Our Hotwives

Boofer wrote:I noticed the expression "moods" above. That probably is the best way to describe the lifestyle for Boofer. The problem is matching my mood with her mood. My wife would say, "are you getting kinky?" Yes, at times I felt kinky. I never viewed it as a lifestyle, rather a momentary thrill seeking experience. Our lifestyle was about "family" and good times together. Disneyland, Knotts, the beach, Lake Irvine, and a tight outfit in our little house wherever that might be. I always felt I could reel my wife in at my pleasure, and play monopoly by the fire.

My wife and I once moved to this quaint community in a nice big house, snow on the pines, and we had each other to ourselves. I felt like I was dressing her in a Barka, hiding her away, and I wanted man to see what a beautiful woman Boofer had in his possession. That was a mistake, but I couldn't help myself.

While riding me on top, or lounging around the pool, vacuuming the floor, or dressing for work, I wanted validation from other men. She never strived for this, but if a wife walks the catwalk enough, she's gonna realize her potential. At some point, I became a man in bib overalls, smelling like a coal oil lantern, married to a debutante or catwalk model. That said, I'll never forget her dancing to Brickhouse and watching other men applaud her from the back of the club in my overalls.

Moods, Boofer

So she blossomed and danced in clubs to great applause and it sounds like all you have now is memories of her beautiful body and the hot things she did with other men before drifting away from you to the company of superior men and guys who could give her more physically and financially. Does she still talk to you or does she now move in circles far above her x-cuck hubby existence.

OMG! The Boof rides again! His presence is much missed.

Brand new to the site, I read a ton of these responses and I've found them so refreshingly respectful. I LOVE the fact that people can discuss, debate and even disagree without name calling and juvenile behavior The reasons hubby and I have decided to make this leap are as numerous as these responses, we married very young, were each others firsts and only for over 20 years then he floated the idea softly to me. We danced around it discussing it off and on and we're now at a point in our lives that we're 100% unapologetic for our desires, so what if our kink isn't what others is, not my problem

I love the idea of my wife’s deepest, truest state being purely wanton; it is a part of her that I never new existed before our recent conversations. The idea of her sharing that side of herself with me is so intimate and intoxicating, that I ache inside for the next revelation. It is almost like I have not truly known this secret part of my wife all these years. I want the whole woman, I want it all, complete trust and profound intimacy. I want to know and adore every crevice of her soul.

She's hot and very sexual. If turned on she can cum by a stiff breeze. Love watching her in the throes of ecstasy as she is an easy and multiple cummer. Watching her is better than any porn ever made. She's a Vixen, I'm a Stag

My wife just yesterday fucked her bull for three hours. I cannot even begin to put into words how happy I am for her, how hot I am for her, and how much in love we both are. Anytime she can get fucked for that long and have uncountable orgasms is about the best thing one could hope for for their lovely wife. I cannot deliver that, want to but just can't, why would I deny her the opportunity to get it, experience it ? She deserves to have thise orgasmed.

Sheldan wrote:My wife just yesterday fucked her bull for three hours. I cannot even begin to put into words how happy I am for her, how hot I am for her, and how much in love we both are. Anytime she can get fucked for that long and have uncountable orgasms is about the best thing one could hope for for their lovely wife. I cannot deliver that, want to but just can't, why would I deny her the opportunity to get it, experience it ? She deserves to have thise orgasmed.

You expressed your thoughts beautifully!

For me, I want my girl to have the most sexual fun in life she can. We have a great sex life already without bringing others into the mix. But she has less sex experience in life than I do and I want her to "catch up", so to speak. Have lots of sexual fun. We don't believe in monogamy as a rule. Didn't work in her previous marriage and it has never worked for me either. We're having a threesome this evening with a new guy. It'll be the 4th guy she's been with since we've been together for the last 3 years. She's nervous and I am too, I guess. But I'm mostly excited for her to get to have some fun with a new guy and I get to watch. She'll want me to participate and I will to some degree. But I want to make sure I get plenty of pics and video clips, too. Makes for the most awesome material to stroke and fantasize to days, weeks, months later. I just think watching her have sex is awesome. And I love fucking her afterward. We aren't into the humiliation aspect or denying me of anything. This is mean to be just pure fun for us both. I'm going to shave her pussy smooth this afternoon and spend a long time licking her and making her feel good prior to meeting him for drinks.

