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[SSQ]

Maybe one of these days I'll win the lottery. I think it would be a lot of fun to visit some OHW members, maybe do an extended trip from place to place.

There are definitely some people here I'd love to hang out with (and maybe have some fun!)

I'm IN!

Thelma and Louise my ass....we'll give them something to do a movie about, heh!

we can all drive around in a fabulous convertible with our hair in scarves taking Polaroid selfies, fucking a young Brad Pitt but I think we should skip the drive off the cliff part.

LOL........I call SHOTGUN!

We can pick up Buttercream and she can put victory curls in all our hair and then wickedjasmine! The trunk will have Wd, Buttercream and SSQ's shoes in it!

Do you think the trunk would be big enough for our shoes? I have my doubts!

[SSQ]

It's interesting. I was just thinking last night about fantasies and fetishes and then I saw that thread today wondering where our fetishes come from.

Somehow I think I could pay someone a LOT of money and they wouldn't be able to figure it out. Sometimes weird stuff turns us on, things that don't really make any sense. Last night I masturbated to porn where a much older man kidnapped a blonde 18 year old, tied her up, spanked her ass, hung her upside down from a tree and face fucked her, and also tied her splayed out so he could masturbate her and make her cum while she cried, and then pissed on her before finally fucking her silly.

So, I'll admit it. I watched it and I got off hard, many times. I rooted for this fat bald guy to slap her face while she cried, and to say degrading things to her. Why do I think it turned me on? Well, first of all, just the power. She had none. This pretty young woman who probably has men wrapped around her fingers in normal life had to take whatever this old fat bald man wanted to do to her. And I wanted to do all those awful things to her, too.

Yeah, my sex drive has been sky high lately and I haven't been able to do much about it since H is out of town. I'd really like to go to the swinger's club sometime soon, though. I think I'm in the mood to watch people fuck and maybe do some exhibitionism myself. Which is funny, because I'm finding that vanilla porn just isn't as sexy to me anymore.

So, there you go, guys- you say women don't share their intimate thoughts? We just have to be less shy about it Sometimes, pretty twisted stuff arouses me. That doesn't mean I want to do it all!

So, now who reading this has suddenly remembered an urgent engagement elsewhere and wants to run and hide from me?

[bubbajack]

I would like to run away from you just fast enough so you could catch the man or woman who is a little bit slower - then I'd like to turn around and watch you doing to him or her whatever you want to . I'm sure it would be VERY stimulating!

[steve006901]

SSQ
I stumbled across your thread a couple of days ago and have to say it has been a very interesting read. I love your openness, not to mention your sexual appetite. Thank you for sharing your adventures and thoughts.
I am truly surprised you have not made your MFM happen yet. You will love it! I have had the pleasure of sharing a former lover and joining several couples. All were different and a lot of fun. Sometimes the other male would just watch or take photos while the lady and I played. With others we would take turns with her. The best by far was with a lady that loved DP and DPP. She would wear my friend and me both out, typically making me cum at least 3 times, usually once in each of her hot holes. When Doing DP we almost always all would cum simultaneously or like a set of Domino's. Once one would cum, we all did.
I am not submissive, but mildly Dom. I have never had the chance to try many of the toys you have or been to a munch. I prefer to play privately although exhibitionism can be fun. I would love to meet you some day, if you ever come to so CA. Now if I could just get my current lady to join us, I would be in heaven.
I hope you and H continue to keep each other happy.
Steve

[SSQ]

SSQ
I stumbled across your thread a couple of days ago and have to say it has been a very interesting read. I love your openness, not to mention your sexual appetite. Thank you for sharing your adventures and thoughts.
I am truly surprised you have not made your MFM happen yet. You will love it! I have had the pleasure of sharing a former lover and joining several couples. All were different and a lot of fun. Sometimes the other male would just watch or take photos while the lady and I played. With others we would take turns with her. The best by far was with a lady that loved DP and DPP. She would wear my friend and me both out, typically making me cum at least 3 times, usually once in each of her hot holes. When Doing DP we almost always all would cum simultaneously or like a set of Domino's. Once one would cum, we all did.
I am not submissive, but mildly Dom. I have never had the chance to try many of the toys you have or been to a munch. I prefer to play privately although exhibitionism can be fun. I would love to meet you some day, if you ever come to so CA. Now if I could just get my current lady to join us, I would be in heaven.
I hope you and H continue to keep each other happy.
Steve

