Wife's sexual experience prior to marriage

[isinlarsa]

In the film "American Pie," one of the actors repeated the old rule of thumb -If a woman admits to having sex with others, ADD three to the number she claims. But if a man claims a number of women he has fucked, SUBTRACT three for the probable truth.

I think HOTWIVES are more likely to admit to their husbands the right number. That assumes they can remember them all.

Thought it was THREE TIMES.

[Hot Wife Lois and Me]

In the film "American Pie," one of the actors repeated the old rule of thumb -If a woman admits to having sex with others, ADD three to the number she claims. But if a man claims a number of women he has fucked, SUBTRACT three for the probable truth.

I think HOTWIVES are more likely to admit to their husbands the right number. That assumes they can remember them all.

Thought it was THREE TIMES.

You may be right about three times instead of three partners. My wife held back telling me about one guy until she got around to fucking others, but I'm pretty sure I now have the right number. Either way, I like hearing about each of the ones I know about. Hers were longer term boy friends except for one married guy who still works at the same publisher she works for. That married man was just a couple of times but it got her a promotion.

[betaboy]

My wife falls into the "slept around" category. We dated throughout her four undergraduate years and for most of that time
I was merely one of her "fuckbuddies," which was fine with me. At the university we attended this type of relationship was
pretty much the standard and I believe still is. We didn't speak about it or concern ourselves with what we knew were other
sexual partners. Most students proceeded on a kind of "don't ask, don't tell" basis, knowing full well that almost everyone was
getting it on with multiple partners.

[dickiea584]

My wife told me she didn't let her Ex to fuck her pussy but rather her mouth while they dated due to concerned about being pregnant so I was her first in her pussy.

[Mrhotwifeplusone]

I was her 2nd, been together 21yrs married 20yrs
And she has had 3 more since we got married working on more

[SRKnight]

We married when she was in her late 30s, her first marriage. So knew I wasn't the first and knew her boyfriend before me was married when she was having an affair with him. Later she admitted to me that she had been in 11 relationships before marriage where she was the "other woman".

[Parsifal]

My wife's number before me was 7. She was 37 when we married. All her guys before were boyfriends of at least a few months. Her number's now 20. Short term flings were a new experience. Now she's back to long term lovers, but 3 plus me, her longest term.

[trecital]

We had sex long before we were married. In fact we fucked the same day we met. But we were both virgins when we met. Maybe that's why we were so keen to get screwing!
I was 19, she 18, and met at University in the UK. This was our first time away from home, so finally had the freedom to do what we wanted, with our own accomodation available.

[Tryagain]

My wife had only one other guy. The office romeo who was married and very good-looking and 28 yo when she was 19 yo. it was my luck - to miss taking her virginity.

And I was always a bit insecure. I resolved never to ask her anything about " how it was". But she volunteered how she did not like it at all, and that it hurt her every time that they did it ( 3 x). Great, right? Although it raised my suspicion as to how well hung he was.

Anyway, we soon discovered her hymen was sort of ripped - a piece was left sort of hanging. So...she volunteers that maybe because he was so big he ripped it. Gulp...well ...how big? She says only a little longer than you but very fat. Now i am hooked on obtaining information. How fat? She then made a motion a circle with her fingers saying and showing that she could barely get her fingers around it. holy shit! I did not like hearing that for sure.

Much later after more and more and more questioning - you know...with the hot lights shining in her face and me pounding the table like in the movies when interrogating the witness :-) she confessed ...she minimized the length because she did not want to hurt me but figured it was ok to tell me how fat it was !

And in an interesting twist, she turns out to be a size queen after all :-)

[cpl4sumrfn]

I do not know if there is a correlation between before and after marriage sex drive. It seems that it is very much an individual thing, at least based on comments here and talking with others. I do wonder if they age they become sexually active matters. My wife's first sexual experience was at 13 and had 14 sexual encounters (2 were only BJ's) before her first marriage at 20. While she was married she had sex with 2 other men. During our marriage including while we dated the wife has had 23 sexual encounters with others. So based on what happened during our relationship it seems at least part of it was who she was with (me) and her level of confidence, comfort, and desire to pursue different partners.

[Des 31]

My wife confided to me before we married other men had fucked her before meeting me. She's smoking hot, so her revelation didn't surprise me. When she got around to telling me more about those episodes, I found it exciting and fucked her each time she admitted the details. She was then, and still is, a church-going woman and I'm sure none would now believe she has sex with men outside our marriage.

