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Re: My story

Unread post by SmilingHusband » Sat Mar 01, 2014 1:35 pm

good for you SSQ. :up:

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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Thu Mar 06, 2014 11:13 am

So happy that H is home! This is going to be a rough year in terms of seeing each other, but it makes our time together so much sweeter. This weekend is our anniversary and I'm so happy that after all these years, we still have awesome kinky sex together. Life is good.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by SmilingHusband » Thu Mar 06, 2014 11:18 am

spend some good time together, and you go and rock that H's world SSQ!!!!!

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Re: My story

Unread post by MrsTruckstar » Thu Mar 06, 2014 1:10 pm

SSQ wrote:So happy that H is home! This is going to be a rough year in terms of seeing each other, but it makes our time together so much sweeter. This weekend is our anniversary and I'm so happy that after all these years, we still have awesome kinky sex together. Life is good.
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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Fri Mar 07, 2014 10:20 am

I got an email this morning- one of the guys I've been seeing casually for a long time, one of my first in the lifestyle (I forget what initial I gave him but he was the pussy licker from my first double header two years ago) told me he just broke up with his wife. We haven't gotten together in quite some time but we keep in touch when we've both got time. Poor guy. We're trying to set up a date to hook up again because I bet he could use a good fuck, and I can always use a good pussy licking.

I had a date with J last night and it was a lot of fun. I told him what time and where to meet me, and he was waiting while I got off the bus. Big hugs and kisses. He kept saying he felt like it had been so long since we'd seen each other last (a week) and I laughed and told him this was my first relationship with someone living in the same city, so I'd never seen anyone more frequently than that! I must admit, I am really, really liking that he's local.

I gave him my bag to carry because I had an errand to run Uptown, and then we went for dinner together. I love the little aspects of public submission, like when I told him to refill my drink and he returned with it and stood next to the table with it offered in both hands until I took it. What a good boy :)

We spent the evening having drinks with some kinky friends and it was just a lot of fun to be out as a couple. I was able to do a little of that with A, but not like this where we're clearer about how we're going to be in our relationship. I like having that overt D/s, it really makes me happy.

After drinks, we went back to his house and soaked in the hot tub for a while. So fabulous... I really enjoy that. Then we went inside and cuddled and enjoyed each other's company until I had to go home. It was a really, really good night. So far, I am really enjoying getting to know J.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by enjoylife313 » Fri Mar 07, 2014 12:29 pm

I am a relatively new "hot wife" and my husband had been reading a lot on your site and just disclosed it to me. So he asked to read this forum and I may become hooked. After reading I realize that no I am not a verified Hot Wife yet on your site but probably will be down the road. This forum is quiet intriquing - I think I can learn a lot here how the roles are played and most importantly - how to get the most out of "hot wifing". I can say that our experience so far has been absolutely wonderful. My experience with my "other lovers" and subsequently with my husband as a result of our "tell all" sessions following my "outings". We have chosen for me to do it alone with my other lover and then come home to have fun talking which has worked perfectly for us. I do not leave anything out of the fun talk at all. Our love making has become wonderful and better than ever as a result of this venture. So we have discovered a whole new life which is beyond our wildest dreams. In fact sometimes we have to convince ourselves its real and not too good to be true.

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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Sat Mar 08, 2014 1:02 pm

It's going to be a pretty low key anniversary today. I asked my mom to take kiddo for the weekend but H is sick. Poor guy. Somehow I doubt that the kinky sex we planned is going to take place! But that's okay, he's home for another week and a half so I'm sure we'll get the opportunity.

I'm just feeling happy today. My needs are getting met, and that gives me way more energy for my husband. The house is a mess, but that can wait :)
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by SmilingHusband » Sat Mar 08, 2014 1:09 pm

Good on you SSQ. :)

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Unread post by SSQ » Tue Mar 11, 2014 10:26 am

I spent the night with J yesterday. It's always interesting sleeping with a new partner. He likes to sleep wrapped up around his partner, so I had to keep telling him to fuck off and go to sleep! I am considering sleeping with him tonight too, if I do go I am bringing my leather cuffs and I am going to lock him to something so he doesn't bother me! I wouldn't leave him overnight in rope, but cuffs are fine as long as I give him some slack to move.

I really like how he shows me I matter to him. He's constantly telling me how beautiful and sexy and hot I am, and loves to have his hands on me. Finances are tight with him, and he's actually quitting smoking so that he has his cigarette money for going to parties and out on dates with me. I'm certainly flattered. He also doesn't drive, and he's walked home (an hour ish walk!) in -4 F at night because he wanted to see me. He's really making an effort and how can I not love that.