You know, Steve, the reason I haven't had a MFM is because I'm very picky about the way I want it to happen. If I had just wanted a MFM, I could have had one a dozen times over. But H and I had very different ideas about how we wanted it to happen, and I wasn't interested in a porn star style MFM which was his fantasy (at least not at first- I told him I'd be open to doing that for him but I wanted to enjoy my fantasy first). What I want is a very intimate and sensual experience. I want it to be centred around my desires and my pleasure. I want lots of kissing and touching and pussy licking and just making it all about me. I want to make love to two men. And the more difficult criteria is that I want it to be bareback since I don't like the taste of latex but I do like the taste of pussy. So, that's a much tougher order to fill and I've preferred to wait until I feel the time is right instead of just taking my first opportunity. I want it to be really memorable.

Now, I'll admit I could be seduced into having a D/s MFM instead, where I fuck H and humiliate and/or degrade the third partner before making him eat my pussy full of H's cum. I find that scenario very appealing as well.

Either way, I have much more specific requirements from a MFM than from a FMF, where I just want to have fun. So, I'm in no rush. I'm only 31 years old, so I have lots of time for it to happen the way I want to.

Private play is fun but nothing beats the rush of doing something exciting and having a whole group of people crowding around you (but still standing back respectfully), and oohing and aahing at what you're doing. It's like no one exists but you and your partner, but you know people are watching and they're loving it and you're loving it and it's just fantastic. Hard to express though

Thanks, but I'm not interested in playing with Dominant men, if that's what you meant. Just not my style.

[Salsonero]

nothing beats the rush of doing something exciting and having a whole group of people crowding around you (but still standing back respectfully), and oohing and aahing at what you're doing.

Oh dear, where are my smelling salts.

I've never been there, but you make it sound as good as the fantasy ... I'm moving it up a couple notches on the bucket list.

[SSQ]

Well holy kinkiness, SSQ, so you're an exhibitionist too?!

I know, complete shock, isn't it? Wanna come find out how much of one? I'm playing this weekend at a club.

[SSQ]

What's a club like, SSQ? I'm thinking no disco balls and bright lights?

Depends on the club. The swinger's club that I go to on BDSM nights has a giant outdoor heated pool which is super awesome, a dance floor, stripper poles, a social area, a couple of bars, and a dungeon, not to mention all the variously themed public rooms for sex and the one private room upstairs (who goes to a swinger's club for a private room????).

The club I'm going to this weekend is in a private home that has its entire lower level converted to a dungeon with various equipment, and the main floor is a bar and social area. It's specifically a female Dominant party- no men allowed unless they're submissive. Submissives of all gender expressions and orientations are welcomed as long as they're aware it's a high protocol party. That means no sitting on furniture without permission, and being open to providing service to the Dommes. And yes, it's sex friendly.

Every club or party has a different flavour and I enjoy most of them. There have been a few that don't really appeal to me, but that's okay too.

[SSQ]

Sounds like fun for ya! I'm assuming that at swing clubs the "private" rooms would involve a gathering of more than just one couple. As far as such a party, I'd don't think I'd really fit -- I don't take orders well but I'd not exactly consider myself a Dom at all. Damn middle-of-the-roader I guess!

What's a club like, SSQ? I'm thinking no disco balls and bright lights?

Depends on the club. The swinger's club that I go to on BDSM nights has a giant outdoor heated pool which is super awesome, a dance floor, stripper poles, a social area, a couple of bars, and a dungeon, not to mention all the variously themed public rooms for sex and the one private room upstairs (who goes to a swinger's club for a private room????).