UnderMyThmb wrote:For me, I want my girl to have the most sexual fun in life she can. We have a great sex life already without bringing others into the mix. But she has less sex experience in life than I do and I want her to "catch up", so to speak. Have lots of sexual fun. We don't believe in monogamy as a rule. Didn't work in her previous marriage and it has never worked for me either. We're having a threesome this evening with a new guy. It'll be the 4th guy she's been with since we've been together for the last 3 years. She's nervous and I am too, I guess. But I'm mostly excited for her to get to have some fun with a new guy and I get to watch. She'll want me to participate and I will to some degree. But I want to make sure I get plenty of pics and video clips, too. Makes for the most awesome material to stroke and fantasize to days, weeks, months later. I just think watching her have sex is awesome. And I love fucking her afterward. We aren't into the humiliation aspect or denying me of anything. This is mean to be just pure fun for us both. I'm going to shave her pussy smooth this afternoon and spend a long time licking her and making her feel good prior to meeting him for drinks.

That is SO hot! Having video afterwards makes the best porn - better than anything one can find on the web. Wen you see a closeup of another man's huge tool take that final deep plunge into your wife's pussy gripping it like a vice, then watch his cock violently twitch and the back of his balls contract and pulsate knowing he's bathing her ovaries with wave after wave of his hot seed - making her pussy, his - wow! That is priceless video. Enjoy (and share!).

While the explanations may not be "wholly satisfying," I find the experience itself, and the orgasms I experience while having sex with my wife afterwards are very satisfying. My wife and I both find that after she's had a lover, our senses are heightened and we experience profound orgasms but are still horny for more within a short period of time. I'd love to hear from some of you folks - do you experience good orgasms with your wife after she's enjoyed a lover?


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In truth, neither explanation is wholly satisfying and it stands to reason that the impetus for cuckoldry will vary from person to person in accordance with their life experiences, culture, etc.

WHY AM I IN IT well it is all just for my wife, I feel it is the freedom I can give her to be with me because she wants to be and not because she is just my wife, I let her know years ago that she can do whatever she likes she has compleat freedom to explore and enjoy sex in whatever way she wants and with who she wants,

If she has the best sex ever with someone I don't even know I am happy for her, if she becomes a sexpert it is a plus or even learns a few new tricks, for me given her freedom is the biggest part of it the freedom to go and come back to me,

for her this freedom is important she does not want to be owned and likes to experience the different touch of other men some are soft like a baby some are just good at kissing some are bad boys and some interesting to be with

This has been a long process for the 2 of us we had a very sheltered upbringing and had been educated that anything to do with sex was dirty did not even know what a blowjob was until there was a lot of talk about someone getting it in the oval office

I don't think our journey has yet ended as I think we will enjoy new experiences in the years to come as we experiment with what sex has for us

"Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?"
Because its super hot and u fuck her better afetr or if u join and second when u watch the love of ur life is pleased u also feel that ur pleased too

meem wrote:"Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?"
Because its super hot and u fuck her better afetr or if u join and second when u watch the love of ur life is pleased u also feel that ur pleased too

after she is getting comfortable with the other man, she is getting touched, kissed , clothes off, she is getting wet and wild, no more fear, he is getting into her, she is feeling him inside , 2 in 1 , she is asking for harder, deeper, you are watching and eyes come together, she seek your hand, holding your hand while I'm over her, you can feel how hard i'm going by how hard she is closing her hands , she is about to cum, you can feel her so wet, all her body is shaking , she is cumming, you feel her eyes at you, saying thank you.

that's what I see in a wife , and the man is always proud of his wife if she is really pleasing the man

After ten years of monogamy we had become our parents. After one year of hotwifing she has transformed into a erotic woman, so happy with her freedom and sexuality and our relationship. She said it's what she always wanted in her heart, but never allowed herself to even think about. Sex is infused into our daily life, and she is now my coconspirator, my goddess, my wife, and my soul mate. The price was getting through the mine field of jealousy, but now on the other side, this wonderful addition to our lives brings us amazing pleasure. Hearing her whisper the details of her most recent sex adventure into my ear while I fuck her makes me focus on her in a way I couldn't imagine before, and makes us both explode with passion.

We have been married for 50+ years. We started down this road approximately 10 years ago, why? Simple really we became bored and needed to refocus our sexual relationship, we talked about fantasies and it transpires that we both wished for another person to become involved....we searched around, found our man and he has been giving my wife satisfaction ever since....for my part I have become the cuckold I have always wished to be right down to fulfilling my cross dressing desires...we fully accept that it might not work for many but for us it sure did and we are a very happy and devoted couple of 70+ year olds.

It's really simple.
We both enjoy it.

For us it has been very exciting journey to say the least. I have followed others on here about watching their hotwives in person. Something I've always desired so much but just couldn't find the right guy. Besides that she just wasn't ready for me to watch her. She would send me snap shots of some of her action.