I really just like spending time with him. We played board games with his family, and then relaxed in the hot tub. I love that thing! We had some really good conversations, too. It's good getting to know someone new. We are working on a contract for our D/s relationship with our wants and needs and expectations. My mentor told me it helps to have everything on the table.

J requested that I own his cock for the duration of the contract (we're starting with 30 days). He wants to have to ask permission to masturbate. I rather like that idea :) He's owned chastity devices in the past but his cock is rather on the thick side and he's broken two CB models. He will probably need a custom fit but those are really expensive, so honour system it will have to be for now. I just haven't decided how I will handle the inevitable failures when they occur. I plan to be fucked by him most times we're together, so he'll get plenty of pussy. I can't resist that big fat cock of his. But I love the idea that he won't be able to play with himself without asking me. Perhaps I'll make him beg :)

H says I can go over tonight too if I want. I might do that :)
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by SSQ » Wed Mar 12, 2014 9:39 am

H is NOT by any stretch of the imagination a cuckold, but I think that one of the things that makes this lifestyle come so easily to me is that he has a lot of personality traits of a submissive. He loves to make me happy and will do what he can to see me smile.

I'm finding the more I've become a Dominant, even though I do not dominate H, the more submissive he gets. I don't generally ask him to do things because he doesn't like that, but if he's happy and I don't manage him, I find that he will often do quite a lot.

I got home from my second overnight in a row with L to find a happy kid sitting on the couch playing with his toys in a clean living room, dishes washed, laundry done and folded, and the kitchen cleaned. Oh, I am a happy, happy woman.

My evening with L was pretty low key. We actually didn't have sex at all, just lots of cuddling and getting to know each other. Okay, and some BDSM play. Good times! I'm looking forward to seeing him on Friday, when we're going to a play party together.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Sat Mar 15, 2014 12:00 pm

Holy hell. Life is good. I can't remember, did I write about the girl that I waxed at a party about a month ago? I ran into her again last night at a party I went to with J.

Um, yeah. Good times :)
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Unread post by SSQ » Sun Mar 16, 2014 8:19 am

You know, I honestly can't understand how hotwives could ever leave their husbands. Right now I am just so overflowing with love and affection for H. How could I not? I'm having one of the best weekends ever, and he's home taking care of the chores and the kiddo. I even suggested yesterday afternoon that I take kiddo out for a couple of hours so he could have a break, and he said no, go out with my friend (who is staying here for the weekend) and enjoy myself, since he knows he'll be away a lot this summer. So I've had pretty much zero household responsibility this weekend- it's almost like being 20 again :) Except I'm having way more fun than I did when I was 20!

It doesn't get much better than this. So, if you read my blog, you know I went to a BDSM party on Friday night with John, and we had a lot of fun together. I even got pictures ;) It's going to be so awesome to look back at those. Then I took him and a cute young blonde home for 2 1/2 hours of hot sex. Holy hell.

Last night was just good times. I haven't gotten around to writing about it yet but I will soon. More of a traditional date type evening, although my friend came along of course since she was staying with me. J and my friend and I went out for dinner and then went to a pool hall for some drinks and a few games. We all suck but it was fun. Then we went back to his house for hot tubbing and to watch a movie. My friend passed out on the couch (or at least pretended to) so J and I had some fun. Good times.

Tonight will be awesome, too. I can't wait, although I know I am going to need some recovery time afterwards!
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Mon Mar 17, 2014 10:35 am

Best.Weekend.Ever.

I posted a detailed entry about a boot worship scene I did last night on my blog. It was one of the hottest experiences I've ever had, so if you're actually looking for more than a general description, for about the first time from me here, you've got one.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by SSQ » Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:58 am

Two days later and I'm still in my happy place. Good times.

Last night was funny- I was in a chatroom that I go to on a regular basis, for sex positive people. One of them asked what everyone did on the weekend and it was the usual same old same old. "So, <SSQ>, what did you do on the weekend?"

"Umm... Two BDSM parties, lighting someone on fire, a MFF threesome, fetish shoe shopping, a romantic date with my boyfriend including dinner, shooting pool, hot tub, and sex, and then a fantastic boot worship scene and hot sex with a different guy."

*crickets chirping*
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by bubbajack » Tue Mar 18, 2014 9:36 am

"So, <SSQ>, what did you do on the weekend?"

"Umm... Two BDSM parties, lighting someone on fire, a MFF threesome, fetish shoe shopping, a romantic date with my boyfriend including dinner, shooting pool, hot tub, and sex, and then a fantastic boot worship scene and hot sex with a different guy."