The club I'm going to this weekend is in a private home that has its entire lower level converted to a dungeon with various equipment, and the main floor is a bar and social area. It's specifically a female Dominant party- no men allowed unless they're submissive. Submissives of all gender expressions and orientations are welcomed as long as they're aware it's a high protocol party. That means no sitting on furniture without permission, and being open to providing service to the Dommes. And yes, it's sex friendly.

Every club or party has a different flavour and I enjoy most of them. There have been a few that don't really appeal to me, but that's okay too.

No, this party wouldn't be to your taste, I suspect. Although I could come up with some lovely ideas for things to do with you while everyone watched us

[SSQ]

So I've had a really full weekend... actually experiencing Top drop already which is pretty shitty, but I know it happens so I just have to wait it out.

On Friday I had a date with Jennifer. She warned me in advance it would be G rated since her daughter would be home, so that was fine. We went on a double date with her husband and his Domme to dinner and a comedy club, which was pretty good. Then he went to spend the night at her house while we slept at theirs. While not as good as sex, cuddling up watching a movie was pretty nice, too

Then Saturday I had been looking forward to for months. I went to a femDom high protocol party with Chris, and we had several scenes planned which were going to be a lot of fun. Unfortunately he developed a headache early in the night so I didn't get to explore the way I'd wanted to. We left shortly after since the party was loud.

On a good note, he did feel better when we got back to his place, since I was spending the night with him, so we did some lighter play. That was actually pretty awesome and put me back in a good headspace. Not sure if I'll write it up in my blog tonight or tomorrow, but I'll get to it, and I suspect people here would find it an enjoyable read Not too far out there for people's comfort zones!

And today I went to a workshop on old fashioned discipline, like spanking, canes, straps, etc. It was a lot of fun and I added some more tools and information to my arsenal

It's been pretty good times!

[SSQ]

Okay, I actually did go to some detail in my blog post, which I usually don't, so I will share some of it here for the people who don't read my blog. It was an incredibly hot evening. Definitely men who are into chastity and denial will enjoy the hollow strap on cock that we used. He could fuck me as much as I wanted and had no sensation whatsoever. And I was getting everything I wanted

" The next part of my weekend was something I'd been looking forward to for months; a high protocol female Dominant party with Chris! He and I talk at least a few times a week and we're pretty good friends. We also share so many similar kinks and desires and we have fabulous energy when we play together. We had planned out a couple of good scenes and I was really excited. Plus, this is my favourite party because I just love the atmosphere. It's so positive towards female Dominance and it just feels so right to me. Plus, where else do you get to have half naked men kneel in front of you to offer snacks and drinks, or to do whatever you need? Unfortunately we hadn't been there long before Chris developed a headache, so we decided to abort mission and just go back to his place since I was spending the night there. I was really disappointed not to get to use my electrical toys on him, but it happens and I know he felt bad about it and I didn't want to make him feel worse.

He did start to feel better after a couple of Tylenol and quiet hanging out at his house instead of the noise of the party, so we decided to do a little light play. I'm so glad we did because it was fantastic. We had talked about involving some more D/s in our play and I was looking forward to that since I enjoy that kind of connection.

He slowly put my over the knee boots on, taking care to make sure they fit me perfectly. I find this arousing on so many levels- it's not just that I have a boot fetish, it's that I know that HE also has a boot fetish so he's enjoying it as much as I am, plus the fact that he is doing his very best to do what I asked perfectly, and that feeds into my craving for power. So it's good on so many levels! When he was done, we were both in a pretty good headspace again. He sat in front of me on the floor while I was on the couch, and I teased him by rubbing my boots all over his body slowly. We just had a normal-ish conversation meanwhile but the tension was in the air and I could see his cock leaking precum like crazy. My pussy was dripping and I loved knowing how horny I was making him.