Then about a year ago we invited an old friend into the mix. The first time he came over she greeted him at the door with just a pair of black lace panties. For the first time I got to see her exposed in front of someone else, as she lead him to our basement. I stayed upstairs and let the video camera do its thing. That was the most exciting thing I had ever seen. Well that was until he came back over and I got to take pictures!

For those that like porn you absolutely must watch your wife in person! It is the most amazing thing to see. To this day it still amazes me when I look at the pictures and videos of him on top of her with her legs wide open. My heart was pounding like crazy as I walked into the room for the very first time. To be able to see his hard dick going in and out of her pussy was just awesome. I could actually hear the sloshing sound of his dick in her wet pussy. Being right there watching her cum while he was pounding her hard and deep was breathtaking. Then I watched her as she gave him an awesome blow job right in front of me. She looked up into my eyes as she sucked his dick with passion. I was sweating like a fat kid in a chocolate factory! Couldn't keep my camera steady from shaking so damn much.

Well had I known that was going to be the last encounter for us I would have done a little more. Never assume there will be a next time. I've learned from that moment is to make the most of each and every encounter like it will be the last because it just may be. In my opinion it is absolutely amazing to be able to share your lovely wife with another man. As many others have stated on here, it can bring you closer together. It can enhance your own sex life. It can bring out some hidden behavior in your wife. And it will most definitely make you see your wife in a different way afterwards. When I look at my wife, I often find myself being amazed. I'm amazed that she has actually had another man's dick in her and that she enjoyed it. I can't believe I actually seen another man's bare dick in her pussy and mouth, and that he has shot his cum in her. JUST WOW!!!!

We've played for the past 12 yrs, it has been a lot of fun for us both. She has became a different person, a person that I just love so much. Unfortunately for us she likes long term relationships and the guys always disappear after awhile. The ending seems to take a bit out of her each time, which has caused her to call it quits for the lifestyle.

So for anyone who wants to indulge in the lifestyle, I say to you, enjoy it to the fullest, cherish each moment, cherish her to the fullest as well. We all get into the lifestyle for various reasons, but ultimately it's for the excitement the extra sex brings. We enjoyed it, (could have enjoyed it more) but we learned a lot about ourselves along the way. We have no regrets, maybe in the future we'll meet the right guy and he'll stick around long term as he sticks it to her. LOL!

1Hot57C wrote:For us it has been very exciting journey to say the least. I have followed others on here about watching their hotwives in person. Something I've always desired so much but just couldn't find the right guy. Besides that she just wasn't ready for me to watch her. She would send me snap shots of some of her action.

Then about a year ago we invited an old friend into the mix. The first time he came over she greeted him at the door with just a pair of black lace panties. For the first time I got to see her exposed in front of someone else, as she lead him to our basement. I stayed upstairs and let the video camera do its thing. That was the most exciting thing I had ever seen. Well that was until he came back over and I got to take pictures!

For those that like porn you absolutely must watch your wife in person! It is the most amazing thing to see. To this day it still amazes me when I look at the pictures and videos of him on top of her with her legs wide open. My heart was pounding like crazy as I walked into the room for the very first time. To be able to see his hard dick going in and out of her pussy was just awesome. I could actually hear the sloshing sound of his dick in her wet pussy. Being right there watching her cum while he was pounding her hard and deep was breathtaking. Then I watched her as she gave him an awesome blow job right in front of me. She looked up into my eyes as she sucked his dick with passion. I was sweating like a fat kid in a chocolate factory! Couldn't keep my camera steady from shaking so damn much.

Well had I known that was going to be the last encounter for us I would have done a little more. Never assume there will be a next time. I've learned from that moment is to make the most of each and every encounter like it will be the last because it just may be. In my opinion it is absolutely amazing to be able to share your lovely wife with another man. As many others have stated on here, it can bring you closer together. It can enhance your own sex life. It can bring out some hidden behavior in your wife. And it will most definitely make you see your wife in a different way afterwards. When I look at my wife, I often find myself being amazed. I'm amazed that she has actually had another man's dick in her and that she enjoyed it. I can't believe I actually seen another man's bare dick in her pussy and mouth, and that he has shot his cum in her. JUST WOW!!!!

We've played for the past 12 yrs, it has been a lot of fun for us both. She has became a different person, a person that I just love so much. Unfortunately for us she likes long term relationships and the guys always disappear after awhile. The ending seems to take a bit out of her each time, which has caused her to call it quits for the lifestyle.

So for anyone who wants to indulge in the lifestyle, I say to you, enjoy it to the fullest, cherish each moment, cherish her to the fullest as well. We all get into the lifestyle for various reasons, but ultimately it's for the excitement the extra sex brings. We enjoyed it, (could have enjoyed it more) but we learned a lot about ourselves along the way. We have no regrets, maybe in the future we'll meet the right guy and he'll stick around long term as he sticks it to her. LOL!

