am away.

And so we've created that fantasy world. She will tell me while I am away that she is horny and wishes I was there to satisfy her. That is her way of telling me in our fantasy to send over the guy. So that's what I do. I ask her what she wants him to do to her tonight, and I tell him to go over and only do what she wants.

I bought her two new toys and she keeps me on the phone while using the toys and telling me every detail of what the guy is doing to her and how it makes her feel. We both come hard, every single time.

One of the toys is an inch or two longer than me and a little bit thicker. Of course she tells me how much she loves how big it is.

Randomly during the week she tells me that her man keeps texting her telling her to ask me to send him over again. In the fantasy she is totally hot for him, but she never tells me that she wants him. She only tells me that he wants her. She never asks me to send him over. She only tells me she wishes I was there to satisfy her. On my way home, she increases the texts that he wants her one more time before I get home, but she tells him she is waiting for something better later. By the time I get home my sex drive is on fire and the reclaim sex is awesome!

My business trips are much easier now.

[BBCfan]

At this point I mostly let her initiate it, or I'll make a comment to see if she runs with it.

Usually we're already having sex and She might say something "fuck it good and get my pussy nice and ready cause he's coming over now with his big cock, and I need to be super wet to fit him in again cause he's so thick.
Are you ready to see my pussy stretched by him?"

Sometimes I'll say something like " Your pussy is so wet now, I think you need something bigger."
Sometimes she'll run with it and start talking about it, And sometimes she will suggest I get our friend. It's the sheath that makes me quite big, almost the size of her horse hung former fuck buddy who is always the source of our fantasy talk.

For awhile she was going with some extreme stuff to try and see what would turn me on but I told her I would prefer she sticks to stuff that would turn her on.

She has brought up DVP with me and him, Or me reclaiming her and even a few times me going down on her after.

My favorite stuff though, is when she says stuff like I need that big cock or I miss being filled by that big cock.

As far as visually, when she rides the sheath and I see her become a wild woman in the throes of ecstasy, becoming more excited and passionate then she's ever been from my cock, it is the thrill that both excites and humiliates to new levels at the same time.

[Justaregularguy]

So tonight we are trying our first proper roleplay.

We are ourselves but my wife will be dressing up as if she is going for a night out, she’s a Hotwife who has permission to find a man if she wants… she’ll text me… asking to go home with a man she met… she’ll then come home later on… make up smudged, hair a mess, no panties and full of cum (using our fake stuff) and wake me up to tell me all about her night.

[sammaddon]

We will be traveling to Vegas multiple times in the next two Months as we both have conferences there.

Here are some activities she agreed to participate in.

1. When she joins me on my conference she agreed to stay back in the hotel room for the first part of the day and as I attend the conference she will tease me through text about how she has just seduced a guy from the casino. How she is taking him to our room.... etc.

2. Its always been a fantasy of mine to take her to a nice high end restaurant, dress up in a way that attracts attention with a short or revealing dress. Then she would excuse herself to the bathroom and take longer than usual just to mess with my head. When she returns to the table she leans over to me, grabs my hand and places her underwear sheepishly in my hand.

3. I have not asked her this yet. But on one of the visits I want her to wear an anklet bracelet as we go out. I don't know how to bring this up yet and I don't have the bracelet yet so it wont happen on our first trip which is next week.

[Bluetoed]

3. I have not asked her this yet. But on one of the visits I want her to wear an anklet bracelet as we go out. I don't know how to bring this up yet and I don't have the bracelet yet so it wont happen on our first trip which is next week.

I had mentioned once to my wife in our discussions in the first week after I revealed my fantasy about what anklets mean in the lifestyle. That was the one and only time I ever said anything about anklets.

I then bought an anklet for her off of Amazon about a week later, but didn't tell her I did.

It arrived while I was out of town. She didn't say a thing to me. She just texted me a pic of it on her left ankle. I was hard in an instant!

She has been wearing it all the time since. Even over to her parents for a family gathering with her sisters.

[feetuji]

The posts before this show me that most of the guys here are at a much better situation than me. At least you guys have wives who masturbate, have fantasies and take the initiative to create or share fantasies.

So far, my situation here is almost the same from the last years. I have a low libido wife, she rarely wants sex. She doesnt speak about sex neither. Its just her manner. I am pretty convinced she has not any type of fantasy when alone, even less masturbation. Whith that said, there are sme rare situations where she may surprise me. Also, when she is in a better mood for sex, she may seem to enjoy fantasies I share with her. For example, last time we had sex, she was pinching my nipples and enjoying a somewhat dominating position, and when I started to introduce fantasies about a guy dominating me and she watching, very quickly she got very very wet. Coincidence? Perhaps, or maybe not.

Well, thats my situation.

[sammaddon]

3. I have not asked her this yet. But on one of the visits I want her to wear an anklet bracelet as we go out. I don't know how to bring this up yet and I don't have the bracelet yet so it wont happen on our first trip which is next week.

I had mentioned once to my wife in our discussions in the first week after I revealed my fantasy about what anklets mean in the lifestyle. That was the one and only time I ever said anything about anklets.

I then bought an anklet for her off of Amazon about a week later, but didn't tell her I did.

It arrived while I was out of town. She didn't say a thing to me. She just texted me a pic of it on her left ankle. I was hard in an instant!

She has been wearing it all the time since. Even over to her parents for a family gathering with her sisters.

So after all I ordered a simple gold plated dainty from Amazon. It’s not specifically a hotwife anklet but I think in the Vegas setting it will be obvious.

I pulled it out and she immediately put it on and told me how much she loves it. I was super hard instantly… she said she will wear it everywhere. I told her, maybe not because anklets have a meaning and then I winked at her, and told her I’d love for her to wear it in Vegas.

