"Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

[odyexplorer]

"His woman"? Wow, that's a non-starter if I ever saw one. We are two independent souls who decided to take a ride through this life together. What right do I have to limit her joy in whatever form she chooses to find it?

Don't you think you're being a mite circa 1970s/80s cantish feminist?

[sonny]

Hey take it easy guys....we all like to enjoy the same concepts here - a wife who is able to enjoy her new expanded sexual freedom while keeping her marriage solid and her hubby more satisfied than ever before.

Most of us would agree that every situation is different, the players are different, and no one solution will work for everyone. We have lurkers here on the site, those searching for ways to enter the lifestyle, and we have those who are already enjoying the lifestyle, and who are willing to share what has worked or not worked for them. All I can say is that I valued all the experience that is here and it sure did help me and my wife's transition to a hotwife.

[Irwinhill]

Sonny,

Your attitude is what makes this Forum so valuable. We don't need to be indoctrinated with a single line of thinking. We're adults. We can choose. But hearing the variety of approaches expands our options.

Thanks for articulating this vision with such clarity and in such an encouraging way.

IH

[JlovesL]

Don't you think you're being a mite circa 1970s/80s cantish feminist?

Could well be. I'm 48 and she's 42. Been there, done that, bought the plaid bell bottoms.
It's what we've chosen. We understand if others choose otherwise. I think those of us that came to some sort of sexual maturity during the 80's had a unique position. It was post 'sexual-revolution' but previous to the std scares. We explored with wild abandon and found approaches that worked for us. Since then we've tempered our pursuits in due course.

But yeah, for us it's about two people wanting what they both want out of life and meeting somewhere in between. No complaints here! And I hope you've found an approach that works as well for your prescribed values.

[mnd7398]

I posted this as a reply to another topic but the second half of this reply is on topic to this thread. Just skip over the irrelevant parts.

My wife has never asked for a big cock. Cock size has never been a request or an issue when seeking out partners. The most important thing to us is personality. If you act like an asshole then it doesn’t matter how good you look or how big your cock is. I have been the one to seek out big cocks for her. I’m the one who wants big cocks in her. I’ve seen her have great orgasms with guys with cocks of all sizes. It’s been said before but here I go again … Women have great sex with someone they have an emotional feeling for. Men are more meat and potatoes. I like my wife to be fucked by a big strong muscular guy with a big dick. I like to watch her doing it like I enjoy watching porno. Watching my wife enjoying getting fucked by a big cock is better than watching porno on a t.v.. It’s happening right in front of me. It’s my wife. She’s the star. I love her. My wife refuses to participate in these forums, typical girlie, so I can only guess how she is feeling based on my observations.

[wench]

Hi guys, we have only recently found this site, we were familiar with the old brown backed Our hot wives site and the blue Hot wives site which just disappeared a while ago. [what happened to it?]
I pretty much agree with Sonny on this, it took a while for us and it is a joint thing to gravitate to sharing. Its a big plus for me and w is in her prime sexually and has undoubtedly become more confident in her own sexuality as a result of our experimenting. Guess its something that takes time and much thought.
One irritant is we cannot discuss what we do to anyone of our friends ... we would be labelled as perverts who had lost the plot!!! Its a british thing really!
Like to put a pic with our messages, but don`t know how.
WENCH

[Willy and Jen]

Post your pics at http://www.bayimg.com and then copy the link they give you and paste them into your message. Should post the link in the Hotties section though.

[Mr_Butterfly]

When I was 27, my wife at the time - not Mrs B - asked me a straight up question, "could she take a lover?" It was a setback in our marriage that lasted another three years. Of course my answer was a dumbfounded NO. At that age I was not in tune with her needs, and it would take me several years to let go of my self centered tendencies.

Fast forward 15 years later... having found the most wonderful Mrs B. Penthouse Letters if you remember those then you are of my age group. The hotwife letters sparked something in me. A stirring in my voyeuristic psyche. About the same time Mrs B confided in me that she enjoyed watching some good sex tapes occasionally. I got some and we merged them into our sexual play; more voyeurism.