I directed the conversation in a more sexual way and we talked about scenes we enjoy and kept the verbal foreplay going. I took my panties off but kept my dress on, and told him if he did a good job licking my pussy, that I'd consider letting him lick my boots afterwards. Although he didn't have quite the intensity level that I crave, he did give me a satisfying orgasm. After that, it was time for some tease and denial Chris very much enjoys that sort of thing. I ran my 6" stiletto heel over his hard cock and said I wouldn't be needing that. I told him to go to my suitcase and bring back the hollow strap on. We had talked about it and I was really looking forward to trying it out! With the help of some lube, he squeezed his erection inside, and then pushed the rubber cock into my wet pussy. It felt so good... I bought the 8" version that was 5 3/4" around since I love girth and it was great. The best part was listening to him moan in frustration while he fucked me because he told me he couldn't feel a thing. I loved teasing him about how hot and wet my pussy was, and how much I was enjoying the way it felt when he slid the dildo back inside me. But all he could do was beg in frustration. It was wonderful.

After I told him to take off the dildo, he knelt in front of me and I was overcome with power and desire and lust. He had his head bowed down and that always gets me. I tangled my fist in his hair and angled his head to the side so I could bite his earlobe, hard. I loved listening to him suck in his breath. Then I kissed and bit my way down his neck before I decided it was time to drive him wild. I told him to lie down and NOT to cum without permission, and then I started to suck his cock. He was moaning and trying so hard to obey but I know I was pushing him hard until finally he stammered that he was close. I stopped right away, of course! He was so frustrated as I gently rain my fingers over his balls and towards his asshole. He loves to be pegged, but I had decided not tonight.

As much fun as we were having, it was nearly 4am so I decided it was time to wrap things up. I told him to worship my boots, and he immediately started to suck on my stiletto heel and then worked kisses all the way up my legs. It's such a turn on knowing how badly he wanted to. Then I gave him permission to cum on my boots. He stroked his cock for only a minute before he covered the shiny black leather with his cum, and then immediately bent over to clean up every drop.

It was really, really hot. So while I was disappointed that I didn't get to finish with the electricity... I definitely had a fabulous time playing with Chris and I'm looking forward to next time! "

[FNQLivin]

Oh my God. You have described my perfect scene. Around a year ago I opened up to my partner and since then we've been exploring D/s, chastity, denial and tease. This was something I very much spring on her and I would love it to go further down the cuckold path, but we have played many times when she has taken me straight to the edge and then backed off. It is the most exquisite sensation, being taken just to the point of ejaculation and then left hanging. I have been trying to bring the idea of the hollow strap on up, conscious that I don't want to top from the bottom, but as this isn't something she is naturally into, almost all things ultimately either come from simple stories I tell her or more direct suggestions.

Thanks so much for this, I loved reading it!

[steve006901]

SSQ
I stumbled across your thread a couple of days ago and have to say it has been a very interesting read. I love your openness, not to mention your sexual appetite. Thank you for sharing your adventures and thoughts.
I am truly surprised you have not made your MFM happen yet. You will love it! I have had the pleasure of sharing a former lover and joining several couples. All were different and a lot of fun. Sometimes the other male would just watch or take photos while the lady and I played. With others we would take turns with her. The best by far was with a lady that loved DP and DPP. She would wear my friend and me both out, typically making me cum at least 3 times, usually once in each of her hot holes. When Doing DP we almost always all would cum simultaneously or like a set of Domino's. Once one would cum, we all did.
I am not submissive, but mildly Dom. I have never had the chance to try many of the toys you have or been to a munch. I prefer to play privately although exhibitionism can be fun. I would love to meet you some day, if you ever come to so CA. Now if I could just get my current lady to join us, I would be in heaven.
I hope you and H continue to keep each other happy.
Steve

You know, Steve, the reason I haven't had a MFM is because I'm very picky about the way I want it to happen. If I had just wanted a MFM, I could have had one a dozen times over. But H and I had very different ideas about how we wanted it to happen, and I wasn't interested in a porn star style MFM which was his fantasy (at least not at first- I told him I'd be open to doing that for him but I wanted to enjoy my fantasy first). What I want is a very intimate and sensual experience. I want it to be centred around my desires and my pleasure. I want lots of kissing and touching and pussy licking and just making it all about me. I want to make love to two men. And the more difficult criteria is that I want it to be bareback since I don't like the taste of latex but I do like the taste of pussy. So, that's a much tougher order to fill and I've preferred to wait until I feel the time is right instead of just taking my first opportunity. I want it to be really memorable.

