During our beak, D and I had some discussions about IF we wanted to proceed with including others in our sex life, and what that would look like if we did. We discovered that, for us, this is a “want” not a “need.” We could give it up and still be very satisfied with our sex lives.
At the same time, neither of us wanted to give it up. We both enjoyed this new adventure. I found that it brought out something new in me. Flirting with my husband is fun, but flirting with other men brought it to a whole new level. I liked the play of it all and the anticipation of first meetings, first kisses, and first tastes of something more.
My husband enjoyed watching me explore different sides of my sexuality and how that translated into our own sex life. He liked knowing that I was receiving pleasure, and he was also aroused by sharing me, watching me, and participating in a MFM threesome with me.
After our previous experiences, we committed to being more careful about who we shared photos with. We also learned that I don't like playing with someone that I have no connection with. Anonymous and impersonal sex isn't for me. It just leaves me feeling empty and guilty. We decided that I would always decide who I played with, and he would respect that and not pressure me to consider people I wasn’t interested in.
My husband explained that he wanted to feel included and involved in whatever my relationships looked like. I committed to making sure that happened, and also that I would check in regularly to see how he was feeling about everything.
We recreated our online account and started chatting again. When a woman reached out to our online account, it provided a twist but we thought that might be perfect for our next adventure.
Tina(names have been changed) was in her 40s. She had been dating Adam for a few years. They loved each other deeply but were sexually mismatched. Tina has a high sex drive and loves kinky adventures. She had been in a Sub/Dom relationship for a time that was really intense. She wasn’t ready for that again but did crave more BDSM play. Adam was more vanilla. He didn’t judge her for her kinks, but didn’t really get into the play either.
They created an account to see if they could find a way to satisfy her desires without compromising their relationship with each other.
Tina and D chatted a bit and I thought that they would be great together. He’s an amazing lover and is fun and creative in bed. I had no doubt that he could give her a very enjoyable evening. I also liked that she was in a committed relationship and wouldn’t be looking for that from him.
The only complication was that D had no interest in doing something with Tina unless I was there. Tina and Adam had a similar understanding. That meant we had to figure out what a four-way play date could look like...even if Adam and I were mostly watching.
Fortunately, I love chatting with other women about sex! Tina and I took over the conversation and came up with an excellent idea. We would meet for drinks and then head over to a sex club for the evening. Tina had frequented this club many times in the past with previous boyfriends. She thought D and I would love it.
D and I had actually been hoping to check it out, but were nervous about our first time. Having a “tour guide” available to show us around and answer questions would be perfect. We set a date for a Saturday evening.
We also discussed some ground rules “woman to woman”. Tina didn’t want to do a full swap on our first meeting. That was fine with me since I hadn’t exchanged three words with Adam at that point in time. She also wasn’t comfortable with passionate kissing.
“What if I want to kiss you though” I joked.
She was totally on board with that.
Girl on girl action would have no limits!
I said that I was sure D would enjoy receiving a blow job from two women at once, and asked if she might be up for that. She was willing as long as Adam got a turn too. We had a plan!
D and I arrived first at the patio where we had agreed to meet for drinks. We ordered a round and texted Tina and Adam. They were running late but arrived about 30 minutes later. Tina is beautiful. She’s shorter than me (probably 5’5 or so), blonde and has blue eyes. She’s also very confident and has an outgoing personality. We hugged her hello and D told her she was beautiful.
Adam is about 6’2 and clean cut. He played soccer when he was younger and still has a bit of an athlete’s build. He’s a bit quieter than Tina, but was thoughtful and charming. He shook D’s hand and I gave him a hug. We ordered more drinks.
The conversation was pretty good considering we didn’t know each other well. I like to know people’s stories, so I asked a lot of questions and we found some areas of common ground beyond sex. Eventually we decided to walk over to the club. So far the vibe had been more "friendly" than "sexy". I wasn’t sure if the connection between D and Tina was as strong as they hoped it would be.