Over the years there were times that I gave her extreme pleasure, but they were rare and I became somewhat obsessed with seeing Mrs B in this condition of unrestrained passion. My fantasy on this subject grew and we began discussing the idea of what she really enjoys during sex, and I came to the conclusion that what she needed to reach these peaks of ecstasy were more than I could provide. Not that I am a poor lover, but that one single man is inadequate. This is my opinion alone and not to be construed as a sexual panacea.

The bottom line is that I get a major sexual high from knowing that Mrs B is getting the most out of her sexual play. I love to watch because I love the look on her face and the sound of her voice when she is completely into it.

But there is a caveat here. Not every experience reaches this high note. In the end it is the pursuit that every man faces in his own psyche and something apart from what women understand. Male psychology in this basic sense can be associated with the search for the Holly Grail. We men are always searching for something just out of reach, whether it is a promotion in our job status, the big bass, or maybe the passion we enjoy with our hotwife.

[odyexplorer]

When I was 27, my wife at the time - not Mrs B - asked me a straight up question, "could she take a lover?" It was a setback in our marriage that lasted another three years. Of course my answer was a dumbfounded NO. At that age I was not in tune with her needs, and it would take me several years to let go of my self centered tendencies.

Leave aside for a moment how you feel now and how able you are to fully and expansively satisfy your wife sexually alone, without outside "help", now that you're a lot farther away from your sexual prime than she is from hers.

Going back to when you were 27 and your then wife asked that question, what would she have said if you had said to her "maybe, if we can agree on some ground rules. No falling head long in love with someone other than me who you see for a mostly sexual affair. No leaving me for another man you meet while playing with my permission. And of course I get to play under the same rules.")

What would she have said?

[Mr_Butterfly]

Going back to when you were 27 and your then wife asked that question, what would she have said if you had said to her "maybe, if we can agree on some ground rules. No falling head long in love with someone other than me who you see for a mostly sexual affair. No leaving me for another man you meet while playing with my permission. And of course I get to play under the same rules.")

What would she have said?

That particular wife, Ody, come to find out had already violated, or would violate in future events all the aforementioned conditions. She already had a lover before asking permission. She would have done as she pleased, since she did anyway. That particular marriage would never stand the test of openness.

I learned from that experience. Mrs B has a heart of gold, and I am one lucky man.

[boisehotwifehubby]

Going back to when you were 27 and your then wife asked that question, what would she have said if you had said to her "maybe, if we can agree on some ground rules. No falling head long in love with someone other than me who you see for a mostly sexual affair. No leaving me for another man you meet while playing with my permission. And of course I get to play under the same rules.")

What would she have said?

That particular wife, Ody, come to find out had already violated, or would violate in future events all the aforementioned conditions. She already had a lover before asking permission. She would have done as she pleased, since she did anyway. That particular marriage would never stand the test of openness.

I learned from that experience. Mrs B has a heart of gold, and I am one lucky man.

That is what many opponents of this lifestyle claim, that the wife will find a better lover, and up and leave.

The lifestyle is rarely a cause of broken marriage, but a convenient reason to do what was going to happen anyway. Cheating spouse is a cheating spouse no matter how you paint the picture. The selfish "do what you want to hell with consequences" marriage will fail eventually no matter how open or monogamous the couple claims to be. I suppose there are some who have a spouse who says they will cheat, put up with it or leave, but if they tolerate it, then the choice was made.

SO much obsession with sex that we forget that it takes an entire person to be sexual, not just some body parts. Sex is dessert, one needs the meat and potatoes to be healthy enough to enjoy dessert fully. And to clean the kitchen for next time.

what I enjoy about this forum over others, the general understanding of life in general, and over all intelligence of the participants. We have had some guys say basically "I am coming over to have sex with your wife, what else is there to talk about? I have a dick she has a pussy, why complicate things?" They were clueless as to the dynamic of the whole thing. Makes it easy to see why they were so lonely, in more ways than one.

[wench]

Post your pics at http://www.bayimg.com and then copy the link they give you and paste them into your message. Should post the link in the Hotties section though.