Now, I'll admit I could be seduced into having a D/s MFM instead, where I fuck H and humiliate and/or degrade the third partner before making him eat my pussy full of H's cum. I find that scenario very appealing as well.

Either way, I have much more specific requirements from a MFM than from a FMF, where I just want to have fun. So, I'm in no rush. I'm only 31 years old, so I have lots of time for it to happen the way I want to.

Private play is fun but nothing beats the rush of doing something exciting and having a whole group of people crowding around you (but still standing back respectfully), and oohing and aahing at what you're doing. It's like no one exists but you and your partner, but you know people are watching and they're loving it and you're loving it and it's just fantastic. Hard to express though

Thanks, but I'm not interested in playing with Dominant men, if that's what you meant. Just not my style.

SSQ
I totally understand about being picky about what and how you want things. To many people get in a rush to try something and settle for something differant then what they really desire. My first MFM was almost that way, but we waited for a man we were both comfortable with and would do as we wished. It was a trully wonderful experiance. I still love your adventures, even if your not into dominent men.

[SSQ]

What a night. Somewhat unexpected, but totally worth it

I'm exhausted and finally going to get some sleep, but wanted to leave a teaser here. I do so enjoy that!

[MrsTruckstar]

Oh susie you are wicked (in a good way of course). x

[SSQ]

I love to tease At any rate, a very detailed blog post is up if anyone wants more than the highlight reel!

I've been continuing to chat since while I like Jennifer, I don't think that is going the intense D/s way that I'm craving. I met this interesting guy on OKC. He's poly and kinky which of course interests me very much, although he is a switch and not purely a sub. We'll see how it goes

We'd been doing a little camming and he was going to be passing through my area with a friend yesterday, so he suggested he could stop by. Mark's still out of town, so I figured why not. His friend seemed nice and we were hanging out when they asked to see my electrical gear. So we went upstairs and starting fooling around with my toys a little which was fun. Just hanging out in a charged atmosphere was sexy and of course there was sexual tension between me and Henry. His friend got sleepy and went to relax on my bed while we hung out. Then Henry offered to give me a massage, and since his friend didn't object, I took off my clothes and lay down on the bed as well while I got a lovely massage. I was so wet by the end of it that things got a little intense and Henry and I were making out while his friend watched.

Funny how you guys had just asked me recently about MFMs because this would have been so easy and organic! The friend was clearly turned on watching us fool around and I could see his cock tenting his pants. But I decided I really did want to wait for H, and I liked the friend saying he was actually kind of enjoying the denial. So instead, Henry and I had hot sex in front of an appreciative one person audience. We actually chatted between orgasms which was fun. It was a pretty fantastic sexual encounter from start to finish. Henry and I cuddled and kissed afterwards. I love touch so much, feeling like he really enjoyed being with me. He's been texting me quite a bit today, so I'm feeling pretty good.

I'll be seeing him next week, so we'll see how it goes!

[FNQLivin]

Doesn't drive???? And here I was thinking all North Americans drive by trucks or V8's!

[SSQ]

Doesn't drive???? And here I was thinking all North Americans drive by trucks or V8's!

Well, technically he drives, just doesn't own a vehicle right now. I actually don't drive at all. It's crazy lately how I keep being attracted to people and then finding out they don't drive which is such a pain. But I read an article saying it's becoming almost trendy, at least in my area, not to drive.

Of the last five people I've dated, three haven't owned cars. Only one was in my city.

[SSQ]

I had a seriously awesome day yesterday. Back on the happy bandwagon

Yesterday afternoon, I had a spa date with Jennifer. We went out for manicures and pedicures, then dinner before going to the local BDSM munch. I introduced her around to my friends, although I was careful not to use a title. Everyone knows I'm a Domme, but while Jennifer bottoms, she isn't really submissive and our relationship isn't heading in a D/s manner. I actually still have to figure out a label for what it is we have! Somewhere between play partners, and real friends with benefits. Girlfriend is easier lol.

