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Re: My story

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solstice wrote:The sexiest thing I know is a smart woman, who knows, if you impossible projects, I may be your man: The only thing is the predictable risk of you cutting me off from this unlikely friendship?? I am approaching my 85th birthday. What is the oldest man you have fucked.
Hmm. Somewhere in his 60s. He had erectile dyfunction so he couldn't actually have PIV, but I didn't care. He gave me an amazing massage first (he is an RMT) and then while I was splayed on his table in lazy delight, he used his fingers and some lovely toys to bring me to orgasm after orgasm. It was a lovely time. He doesn't live around here anymore or I'd happily see him again.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by solstice » Wed Jan 23, 2019 5:44 am

Sorry for my last post, even when reading it later I couldn't understand it, what I like about you, is your experiences don't appear to have hardened you, you are still a sweet lady, and treat your men with love and understanding.

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solstice wrote:Sorry for my last post, even when reading it later I couldn't understand it, what I like about you, is your experiences don't appear to have hardened you, you are still a sweet lady, and treat your men with love and understanding.
LOL no worries. But yes, I am still a hopeless romantic, even if it's not always safe for my heart, and I try to take good care of them. I know I leave myself wide open, but I would rather get to experience that love and possibly be hurt by it, then to stay walled off and miss a chance. I don't think that I will say on my deathbed that I loved too much. The things that really matter in my life are my connections with people.
It's all fun until someone gets hurt... and then it's more fun! :whip:

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Re: My story

Unread post by solstice » Wed Jan 23, 2019 12:28 pm

connections with people.

As well as "Keeping the customer satisfied" as Paul Simon sang, you have a measured and understanding way of dealing with your men. you may have noted that I'm a fan.

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So, I was cockblocked by the snow today. I've been feeling the need to get more slutty lately- the whole being quasi-monogamous has been a bit too much for my need for variety.

I have been emailing back and forth with one guy, I think I called him A way back in 2012? He's still an on again, off again fuck buddy of mine. He's a nice person who treats me like people, not like a walking vagina, and he's fun to have sex with. Eats pussy very well! We haven't seen each other in about a year because I was so busy with the wedding planning. I messaged him recently to see if he'd like to hook up, and we planned on today. Tuesdays are perfect because it's also my date night with Charles, and I'm sure I could squeeze in a romp with Henry too to make it a nice slutfest for me :)

Unfortunately, that snowstorm was a bitch and he couldn't make it out here today. Hopefully we will reschedule for sometime soon. And in the meantime, I've still got my two lovely men to keep me satisfied! I haven't been having as much sex as I'd like since everyone's been sick off and on, but what can you do, right?
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Unread post by SSQ » Wed Jan 30, 2019 5:06 pm

Overnight with Charles last night... good times :)
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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Wed Jan 30, 2019 7:23 pm

You got cockblocked by the snow? I feel your pain :) I got cockblocked by the weather too!
Hopefully we can both reschedule soon!!

How nice that you have regular times with Charles!

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Overnight with Charles last night.

Lust (and a big pair of boots) finds a way.

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2inUPMichigan wrote:
Wed Jan 30, 2019 7:23 pm
You got cockblocked by the snow? I feel your pain :) I got cockblocked by the weather too!
Hopefully we can both reschedule soon!!

How nice that you have regular times with Charles!
Yes, I am lucky! We see each other every Tuesday, plus one weekend day if we can swing it. Overnights are less frequent but we try to do at least a couple a month. Six months and counting... :)

Hope you can reschedule soon too! I messaged A (need to remember what nickname I used for him! and we're not sure yet unfortunately).
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Overnight with Charles last night.

Lust (and a big pair of boots) finds a way.
Very much so. His car broke down, so he actually walked to my house in the cold to come see me! Henry drove him back to work in the morning though. LOL isn't my husband wonderful?

And then great sex with Henry last night. I think my pussy is aching! Three times in one day plus a ride on my Motorbunny... can you tell I'm ovulating? :lol:
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Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Thu Jan 31, 2019 10:36 am

Six months ... that's nice! Can't wait til I can say that :D
I got my message this morning the hotel is booked for next Thursday so hopefully you will be able to reschedule soon too :up:

I love hearing about long term situations because that is what I want.

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2inUPMichigan wrote:
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Six months ... that's nice! Can't wait til I can say that :D
I got my message this morning the hotel is booked for next Thursday so hopefully you will be able to reschedule soon too :up:

I love hearing about long term situations because that is what I want.
I'm curious; what would be your ideal long term situation? Would love to have a discussion about it, either here or on your own thread or in the Lounge if you prefer.

Things are still going wonderfully here. Maybe better than that. Every once in a while I feel insecure or my brain starts playing tricks on me. Yesterday was a pretty special date with Charles and I feel so connected and loved and happy.