We have managed to post pics in the hoties section, still cannot understand how to get a thumnail into our correspondences .... our we dumb???? Help

[sedvuslad]

Mr Butterfly - You hit the nail on the head, both counts.
I think they call it 'reality'.
Ain't it great to live here.
We got off to a GREAT start xx years ago, now with xx +20+ years, we are still on the same page and having the times of our lives, and so, over and over again. Anniversary 4x dead ahead - still cooking on top burner!!
Long story (duh)!!
But it still works, and still gets better all the time; just plain awesome!!
SEDL

[mooman]

I think the reason men want their bride to be a HotWife is a good deal about getting more out of their sex life.To them,having sex is not good enough. What other men would consider exciting would not do it for them. They(the Men) NEED more stimulation. What could be more exciting than to see your wife being taken by someone else. Some spouses need to ratchet it up a great deal in order to make sex very rewarding. What would be exciting for others; does not make it for some. Just my two cents.

[usse]

Let me say (without offending anyone) I believe women that get their share and more are very sexy in appearance regardless of shape or size, blonde or brunette, short or tall. Some refer to it as the "slut look" but I prefer sexy. Women who do not receive a frequent shagging are often, pardon the expression "bitchy" in actions and appearance. What man would want the latter?

[sepket1]

Wow so funny to hear all the "reasons"; like he's gay, or can't satisfy, or unhappy with wife.....

Maybe he is so into his hot wife, he gets off to the idea of seeing her pleased. Watching her cum, is a turn on to him. Why is that so hard to understand? Really kinda funny, I think alot more guys think it is hot and would get into it but are way too insecure in their own sexuality or the strength of their marriage. Me and my wife love the talk and get off to it just about every fucking. So I am surprised that the "public" looks at it like only the ill or deranged would think that way...


I guess we need help... LOL

[doomywife]

I wrote this story several years ago, about the "Joys of getting Sloppy 2nds" from my wife. Whether you call them "sloppy 2nds", or something else, the meaning behind the story is the same. It describes the "JOY" of watching "your wife fuck another man"! Check out what I wrote...

Since my wife, Brandie, and I, started swinging, we have had many fun, exciting, sexual experiences. Many of them were just new, fun ways of enjoying sexual activities that we had been doing for years with each other, but that were now “more fun” when enjoyed with others! Then there were the totally “new” experiences, the things that we had never done before and were only now able to try them out with our swinging friends. If I had to pick the “one thing” that I have enjoyed the most about swinging, it would be…. “Getting sloppy 2nd’s” from my wife, after another man has just filled her with a load of cum!

Getting sloppy 2nd’s is something that is indescribable! If you have never experienced it for yourself, you can’t fully imagine what it’s like. It can’t be “simulated”. If you want to know what it’s like to get a blow job from your wife while another man fucks her, (and you’re not swingers), you can “simulate it”, by doing her with a dildo while she sucks you off. You will get pretty much the same reaction and feelings as you would if she was really getting it from another guy and sucking you at the same time. But! You can’t simulate “sloppy 2nd’s”! There is just no way to do it! As I said a few sentences ago, “sloppy 2nd’s” is something that is hard, if not impossible, to describe, but I’m going to try to do my best to tell you what it’s like and why I love it so much!

Imagine this… Your wife is on the bed on her back and another man is between her legs, with his cock up her cunt and he’s giving her a good fucking! You are naked and sitting in a chair watching. Maybe you join in and let your wife suck you while she is getting fucked. Or, maybe you just get on the bed next to her, and she just fondles your cock and balls while he fucks her, and you kiss her, or suck on her tits. In any case, no matter whether you are watching, or participating, when he has dumped his load of cum up her hot snatch, you are “ready”! I mean your cock is as hard as it will ever get!