Wow you described it so beautifully. Amazing.
You are so lucky to have a wife like that. I wish I had a woman like that.

Yeah...we know what you mean. These guys just disappear No text no nothing. It is so rude. That is my wife's biggest disappointment. Even after 4 or 5 great sessions of sex, they just disappear There is something fucked up about the psychology of these guys.

ckathrill wrote:Yeah...we know what you mean. These guys just disappear No text no nothing. It is so rude. That is my wife's biggest disappointment. Even after 4 or 5 great sessions of sex, they just disappear There is something fucked up about the psychology of these guys.

I totally agree, there's definitely something wrong with them. For them it's just another conquest but it's something more for our wives. A lot of guys have no consideration for a woman's feelings. This lifestyle is not for everyone, speaking for my wife she can't get involved with just any guy that comes along. She has to feel a connection, and that's why she hasn't been with very many guys in a 12 yr period. We have a good sex life therefore the extra isn't needed, it was just a added bonus for us to enjoy.

It's very exciting when she has someone to play with, however it's scary watching her put herself out there to be disappointed again. That's why we've decided to stop participating. If I were in their shoes I would play with her for as long as I possibly could, especially if I knew the husband approved. I would have no problem becoming the couples friend in and outside the bedroom if thats what they desired. I guess a lot of guys are just different, because I've never been someone into one night stands or short term relationships. I've always found it to be very special for a woman that has chosen me out of many other guys to be intimate with. No other time is a woman more vulnerable than when she is naked. She has chosen to let you see her entire body and all it's imperfections and then share her most valued treasures with you.

So with that being said, I have found nothing but respect for all women. And to all the women who are in the lifestyle my hat goes off to you for putting yourselves out there. And to all the men who are gracious enough to share their wives my hat goes off to you as well. Enjoy the good times, but most of all enjoy each other.

Well said 1Hot57C, I agree 100% but could not have said it any better - well done.

ckathrill wrote:Yeah...we know what you mean. These guys just disappear No text no nothing. It is so rude. That is my wife's biggest disappointment. Even after 4 or 5 great sessions of sex, they just disappear There is something fucked up about the psychology of these guys.

As a bf, I enjoy the chase as long as there is more to accomplish in the relationship .. higher levels.. more excitement.. deeper kink.. and then when it tapers off I am ready to move on. HOWEVER.. I do not disappear. I make sure that I taper off along with the couple and usually see that they have reached a plateau also. I am ready for something new and usually, so are they. I might introduce them to other bf’s or like couples .. I might introduce them to certain heavier groups to further their kinks or fetishes.. or we might want a change of pace and just go different ways.

I also think it is rude and inconsiderate to disappear.. or not even show up for a date like many do. I am a very strict Alpha Dominant male but I am not an asshole. I enjoy a couple as long as we are both on the same page and then help them move on as a courtesy and a thank you for the exciting adventure we had together. But, I can only speak for myself.

Brad

Hawke82 wrote:We both married young, and I was her first. I think part of it, was her curiousity over what she might have missed out on, and my facination with the idea. One she placed the idea in my head, it just grew, until I really wanted it to happen. Not sure why, or why I didn't feel jealous or threatened (though some jealousy came later).

It was definitely a process. He wanted me to realize I was still a desirable woman in other men's eyes, especially after having babies. He always thought I was hot. Now I know it. I thank him for letting me have fun but he knows I will always come home to him. He knows how to make me happy.

Ladyhawke822 wrote:

Hawke82 wrote:We both married young, and I was her first. I think part of it, was her curiousity over what she might have missed out on, and my facination with the idea. One she placed the idea in my head, it just grew, until I really wanted it to happen. Not sure why, or why I didn't feel jealous or threatened (though some jealousy came later).

It was definitely a process. He wanted me to realize I was still a desirable woman in other men's eyes, especially after having babies. He always thought I was hot. Now I know it. I thank him for letting me have fun but he knows I will always come home to him. He knows how to make me happy.

Great observation Ladyhawke. You are indeed a very desirable and Beautiful lady and Hawke82 is a very lucky fellow. It is a process and I am so happy for the both of you that is was a successful journey and one you will continue to enjoy for many years to come. Cheers

As wife to Hawke82, I know it's interesting to see the way he looks at me when I am with another. I don't always understand it but I enjoy seeing how hot he gets watching me. It definitely spiced up the marriage. He says I suggested it , I think he did. Does it matter? No because we both enjoy it.