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Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2018 1:34 pm 
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calmcurioushubby wrote:
I realize this is an open forum, and people react to things and need a place to vent.

But I started this discussion in the hope of promoting a sense of community, and to try to introduce a positive flow of energy and expression back into this community.

There are plenty of threads started by people who are more than happy to tell the world exactly what is wrong with everybody and everything else. If you came her to discuss something with me you disagree with, I won’t complain, I put myself out here. But if you are coming here to complain and talk down about other people’s lives andmor fantasies, please take it to one of the several threads started for that specific purpose. There is a new one just a few days old, and I am sure there are more. If I want to listen to people bitch, I will visit them as well, but I would appreciate it if I could be left alone in my field of daydreams and daisies, thank you very much.

I much prefer to be left entirely alone, rather than be surrounded by all the negativity.

If you read something you don’t like, there is a simple solution. Exit that post. If there is a particular person you know has a drastically different opinion or attitude or preferences in life you don’t agree with, and find personally offensive, don’t read thier posts. It’s easy, go to the control page, select enemies and they will be automatically removed from any post you read. Quit being butt hurt because you read something you didn’t like in somebody else’s post, and get out and enjoy life. And if you can’t manage it for yourself, at least quit trying to make the rest of us either agree with you, or wallow in then excrement with you. I don’t read those posts for a reason. But they obviously provide a much needed something for somebody, and I am at least happy for them that it does. I just leave them alone to play with thier marbles in whatever way makes them happy, as long as they don’t try to make me play with them. And since I am in complete control of what I read and explore when I open this forum, I don’t think I have much to worry about in that department.

Oh look, a squirrel! And he is sniffing that flower, out in the sunshine, while his neighbor fucks his wife and he listens from a distance, a big smile on his face. Y’all have a great day now, ya here? Bless your little hearts! It’s a beautiful day, go enjoy it!


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Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2018 6:20 pm 
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Wisher wrote:
Not sure what's happening, but there's a lot of really gross and disgusting stuff coming up in threads and thread titles lately. Not kinky in any way, just repulsive. It's demeaning to the site in general and reflects a lowering of the class of posters.


It's one of the reasons I just don't visit here as much as I used to. It is all about going to the utmost extreme now and you just know it's all bullshit as well.

Not to mention the usual kink bigotry where some members will expect others to not only tolerate their kinks but also take part in them as well. It's becoming like Fetlife. A huge angry mess.


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Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:37 pm 
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Location: texas
I have pretty much stopped posting too. There doesn't seem to be much interest. Plus lately my wife has been in a kind of lull. She's been very busy at work.


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Unread postPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2018 10:25 am 
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I have tried over the last year to lurk less and post more. There's not many threads in the Cuckold, Hotwife and Hotties section that I fail to read. Occasionally there is a thread that I can't leave a positive response so I pass on those. And of course the threads that you read and know are total BS I won't respond to either. Most of my replies are short and I always thank the poster for sharing photos or tell them to please keep us updated on future adventures. That is my way of saying we want to hear their stories. :P

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Unread postPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2018 10:40 am 
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And it is noticed, if it was only for your unique choice of font & colour. :mrgreen:


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Unread postPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2018 4:09 pm 
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Mr ablondemilf wrote:
I have tried over the last year to lurk less and post more. There's not many threads in the Cuckold, Hotwife and Hotties section that I fail to read. Occasionally there is a thread that I can't leave a positive response so I pass on those. And of course the threads that you read and know are total BS I won't respond to either. Most of my replies are short and I always thank the poster for sharing photos or tell them to please keep us updated on future adventures. That is my way of saying we want to hear their stories. :P [/quote

That’s all I am trying to encourage and grow. Give each other a little boost, and let people know we care. It’s always nice to see s long, glowing post about a topic near and dear to our hearts, but it’s not necessary. I don’t think many people understand that “WOW that must have been amazing!” Or Damn that’s hot!” can really put some pep in your step!

And, there are enough people who are more than ready to bash us, and put us down. Accuse us of being perverted (meaning in a derogatory way) call our wives sluts and whores and mean it as an insult, and label us as anything but men. We need to stand up for and support each other, even when we may not be particularly interested in our neighbors version of fun. If it ain’t your thing, just quietly close the door and move on the the next one. As long as everything is consensual and they are having fun, how is it hurting you?

I have been guilty in the past of shooting off my mouth when I should have just walked away, but I have learned better. I am not perfect, every once in a while I still mouth off, but I try really hard not to. But there seems to be an ever growing segment of society, and on these forums, that insist on forcing the rest of us to agree with thier definitions, thier criteria for certain classifications of activities, and thier version of the truth, even demanding “proof” of events, people, facts, etc. Why? What possible difference will it make in thier life whether my wife has a lover with a two inch cock or a twelve inch cock, and whether or not she can take it all in her vagina? What difference could it possibly make in thier life if the pictures someone post here are really who and what they say they are? (And I understand that it is not cool to steal other people’s pictures or,post porn on here. I am just saying, if I am not claiming pictures of you are me, how would it hurt you if I didn’t post my pictures?)

And the questioning of the truth and veracity of other people’s lives. I am sure that there is a fair amount of fantasy posted on these pages that is represented as fact. But I am also very aware that by and large, the people who are truly living this life are not average every day people, and they are not leading average every day lives. Before my wife started fucking other men in front of me, I read quite a few things here that I said to myself were complete bullshit. Then she took a few lovers, and a couple of them were real sex machines, and all of a sudden I started believing nearly everything I read here, because my little narrow views and beliefs about what real,people could and would do and could not or would not do had been smashed alll to hell by my sweet little girl next door looking and acting wife and a man or two that knew some sexual tricks I didn’t.

I don’t care whether people beleive my stories or not. I really don’t. I hope,people read them and enjoy them, but if I never had another view on one, or another comment, I would still post here, for my own personal and private reasons.

But there are a lot of people out there that it does make a difference to. And we should, in my opinion, at least all be concerned enough about our fellow adventurers to keep our mouths shut if we can’t say something nice. After all, I don’t see them following you around, tearing big chunks out of everything you post.

I am sorry. I thought I had this all out of my system. And while I am venting, I would like to say this. While I wish Wisher and others wouldn’t say things like this at all, after reflecting on it a bit, I am appreciative that they did at least come here to vent their frustrations, and not in the post that they didn’t like. And there is nothing in Wishers post that calls anybody out, or is directed at anyone one or any particular post. So I think that is a step in the right direction. We all need a place to vent, and it is ok to vent our frustrations, as long as we don’t hurt people in the process, or belittle or marginalize them. There should be no “us versus them” among members of this forum, in my opinion. There are already more than enough of “them”lined up outside the gate, ready to mob us and tar and feather us and put us up on the rail and parade us and our supposed “shame” out of town. “Us” need to stick together, at least in public, and not let “them”have any more ammunition to use against us.

Wisher wrote:
Getting to be some really gross and perverted stuff here that is detracting from the site's tone.


I hope that everybody sees this for what it is. A plea for tolerance and understanding for your fellow adventurer. You don’t have to like what he does, or agree with it, and you certainly don’t have to do it too, in order to be a part of the community. Just don’t criticize others and try to tear them down, just because they don’t sin like you do. To the rest of the world, we are all wrong. We should be standing up for each other. Nobody else is going to.

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Unread postPosted: Mon Apr 23, 2018 5:23 pm 
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I have a few loyal people that comment on my posts but mostly I just see it as a public diary for myself by now. I've never really understood why some threads get a ton of replies and others get very little (especially when a popular one is clearly fake), but c'est la vie.

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