So, he’s done. He gets up and moves out of the way. You approach the bed, and as you do, you take in the image of this incredibly sexy sight before your eyes! On the bed lies “your wife”! She has just got done having sex with another man! You look at her face. She has sweat on her face and neck. Some of her hair is wet and sticking to her. She is licking her lips with her tongue, trying to get moisture on them. As you know, her mouth always gets dry while she’s having sex. She has that sexually satisfied look on her face that says she has enjoyed what she has just done, but she could still do more! Your gaze moves down to her chest. You can see that she is breathing hard from the physical exertion of the sex she’s just had. Her tits are heaving up and down with her every breath. Her nipples are standing up hard and erect, as they always do when she is sexually excited! You look further down her body to her legs. They are spread wide. Maybe she has the soles of her feet flat on the bed and her knees are up with her legs spread apart. You think to yourself that just a few moments ago, another man was there! Between her legs! You look at the inside of her thighs and you can see that they are all slick with a mixture of his cum and her juices! There is a puddle and big wet spot on the bed under her ass! Her pussy hair, (if she has any), is all wet and matted down. If she’s clean-shaven, you can see that her lower belly, pussy and whole crotch area, is slick with “their wetness”! Your gaze becomes riveted on her pussy. The lips are swollen, and they are that dark reddish color that they become when she’s sexually aroused. In their swollen state, and because they have just had a hard cock between them, they are slightly parted. You can just see the inside of her pussy. It’s completely wet and colored pink to reddish colors that tell you she’s HOT! At the very center of her swollen and slightly parted pussy lips, you can see her fuck hole! Right now it’s just a small oval shape and you can see a puddle of the other man’s cum in it! Some of it has run down her crack and dripped on to the bed! You think to yourself, that there isn’t anything in this world that is sexier than looking at a freshly fucked, full of cum, cunt! Especially, when it’s your wife’s, and the cum belongs to someone else!

You take in this whole scene! The sight of “your wife”, lying there on the bed, freshly fucked, and wanting more, is almost more than you can stand! It’s a wonder you don’t just cum right then and there, without ever getting anything! She is incredibly sexy! She is sexier right now, at this very moment, than you have ever seen her! She takes you by the hand and pulls you on to the bed. With her hands on your waist, she guides you between her legs and pulls you to her. She has just been fucked, but she wants more! She wants you!
As she pulls your pelvis towards hers, she whispers, “Come on, fuck me! Give me some more cock!”

The head of your cock easily slips between her wet pussy lips. In one quick, easy motion, you bury your cock into her cunt as far as it will go! As you slide into her, you can feel how HOT her cunt is! How wet it is! You can feel the other man’s cum being forced out around your cock. It wets your balls and runs down your wife’s crack. You lie there for a moment, motionless. You want to take in this feeling! The feeling of being deep inside your wife’s HOT, freshly fucked, cunt! The feeling of not only her juices making her wet and slippery, but it’s knowing that she is this HOT, and this wet, because her cunt is full of some other guy’s cum, and he just put it there a few moments ago! (This is a part of the experience that cannot be simulated!) The physical and emotional feelings almost overcome you and nearly make you cum! You have just gotten “in”, and already you are on the “edge”! (This is another reason why you lie there “motionless” for a few minutes! You are trying to stay in control! You don’t want this to all be over, too soon!) Finally, you begin to slowly fuck your wife. You move in and out of her well “used” fuck hole with ease!
You passionately kiss her, and as your lips part, she slides her mouth around to your ear and she says, “Come on Baby, let it feel good! Fuck me the way you want to! Give me some more cum up my cunt!”

Then you realize, this is probably one of the best parts of getting sloppy 2nd’s! She’s already been fucked and had her orgasms! This is all about you, now! You don’t have to worry about trying to fuck long enough to satisfy her. You can just concentrate entirely on how good this feels to you! As you begin to get a rhythm going, your wife starts to “fuck you” the best that she can. She moves her ass in “that way” that she knows you like. She starts “milking” your cock with the “squeezes” of her cunt! Your wife has always been the “best piece of ass” you have ever had! But, at times like this, when she isn’t concerned with getting herself off, she can give you a fucking that will never be forgotten! You know that she gave the other guy a great fuck. But! He was just that to her, “a fuck”. Right now, she is not just “fucking you”. She is putting her very sole into making this the best she can for you. She’s not only putting all her physical being into this, but you can also feel her love for you coming through as if your bodies were one, with only one heart!