I was the first to encourage her to sleep with any men to who she found herself attracted. About a year after our first discussion, she was all in and now says she wishes she had more seriously acted on my encouragement at the outset. She says that would now be difficult to give up, but she would if I wanted that. I don't. I love that she fucks other men.

[Viewer]

My wife is highly sexual with a very strong libido (she has often said it’s stronger than any guy she’s let)

I know she has slept around a lot before me. Often jokes that she slept with half of New York while living there

She has had mfm, been with a couple girls, and all types of guys

In passing she’s mentioned being with exceptionally hung men, men who have amazing stamina and some who have made here squirt. She’s fucked some guys before me that are our friends as well

As a rather small man with terrible stamina it turns me on a lot to hear these

[WrldTvlr]

Before I met my wife she was very sexually active. She is a looker and had no problems attracting men. Unfortunately she chose partners after alcohol and the evening ending in bars. So there was plenty of quantity without quality.

Her stories included much older men to guys a few years older than herself. To my surprise it was more of a sport for her than actual sexual pleasure. The “wham / bam / thank you ma’am” was constant.

Her last boyfriend before I entered her life finally took the time to sexually please her. Fortunately or fortunate for myself he turned into a douche and slept with a couple of her family members and that relationship ended bitterly.

Right place and right time I got her at her “awakening” and haven’t looked back. Let’s say I’m batting way above my average!

[WPBCouplex]

My wife was married prior to marrying me. We’re both in our 40s she’s 43 and I’m 49. She was with her ex husband for 20 years. She told me at the beginning of our relationship that she had been with 7 guys prior to her husband, so 8 in total. One was just “fooling around”, whatever that means lol. But, if you ask me she was a slut and loved to fuck and I’m ok with that. She loves being my little whore now and owns that shit.

[Suchagoodgirl]

I believe I was Candy's 10th guy but she was not easy to get in bed....like she is now.

[oldwood4u]

Are there wives in the group that had some of their fun in Adult Theaters?

[Johnann2227]

We started dating when I was 19 and she was 18. We both had previous lovers. When we were 21 and 20 we started swinging with friends and then going to swing clubs. We got married when we were 25 and 24. So when we married we both had fucked dozens of other partners. Ann used to keep a diary where she would include any lovers she had been with but gave that up in her late 20s.

[Tank Turner]

I was told during my high school years to not ask a girl about her sexual history. I never have. A man can tell when he fucks a woman for the first time whether she's sexually experienced.

The first time I fucked the woman who's now my wife, I knew she was sexually experienced. She exuded sexual confidence that I admired and loved. To this day, her sexual confidence gets me hard as granite. She knew from her college years what her naked body does to men.

College students learn academic disciplines and life. Students learn how to enjoy sex while they're in college. They learn valuable knowledge about what they like and don't like.

My wife was flaming hot during her college years with a perfect body. I've read her college yearbooks. I'd bet I could tell with a high degree of accuracy which yearbook signers fucked her by what they wrote. I've seen photos of her in a bikini while she was in college. She was naturally beautiful. She's more beautiful as she's matured. She had and still has large, natural tits. She also had a endocrine abnormality that caused an abundance of testosterone to be released within her body causing her to become insatiably horny. She still has that condition. When her endocrine system is out of balance, she can fuck nonstop all day. So I can imagine what she did between classes while she was in college.

My wife and I clicked on our first official date. Some call it chemistry. I call it a mystical connection that binds us. We can finish each other's sentences. We know what the other is thinking. I've never knew what deep and authentic love was until I fell in love with my wife. I assumed I had been in love before I fell in love with my wife. In retrospect, I was in love with sex. I'm in love with everything about my wife.

I couldn't care less about how many men my wife fucked before I met her. I've never asked her. She'll tell me about her former boyfriends. She'll often tell me about sex she had with former boyfriends.

I'd much rather marry a sexually experienced woman than a frigid virgin. In fact, it was around my freshman year of college that I began telling my friends that I was going to marry a porn star. Years ago, my wife asked me about my sexual fantasies. I told her that when I was younger, I fantasized about marrying a porn star. Without missing a breath she fired back, "You did!" My wife is my porn star fantasy, yet she has never done a porn film. I have a lot of porn videos of her. If she had done porn, she would have been a huge star.

Does anyone care about how many men a woman has fucked? Would a man reject a woman who was meant for him because she acquired sexual experience before he met her? Sex is a tiny albeit important component of marriage. What couples do together when they're not fucking accentuates the comparatively small percentage of time that they fuck.