That's the best attitude in all facets of life and particularly in the way you and we live. Any other way, in our opinions, would be immoral. The incident that brought my wife around to seeing things as they now are was a three-month covert affair with her then coworker. Your comment about "not very ethical" is the way my wife later described her one-time affair without my knowledge. She promised never to do that again. It's now all in the open between us, and I love that.SSQ wrote: ↑Fri Nov 05, 2021 2:10 pmIt's funny, seeing you quote my first post made me think about my first experience. And in hindsight? It wasn't very ethical, the way the other couple handled things. I feel like I've learned so much over the years from my experiences. My counselor has really helped me think about my whys and to consider what kind of person I want to be. I've made mistakes in the past, but I don't ever really want people sitting around saying, man that SSQ really took advantage of me, or didn't tell me everything I needed to know, or violated my consent.Des 31 wrote: ↑Sun Oct 31, 2021 11:08 amMy 34-year-old wife has said the same more than a few times. And, she was very close to your age the first time she and then coworker began having sex. When I learned of it three months into their affair, I was fully on board for her to date others. But it isn't just she who benefits. Your amazement and excitation are also ways I feel at the times she and other men are united as one. She tells me each time another man is inside her is as thrilling as her first, and that's mind-blowing for each of us.SSQ wrote: ↑Fri Mar 02, 2012 9:23 amHi everyone, I'm new here. Looking forward to meeting some other like minded people since one of the toughest issues I had with this lifestyle is as been just amazing; I feel so much more sexual than I used to. . . . I feel more beautiful and desirable and just generally happier than I used to. . . . .
~ Des
That's not who I am, and it's not who I want to be. I'm a hedonist and I love having all kinds of decadent fun, but I'd like to leave the world a slightly better place because I was in it. I don't want my fun to be at someone else's expense.
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