Well, there's "Sex Positive" on the one hand and then there's The Mighty SSQ on the other. :o :whip: :mrgreen: :D :up: :up:

You go, Girl!! :cool:

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Unread post by SSQ » Sat Mar 22, 2014 10:57 am

Spent another fun night with J. I completely ignored him and played games on my laptop while he licked and massaged my body all over. Fantastic and so erotic.

Unfortunately our plans for tonight got cancelled because of weather- roads are too icy for my babysitter to take the kiddo. We had a pretty intense scene planned and I can't really let myself get all the way into it if I have to keep an ear open for my son. Oh well.

All this energy and no one to take it out on. Too bad ;)
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Unread post by jane » Sat Mar 22, 2014 12:03 pm

:( not fun

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Unread post by SSQ » Tue Mar 25, 2014 12:08 pm

J has been visiting me frequently while H is out of town. Have I mentioned how much I am enjoying dating someone local? :)

I got a text from him this morning that gives me those warm shivers and tingles. "<3 I think I'm falling for you."
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by SSQ » Thu Mar 27, 2014 11:41 am

I have an ad up on CL right now seeking a third for me and J. Looks like I might finally get that MFM exactly the way I want it!

J also has a fantasy for forced cocksucking. I think that watching that would be incredibly hot... maybe holding his head and forcing him further onto the cock. Mmmm. I've always found male-male porn really hot.

So far I'm chatting with one guy who sounds good. A few possibles I haven't replied to yet if he doesn't pan out. I'm interested to see where this will go.

I really enjoyed my FFM a couple of weeks ago. I think I'd like to start having more group sex. So many possibilities :)
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by bubbajack » Thu Mar 27, 2014 2:25 pm

I think I'd like you to start having more group sex, too!! :whip: :whip: :mrgreen:

And telling us all about it, of course!! :o :up: :twisted:

(Thank you, sweetheart! :D )

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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Fri Mar 28, 2014 3:33 pm

bubbajack wrote:I think I'd like you to start having more group sex, too!! :whip: :whip: :mrgreen:

And telling us all about it, of course!! :o :up: :twisted:

(Thank you, sweetheart! :D )
Why thank you, bubbajack. It's nice to see that some people still enjoy my posts!

I've got a BDSM party with J tomorrow night that I'm very much looking forward to. Perhaps I'll get lucky ;)
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by SSQ » Sun Mar 30, 2014 5:13 pm

The party last night was awesome. J sat at my feet all night making sure I had everything I wanted. We did a scene with hot wax (I got pictures! So excited!) and just enjoyed the atmosphere.

We nearly did get to have some more extracurricular fun, since the bartender (a cute guy) was hitting on J, but he was gay and not bi so I decided that I wasn't interested in sharing like that. Too bad, we could have had some fun. But honestly, by the time we got back to the room at 4am, I was pretty tired anyway.

We had a little accident, but it was fun anyway. I put him in leather cuffs when we did our scene and padlocked them on. Looking at those locks and knowing he was mine until I released him was a really sexy feeling. I didn't let him out and had him sleep in them, although I didn't hook them together or tie him to anything. I just wanted him to have that symbol for the night. (Perhaps it worked... he whispered in my ear that he is falling in love with me. Words are much headier than a text!) In the morning when we were going to have a shower, I took off three of the cuffs but the lock on one of the wrist cuffs jammed. It was an interesting trip down to the hotel front desk to ask for a maintenance man with bolt cutters! The front desk clerk's eyes widened when she saw why he needed one, but the maintenance guy just laughed and said he hoped we'd had a fun night. Looks like I need to add a set of bolt cutters to my toy box in case that happens again!
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Unread post by dali_23 » Sun Mar 30, 2014 5:25 pm

Oh that's funny! I guess when you find yourself in a slightly awkward position like that you have to just make the most of it. :lol: :up:
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Re: My story

Unread post by rob SE Fla » Sun Mar 30, 2014 5:27 pm

That's too funny.... I laughed so hard my kids wanted to know what was so funny...
The suspense is terrible.... I hope it will last.
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Re: My story

Unread post by SSQ » Fri Apr 04, 2014 6:20 pm

Not too much new and exciting here. I spent two nights with John this week and it's just been really good. I worry a little bit that he's falling harder for me than I am for him, but I do have feelings for him and I like being with him. It's low key, but we have fun. He's the first man I've actually liked cuddling up with at night. It bothered me at first... and if I slept with him every night it would drive me crazy since I know I'm getting less sleep. But it feels so good to have his body against me and his arms wrapped around me.

I still joke that I'm dating his hot tub, too. That thing is super awesome. So relaxing.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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