So, you don’t have to try to “please her”. You can concentrate just on feeling good, yourself. She is trying to give you the best she can because she’s already had her orgasms. You can feel her love coming through in the way she moves her body. There is the eroticism of knowing that you are fucking “your wife” just moments after another man has, and in all likelihood, he is probably still there watching the two of you, or maybe he even joins in now like you were when he was fucking her. All of this combines to give you physical and emotional feelings that could NEVER be simulated! The feelings overcome you and it doesn’t take long before you add your own load of hot cum up your wife’s HOT cunt, to mix with what’s left of his, still inside her!

Once again, you bury your cock in her, and lie motionless on top of her, soaking in the feelings as your heart rate begins to return to normal! You have a few more passionate kisses with your wife, then, you pull your cock out and stand up next to the bed. You take one last look at the sexy image on the bed, which is “your wife”. She looks even more satisfied and sexier than she did before you started! A look at her pussy and you can see that she is now literally soaked all over in her juices, the other man’s cum, and yours! The puddle and wet spot on the bed has doubled in size. She looks so well fucked! So, nasty! So, sluttish! She IS a slut! Your slut! And you love her!

So! There it is! My best attempt at trying to describe what it’s really like to get “sloppy 2nd’s” and why I love it so much! If you have never had the pleasure of the experience yourself, I hope you have enjoyed the explanation. For those of you who have had “sloppy 2nd’s”, how did I do? Did I get it pretty close? Did I miss anything? Maybe you could add what you like most about “sloppy 2nd’s”?

A special note here to the women, who might be reading this…. Ladies, how about those of you who have done this with your husband, giving us your viewpoint on what you like or don’t like about “sloppy 2nd’s”? And…. To those women who have never been willing to do this for their husbands, I hope that my description of what it’s like for a man, (at least for me anyway), might encourage you to try it for your husband! I promise you, it’ll be something that he’ll always love you for!

[abhiandpreeti]

Doomywife,

THAT was amazing post. Reaffirms my faith in my desire to see my wife do it.

thanks,
Abhi

[doomywife]

Adhi,

Thanks! Glad I could help and that you liked the story! Watching your wife having sex with another man is an incredible experience that just simply CAN NOT be "simulated" and MUST BE "experienced"! All of the physical and emotional feelings that come with watching her and participating in the "act" with her are feelings that you can ONLY get from really doing it! Believe me when I tell you, it's an experience that you'll NEVER forget!

[lucky]

I don't how anyone could say it better, thanks for putting my thoughts into words. You are so right and you express the feelings so well.

I wrote this story several years ago, about the "Joys of getting Sloppy 2nds" from my wife. Whether you call them "sloppy 2nds", or something else, the meaning behind the story is the same. It describes the "JOY" of watching "your wife fuck another man"! Check out what I wrote...

Since my wife, Brandie, and I, started swinging, we have had many fun, exciting, sexual experiences. Many of them were just new, fun ways of enjoying sexual activities that we had been doing for years with each other, but that were now “more fun” when enjoyed with others! Then there were the totally “new” experiences, the things that we had never done before and were only now able to try them out with our swinging friends. If I had to pick the “one thing” that I have enjoyed the most about swinging, it would be…. “Getting sloppy 2nd’s” from my wife, after another man has just filled her with a load of cum!

Getting sloppy 2nd’s is something that is indescribable! If you have never experienced it for yourself, you can’t fully imagine what it’s like. It can’t be “simulated”. If you want to know what it’s like to get a blow job from your wife while another man fucks her, (and you’re not swingers), you can “simulate it”, by doing her with a dildo while she sucks you off. You will get pretty much the same reaction and feelings as you would if she was really getting it from another guy and sucking you at the same time. But! You can’t simulate “sloppy 2nd’s”! There is just no way to do it! As I said a few sentences ago, “sloppy 2nd’s” is something that is hard, if not impossible, to describe, but I’m going to try to do my best to tell you what it’s like and why I love it so much!

