I have turned down and walked out on couples before, both during the "meet-n-greet" and "in the hotel room" stages of a meeting. My reasons were simple - if I detect even the slightest discord/disconnection with a couple... meaning that they are not 100% on the same page, then they are not ready to succeed in this lifestyle.
Now, this is very different that one or both partners being nervous, a little jealous, experiencing angst. When expectations/desires are not aligned and have not been talked through, it's only going to end badly. And I try to leave before it gets to that.
I agree with respectabull.. I will walk away quick if both are not on the same page. These situations usually have alchohol involved.. and sometimes drugs. I have had situations where one or the other has gotten the other one drunk or high enough that they could not understand what was going on and would submit to basically anything .. and I have left immediately. I had a guy once that said his wife wanted to meet me and have anal sex while he watched. When they arrived she was high as a kite.. I had to actually argue with him to leave.. and come to find out, it wasn’t even his wife.. it was a friend of his wife who was cheating on her husband and he was probably married too if I had hung around long enough to find out !!
So when a guy turns you down it is for a reason.. and the reason isn’t necessarily you. He is married, or can’t perform, or lied about his size, or something that does not measure up to your expectations .. so it is best to let him go and move on to the next one with a smile. This is a great lifestyle but everyone needs to be on the same page to properly enjoy it.
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