She is super giddy, and she does know what it means!

[Bluetoed]

3. I have not asked her this yet. But on one of the visits I want her to wear an anklet bracelet as we go out. I don't know how to bring this up yet and I don't have the bracelet yet so it wont happen on our first trip which is next week.

I had mentioned once to my wife in our discussions in the first week after I revealed my fantasy about what anklets mean in the lifestyle. That was the one and only time I ever said anything about anklets.

I then bought an anklet for her off of Amazon about a week later, but didn't tell her I did.

It arrived while I was out of town. She didn't say a thing to me. She just texted me a pic of it on her left ankle. I was hard in an instant!

She has been wearing it all the time since. Even over to her parents for a family gathering with her sisters.

So after all I ordered a simple gold plated dainty from Amazon. It’s not specifically a hotwife anklet but I think in the Vegas setting it will be obvious.

I pulled it out and she immediately put it on and told me how much she loves it. I was super hard instantly… she said she will wear it everywhere. I told her, maybe not because anklets have a meaning and then I winked at her, and told her I’d love for her to wear it in Vegas.

She is super giddy, and she does know what it means!

Awesome! I know exactly how you feel right now!

[HopefulCuckold619]

Lately my wife has been telling me old hookup stories. I recently found out her ex before meeting me had the best cock and fucked her the best out of all her other experiences (including me). She's going to cuck me in the future, she's just waiting on the right time and of course she wants to just focus on us in the meantime.

[johnricke]

I'm a wannabe but that's cool. My wife and I enjoy sharing fantasies of what she would do with another guy. We've roleplayed a lot. Are into very long term orgasm denial and chastity for me. I get a lot out of her knowing about my fantasies and us playing around with the ideas. Whether we make it real or not isn't all that big a deal for us.

[Clement99]

The posts before this show me that most of the guys here are at a much better situation than me. At least you guys have wives who masturbate, have fantasies and take the initiative to create or share fantasies.

So far, my situation here is almost the same from the last years. I have a low libido wife, she rarely wants sex. She doesnt speak about sex neither. Its just her manner. I am pretty convinced she has not any type of fantasy when alone, even less masturbation. Whith that said, there are sme rare situations where she may surprise me. Also, when she is in a better mood for sex, she may seem to enjoy fantasies I share with her. For example, last time we had sex, she was pinching my nipples and enjoying a somewhat dominating position, and when I started to introduce fantasies about a guy dominating me and she watching, very quickly she got very very wet. Coincidence? Perhaps, or maybe not.

Well, thats my situation.

Your situation sounds like mine.

I have hope but the chances of fun with others seems remote right now.

[greyman21_2001]

I arranged a time away with my wife in Boston. The first night she was there alone, no interest in actually cucking me to date but she is aware of my fetish. I was getting the homestead settled with our young kids and joined her the following day. She sent me some pictures of her in the tub relaxing that night but no roleplay that she was up to things on her own.

Leading up to the time away I told her I wanted to take her out on a date where she was dressed provocatively, extensive cleavage to whatever her comfort was. Really I wanted to leave her at a bar alone and play the bar game but it was a Monday night so not really an active bar scene.

Her initial dress did not fit her well so she threw something together that she picked up at the last minute. The hardest thing in getting her interested in the lifestyle has been getting her to embrace how hot she is. She has a sexy mom bod, nice curves, 36 D. I marveled as she put on a one piece pushup lingerie underneath a blue velvet thigh high coat and knee high boots with black stockings. She got looks from men all night long and kept commenting on it. It made me so fucking hot, not to mention that she had me go out before to pick up some black stockings and magnum condoms to wear for her "date" AND had me put the stockings on her.

We enjoyed dinner together and then went back to the hotel room to pleasure herself with her large dildo wearing a magnum condom filled with fake cum lube. She came twice, three times total that day as we had a more passionate session together before going out to dinner. She made sure to comment on how full and tight the condom was around the dildo, a difference compared to me wearing it. I'd love for her to take this further but for now will share the lovely roleplay she serves me.

[feetuji]

The posts before this show me that most of the guys here are at a much better situation than me. At least you guys have wives who masturbate, have fantasies and take the initiative to create or share fantasies.

So far, my situation here is almost the same from the last years. I have a low libido wife, she rarely wants sex. She doesnt speak about sex neither. Its just her manner. I am pretty convinced she has not any type of fantasy when alone, even less masturbation. Whith that said, there are sme rare situations where she may surprise me. Also, when she is in a better mood for sex, she may seem to enjoy fantasies I share with her. For example, last time we had sex, she was pinching my nipples and enjoying a somewhat dominating position, and when I started to introduce fantasies about a guy dominating me and she watching, very quickly she got very very wet. Coincidence? Perhaps, or maybe not.

Well, thats my situation.

Your situation sounds like mine.

I have hope but the chances of fun with others seems remote right now.

For me,very remote indeed

[Shadnaster]

I'm a graduated wannabe but, what we used to do early on is, she would stroke me as she talked about past sexual encounters. When we started doing more real stuff, it would be her having sex chats with guys online and letting me read them. That evolved into her doing video chats with guys. She would play with herself on cam while she watched the guys stroke. I would be in another room on my PC watching her screen with Teamviewer.

[GlasgowWannabe]

I love fucking my wife with her dildo and asking her if she likes a bigger cock in her or two cocks fucking her when I was in her ass

Last time we were doing it she asked me to stick on the lamp so I could watch her getting fucked and she was asking if I liked to see the big cock in her. Was very hot

Her birthday in 2 weeks so I’ve bought her a bigger one to try