Imagine this… Your wife is on the bed on her back and another man is between her legs, with his cock up her cunt and he’s giving her a good fucking! You are naked and sitting in a chair watching. Maybe you join in and let your wife suck you while she is getting fucked. Or, maybe you just get on the bed next to her, and she just fondles your cock and balls while he fucks her, and you kiss her, or suck on her tits. In any case, no matter whether you are watching, or participating, when he has dumped his load of cum up her hot snatch, you are “ready”! I mean your cock is as hard as it will ever get!

So, he’s done. He gets up and moves out of the way. You approach the bed, and as you do, you take in the image of this incredibly sexy sight before your eyes! On the bed lies “your wife”! She has just got done having sex with another man! You look at her face. She has sweat on her face and neck. Some of her hair is wet and sticking to her. She is licking her lips with her tongue, trying to get moisture on them. As you know, her mouth always gets dry while she’s having sex. She has that sexually satisfied look on her face that says she has enjoyed what she has just done, but she could still do more! Your gaze moves down to her chest. You can see that she is breathing hard from the physical exertion of the sex she’s just had. Her tits are heaving up and down with her every breath. Her nipples are standing up hard and erect, as they always do when she is sexually excited! You look further down her body to her legs. They are spread wide. Maybe she has the soles of her feet flat on the bed and her knees are up with her legs spread apart. You think to yourself that just a few moments ago, another man was there! Between her legs! You look at the inside of her thighs and you can see that they are all slick with a mixture of his cum and her juices! There is a puddle and big wet spot on the bed under her ass! Her pussy hair, (if she has any), is all wet and matted down. If she’s clean-shaven, you can see that her lower belly, pussy and whole crotch area, is slick with “their wetness”! Your gaze becomes riveted on her pussy. The lips are swollen, and they are that dark reddish color that they become when she’s sexually aroused. In their swollen state, and because they have just had a hard cock between them, they are slightly parted. You can just see the inside of her pussy. It’s completely wet and colored pink to reddish colors that tell you she’s HOT! At the very center of her swollen and slightly parted pussy lips, you can see her fuck hole! Right now it’s just a small oval shape and you can see a puddle of the other man’s cum in it! Some of it has run down her crack and dripped on to the bed! You think to yourself, that there isn’t anything in this world that is sexier than looking at a freshly fucked, full of cum, cunt! Especially, when it’s your wife’s, and the cum belongs to someone else!

You take in this whole scene! The sight of “your wife”, lying there on the bed, freshly fucked, and wanting more, is almost more than you can stand! It’s a wonder you don’t just cum right then and there, without ever getting anything! She is incredibly sexy! She is sexier right now, at this very moment, than you have ever seen her! She takes you by the hand and pulls you on to the bed. With her hands on your waist, she guides you between her legs and pulls you to her. She has just been fucked, but she wants more! She wants you!
As she pulls your pelvis towards hers, she whispers, “Come on, fuck me! Give me some more cock!”

The head of your cock easily slips between her wet pussy lips. In one quick, easy motion, you bury your cock into her cunt as far as it will go! As you slide into her, you can feel how HOT her cunt is! How wet it is! You can feel the other man’s cum being forced out around your cock. It wets your balls and runs down your wife’s crack. You lie there for a moment, motionless. You want to take in this feeling! The feeling of being deep inside your wife’s HOT, freshly fucked, cunt! The feeling of not only her juices making her wet and slippery, but it’s knowing that she is this HOT, and this wet, because her cunt is full of some other guy’s cum, and he just put it there a few moments ago! (This is a part of the experience that cannot be simulated!) The physical and emotional feelings almost overcome you and nearly make you cum! You have just gotten “in”, and already you are on the “edge”! (This is another reason why you lie there “motionless” for a few minutes! You are trying to stay in control! You don’t want this to all be over, too soon!) Finally, you begin to slowly fuck your wife. You move in and out of her well “used” fuck hole with ease!
You passionately kiss her, and as your lips part, she slides her mouth around to your ear and she says, “Come on Baby, let it feel good! Fuck me the way you want to! Give me some more cum up my cunt!”