D held my hand as we walked down the street. He gave it a squeeze. “I guess I’m spoiled,” he whispered to me. “When you are married to the sexiest woman ever, you don’t really want anything else.”
I laughed and told him I loved him. I’d make sure he had a great evening no matter what. We found where we needed to be, signed in, and were given keys to a locker for our things. As first timers, we were also offered a tour.
On this particular night, the club was only open to couples and single women. No single men were allowed. It had been a bathhouse for the gay community in the 1970’s and still had a pool as part of its facilities. It also contained a dungeon with BDSM paraphernalia, a room with mirrored ceilings, and several theme rooms to live out your fantasies whether they were on a stripper pole, in the backseat of a car, using a glory hole, or just being on display for others to watch.
We asked the tour guide a few questions and then went to the locker room to undress. We decided to hit the pool first, so I stripped down to put my dress and things in the locker. I had been wearing a lace teddy underneath my summer sundress and caught Adam checking it out from the other side of the locker room. I gave him a little shimmy. He nudged Tina and she looked too.
“You never know what to wear in these types of situations,” I said with a wink, “Maybe it’ll come back out to play later.”
They said that they hoped so.
I was a bit nervous about being completely naked, so I put on a two-piece bathing suit and D put on his swim trunks. Adam was naked but with a towel wrapped around his waist. Tina had on swim bottoms and a mesh cover up on top. Her perky nipples poked through. We went out to the pool.
The clientele that night were very young. We were surrounded by beautiful couples in their late 20s and early 30’s. Most were naked. Some were wearing fetish gear. I decided to be brave and took my bikini top off and left it on the chair as we got into the pool.
“You have beautiful breasts,” Tina said admiringly.
“Thank you, you can touch them if you want,” I teased. She gave them a little squeeze as we got in the pool.
Adam and D offered to get us drinks and went over to the bar while T and I chatted.
“Are the people always so young,” I asked her. “I feel really old.”
“No, the crowd changes every time I come here, but I suspect that some older folks will come later this evening,” she said.
I asked a few questions about her previous experiences there, what she had done, what had surprised her, etc. She told me tales of coming on the nights when single men were permitted and how it can sometimes get out of hand with guys getting really pushy about wanting to play.
D and Adam returned and we had a toast to the evening.
As we chatted, I noticed a couple sitting on the edge of the pool near us. They looked to be about 25. He was thin with glasses and a nice smile. She was a bit curvier, brunette, with stainless steel piercings in each nipple. I couldn't resist walking over.
“Sorry to interrupt, but can I ask you about your piercings,” I asked her.
She didn’t mind, so we had a bit of a chat. I explained that my husband found nipple piercings very hot, but that I was a bit of a chicken about the pain involved. She told me about her experience and how it had gone. I asked if they lessened sensitivity at all or changed how she liked her breasts played with during sex.
From behind me, I could hear a bit of a chuckle as Adam asked D, “Does she always chat up strangers like that”
D just smiled. “Oh, she’s very charming. She can win anyone over, and doesn’t mind doing so.”
I thanked the young woman for her helpful information and then rejoined my group.
“Hey, it's not every day or every place that you get the opportunity to talk to someone about their nipple piercings,” I explained. “Don’t judge me.”
“So....are you going to do it now?” D asked me, with a hopeful glance at my nipples.
“I don’t know, she still said it was at least a 7 out of 10 for pain,” I grimaced in response.
“Well, you’ve got great breasts and I think they would look very nice on you,” Adam offered.
I told them that if they were going to keep ganging up on me, I was going to go and towel off, but I was laughing as I said it. We sat on some lounge chairs for a bit and watched as a young man lifted his girlfriend out of the water, positioned her at the edge of the pool, and proceeded to lick her pussy.
Putting down my drink, I took D by the hand and said, “Oh my goodness! I think we need to go check out some of those rooms upstairs for a bit.”
He laughed. “Yes, my insatiable wife. Whatever you say.”
As we walked away, I paused and looked over my shoulder at Tina and Adam. “You can join us if you want,” I said with a wink.
(To be continued)