Then, Henry showed up towards the end of the munch and met Jennifer briefly before she had to leave, and he met a few of my friends but a lot had already left. Curses to traffic! But we went out to a bar afterwards and cuddled and kissed and talked and I can attest that the NRE has hit, hard. I still have some concerns about distance and feasibility... but I'm very interested in him and I feel like this could go somewhere good. Only time will tell

[SSQ]

I've had some interesting conversations lately that got me thinking. It's funny, because primarily, I enjoy relationships where there's a degree of emotional connection. But it doesn't have to be something romantic. I like sex because it's fun and it feels good, and I'll have it with friends or people I like. Just because I identify as poly doesn't mean that every time I fuck someone that I have to be or even want to be in love. After all, variety is a darn good thing!

But I really do enjoy the kind of "relationships" I have with some of the people I fuck. I had a nice chat on IM yesterday with Bobby, who I haven't seen in about a year. He lives in another part of the country and we hook up when he's in town for work and schedules align, but he was in a relationship for a while so he stopped doing the casual thing. It was just so nice yesterday... we chatted for an hour like normal people, with the exception that we asked about each other's romantic/sex lives. No sexting or anything like that. I've got a couple relationships like that, like with Adam, who I've been fucking for 2 1/2 years off and on.

I think at the end of the day, the most important thing is that my sex partners are people I genuinely like, and who genuinely like and show interest in me as a person. By itself, cock or sexual ability will never hold my interest for long, because I need something more than that. I really value connection.

While I enjoy the occasional one night stand, I'm just much happier this way- catching up once in a while with people whose company I enjoy, banging our brains out, and then back to our normal lives. And of course, having perhaps one or two special people in my life who are more.

NRE is sweet. I Skyped for over four hours last night with Henry and we just hung out. I really hate distance though- I haven't seen him since the munch last week and won't until next Sunday at the earliest. Skype helps... but I want to touch him and kiss him and just be close. He played his guitar for me

In a couple of weeks there's a BDSM party in his hometown and we're going together and I'm going to stay over for a few days. I guess we'll see how our play chemistry goes together. I really hope it'll be good... but of course I'm getting ahead of myself It's kind of fun sometimes to get lost in daydreams of what might be. I've missed feeling like this.

[Salsonero]

What a sweet post. Thank you for sharing all that.

[jane]

what an amazing adventure your life is !

[SSQ]

what an amazing adventure your life is !

That means a lot coming from you, Jane! Yours is pretty awesome too

[SSQ]

I think I just had one of the hottest weekends of my life. OMG.

I had a date with Jennifer on Saturday and it was so good. We really connect. We got drunk and watched chick flicks and cuddled, but we stayed up too late to fool around. We definitely made sure to set an alarm in the morning so we'd have time for each other! Fucking another girl is so different from fucking a guy, because there's no real end to it until we're done. We can just keep going and going and going... I fucked her with my strap on and I can see why men love to have women ride their cocks. It was so hot to watch her breasts bouncing as my cock slid in and out of her.

We went to a workshop together and had a really nice time. She got to try a few new forms of play and it was a lot of fun for both of us.

My weekend wasn't over yet, though. Henry came over and spent the night with me. I have been heavy into NRE lately, so I was trying not to get my hopes too high until we'd played together. Well, expectations more than met; not only did we have fantastic play energy but the sex was great, and the cuddles and communication and just the feelings were also perfect. He's making no secret that he's into me just as much as I'm into him, which makes me so happy. I can't wait to see him again and spend a few days with him.

To cap it off, H came home tonight and we had quick but passionate sex. So I've fucked three different people in the past three days, and every session except the last was a minimum of two hours. I'm tired and sore, but it's been one hell of a ride.

[Salsonero]

We got drunk and watched chick flicks and cuddled

Girls!

I am so happy to hear that you had such a great weekend and are riding the NRE wave. That's my drug of choice.