Then you realize, this is probably one of the best parts of getting sloppy 2nd’s! She’s already been fucked and had her orgasms! This is all about you, now! You don’t have to worry about trying to fuck long enough to satisfy her. You can just concentrate entirely on how good this feels to you! As you begin to get a rhythm going, your wife starts to “fuck you” the best that she can. She moves her ass in “that way” that she knows you like. She starts “milking” your cock with the “squeezes” of her cunt! Your wife has always been the “best piece of ass” you have ever had! But, at times like this, when she isn’t concerned with getting herself off, she can give you a fucking that will never be forgotten! You know that she gave the other guy a great fuck. But! He was just that to her, “a fuck”. Right now, she is not just “fucking you”. She is putting her very sole into making this the best she can for you. She’s not only putting all her physical being into this, but you can also feel her love for you coming through as if your bodies were one, with only one heart!

So, you don’t have to try to “please her”. You can concentrate just on feeling good, yourself. She is trying to give you the best she can because she’s already had her orgasms. You can feel her love coming through in the way she moves her body. There is the eroticism of knowing that you are fucking “your wife” just moments after another man has, and in all likelihood, he is probably still there watching the two of you, or maybe he even joins in now like you were when he was fucking her. All of this combines to give you physical and emotional feelings that could NEVER be simulated! The feelings overcome you and it doesn’t take long before you add your own load of hot cum up your wife’s HOT cunt, to mix with what’s left of his, still inside her!

Once again, you bury your cock in her, and lie motionless on top of her, soaking in the feelings as your heart rate begins to return to normal! You have a few more passionate kisses with your wife, then, you pull your cock out and stand up next to the bed. You take one last look at the sexy image on the bed, which is “your wife”. She looks even more satisfied and sexier than she did before you started! A look at her pussy and you can see that she is now literally soaked all over in her juices, the other man’s cum, and yours! The puddle and wet spot on the bed has doubled in size. She looks so well fucked! So, nasty! So, sluttish! She IS a slut! Your slut! And you love her!

So! There it is! My best attempt at trying to describe what it’s really like to get “sloppy 2nd’s” and why I love it so much! If you have never had the pleasure of the experience yourself, I hope you have enjoyed the explanation. For those of you who have had “sloppy 2nd’s”, how did I do? Did I get it pretty close? Did I miss anything? Maybe you could add what you like most about “sloppy 2nd’s”?

A special note here to the women, who might be reading this…. Ladies, how about those of you who have done this with your husband, giving us your viewpoint on what you like or don’t like about “sloppy 2nd’s”? And…. To those women who have never been willing to do this for their husbands, I hope that my description of what it’s like for a man, (at least for me anyway), might encourage you to try it for your husband! I promise you, it’ll be something that he’ll always love you for!

[eddiew]

Very hot story doomywife. It makes me want to share my girlfriend even more. The reason why I would want her to fuck another guy and/or another guy fuck her is twofold. One the one hand I would like her to experience as much pleasure as possible: every guy has another cock, way of moving, way of kissing, flavor etcetera. If you eat spaghetti everyday, you really appreciate Chinese food after two weeks! ;-) On the other hand I think that she is too good to keep her for myself. I would love to see another guy go absolutely mad as he lays on the bed getting a wonderful cocksucking/licking from her lusceous mouth and absolutely soft tongue. Would love his reaction as he enters her tight almost bare but pussy, enjoys the view he sees when he looks down on her beautiful ass when he is giving it to her in doggystyle, licks her hard breasts/nipples etcetera. If only she would want to (but I am working on it)! :-((((

[Matt2]

Today I could offer up all the familiar rubber-stamp answers and mean every word of them:

- I want her to enjoy sexual freedom
- It turns me ON
- It's all about her

But that's not why we started doing it, or why the topic ever surfaced in the first place. In fact, this is the FIRST time I've ever really thought deeply about how/why it started for us mostly because we're not together anymore.

She was very possessive of me. She disapproved of the "swinging" articles I liked reading about (her jealousy,) but the mail-in photos of the various "wives" intrigued her and she decided to "compete" with those pics. I took some (initially G-rated) Polaroids of her, which soon evolved into X-rated poses with pillows, stuffed animals, our German shepherd, etc. We never really discussed it but I think she thought I was showing them around. I wasn't - they were downright naughty! But she entertained the fantasy that my colleagues were seeing her naked poses so I accepted that and just fed her fantasy - it made for some damned good sex.

The important issue here is that the thought of "sharing her charms", albeit through pics, appealed to me under the pretext of being "proud of what I had." Though the pics never left my dresser drawer, the idea of "sharing what I had with others" began to drill it's way into some dark corner of my brain and started to work on me. Little by little the idea of some guy viewing the pics and lusting for her began to give me enduring erections. But I prudently kept the Polaroids in the drawer.

She was naturally horrified when I confessed my new feelings. The fact that I might THINK she was a "loose woman" frightened her. She also thought I was a card-carrying pervert. It was as new to me as it was to her (we were both 22,) but instead of scaring me it turned me on. Over time she tolerated my "fetish" and finally let me take her through a make-out role-play with some faceless man during pillow-talk. She loved it but was guilt-ridden afterward, something she blamed on me. On my side of the equation I became convinced this was actually going to happen someday.

Even as a poor GI family we entertained a lot on weekends and this strange new dynamic was always just below the surface in our minds. One Saturday night a friend came to drink beer with us and we spontaneously found the bed for some hard core make-out (I'm not sure whom was more surprised; her or me!) He refused to go further but the event planted an important seed. Our FIRST real encounter finally happened several months later (again - it was all my fault.)

It's ironic but no one EVER saw those pictures! She, of course, believed otherwise, and that all my friends lusted for her body. But her mindset was a major reason why sharing her became a permanent part of my thoughts. It all started from the normal spousal characteristic of "being proud of what I had!" Can YOU think of a better way to reward a true friend?

[Willy and Jen]

It all started from the normal spousal characteristic of "being proud of what I had!" Can YOU think of a better way to reward a true friend?

That's exactly my thoughts about sharing my wife. I've always gotten off seeing them enjoy her womanly charms, or at least hearing about it when she got back, if I wasn't present. I think someone on here awhile back expressed it as when you have a hot nice car, you like to let your buddy take it around the block at least once.

[Matt2]

It all started from the normal spousal characteristic of "being proud of what I had!" Can YOU think of a better way to reward a true friend?

That's exactly my thoughts about sharing my wife. I've always gotten off seeing them enjoy her womanly charms, or at least hearing about it when she got back, if I wasn't present. I think someone on here awhile back expressed it as when you have a hot nice car, you like to let your buddy take it around the block at least once.

I have to agreee with the "being proud of a hot car" analogy, which is very much a MALE characteristic. The ladies decorate themselves with the latest plumage and the menfolk parade them around. The audience is dazzled - women admire her while the men want to be intimate with her - everybody wins. This social pattern has been on the books for eons in western cultures. Pictures of the well-plumed matriarch grace the castle. We're "proud" of her.

But the above doesn't explain WHY sharing her good looks extends to sharing her sexually, a very unconventional practice.

I think the answer might be that some men (not all) tend to gravitate toward tempting fate in their personal search for excitement and adventure, toying with "risk" and challenging the "ultimate sacrifice" as we ascend to a desirable level of self-identity. Some men climb mountains, some sail solo around the globe - stretching their physical and emotional endurance. Not all of us can afford such adventurous luxuries, but pushing the envelope in a loving relationship can produce similar mind-bending experiences for free. Perhaps that's why the sex is so good afterwards - the staggering elation of poking your collective fingers in the eye of cultural authority. We approach it together as man and woman, feel the nervous anxiety and angst of passing her to another man to experience the most powerful stimulant known to the species, then fuck with reckless abandon afterwards.

All the natural human tendencies are there: he wants the "conquest" of her body, she wants to be conquered and rut like an animal, and hubby is "top dog" in the arrangement - he's admired and "lucky to have her." It's strange that something as value-foreign as HWing fits all these tendencies so well, but it seems to do just that. It's certainly not for the Oliver Milktoasts among us though

Anyway, that's as close as I've come to figuring out the WHY part.

[Playswithfire]

Matt2.

That was the most AWESOME post I've ever read. I think you nailed it on the head.

WOW.