Henry and I have some free time this week and we're planning some date days, which should be fun. I'm also really looking forward to next weekend, where I am taking both of them to a BDSM party as my dates. We did this back in October and it was fun. It's going to be even better this time :D
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Re: My story

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Sun Feb 03, 2019 10:05 am

I'm sure all three of you will have a great time at the BDSM party! My sister used to be part of a group with her husband for years and used to tell me stories about parties.
It sounds like your bond is growing stronger every day and it is great how supportive your Henry is of your relationship with Charles.

I think I'll answer the other question in the lounge :D

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Unread post by SSQ » Mon Feb 04, 2019 3:35 pm

Since there's been conversation on another thread, I thought I'd share this info.

We came out as poly today to our 9 year old, in age appropriate conversation. It helps that he really likes Charles; he knows him because sometimes Charles comes over for dinner and games. We explained that we keep some things in our family private, not because we're embarrassed about it but merely because it's only our own business. We can be out, but we didn't want him to deal with other kids about it.

Then we explained that Henry and I are very happy together and we aren't splitting up; that we've committed to each other. Then Henry told kiddo that Charles and I are dating. His only question was, does that mean Charles will be coming around more? He just took it as par for the course. We explained a little bit more and then left it there. It went really well.

We think it was necessary. Charles is over at our house fairly frequently, at least once a week. He also knew I'd go to Charles' as well occasionally. We didn't want him to think that I was cheating on Henry right under his nose if we slipped up and expressed affection or casual touch in front of Kiddo. We also had no desire to closet Charles and deprioritize him by calling him a close friend. Charles is mono with me and is out to the world that I'm his girlfriend; he shouldn't feel like he is treated as less in our home. We're out among all my friends and my family knows as well.

Tonight Charles and Henry are out together at a discussion group. It's kinda funny to think of the two of them out without me, but they get along really well and they would be friends even if I wasn't part of things, I think.
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Re: My story

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Mon Feb 04, 2019 5:38 pm

So happy that your conversation with your son went so well! I'm sure it helps that he already likes Charles :)
It sounds like things are just falling into place for all of you - congrats!

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Charles had an impromptu sleepover last night because of the freezing rain that hit last night. We didn't want to send him back out in that, so Henry suggested that he stay.

While we were cuddling before sleep last night, he told me how relaxed and comfortable and happy he was to be with me. It just melted me. I am so in love. He had to leave super early this morning so he was gone before I was awake, but he sent me a text that he slept so wonderfully with me and wished we'd had some time together in the morning because he'd woken up filled with desire for me and a raging erection. Yum... I'm sorry I missed out!

The part that tickled my funny bone is that Henry was out for part of the night, and he got home after Charles had fallen asleep and before I was asleep. So I sneaked out of bed and went downstairs to spend some quality time with my husband. Life is very, very good :)
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Unread post by solstice » Wed Feb 06, 2019 1:43 pm

Do you make a conscious effort not to favour Charles over Henry?

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solstice wrote:
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Do you make a conscious effort not to favour Charles over Henry?
Absolutely. I talked to Henry the other day, because Charles got overnights both on my birthday and on New Year's. Henry requests the days that are important to him. Like this weekend we are going to a BDSM party as a threesome and Henry wants to sleep with me afterwards. I am happy to accommodate.

Charles is most concerned about putting Henry out. Last night when Henry suggested he stay over, he made sure to defer by offering to take the other bed. Henry assured him that it was fine.

Henry also knows that the intensity is NRE, and that it will slow down. There's also spillover ERI (established relationship intimacy) and that is pretty fantastic. He gets the lion's share of my time; I tend to spend only 2 days a week with Charles. I check in with both my men to make sure they are happy and getting their needs met.

Communication is a good thing :) If there was a problem, I trust him to tell me about it while it's small and easily fixable.
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Re: My story

Unread post by solstice » Thu Feb 07, 2019 6:34 am

Your sobriquet is very apt, and you display it in your writing, and your thoughtfulness for the men in your life is a joy,

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Unread post by SSQ » Thu Feb 07, 2019 3:10 pm

I had an amazing date day with Henry yesterday. I'm on cloud 9. It's been a pretty fantastic week.

We won some gift certificates to a casino so we spent the day having fun on house money, went out for dinner, and came home for the most incredible sex. I don't think I've ever had someone fuck me PIV continually for over 40 minutes before! And Henry stayed hard, kept playing with my clit and kept me so turned on that my pussy was just leaking a river all over his cock and the sheets. Then when my pussy finally started to tap out from all the orgasms (I keep wanting to use the word amazing over and over because it was!), I pulled out a fun ridgy masturbation glove we had bought online and lubed it up before sliding it into his ass. He was so aroused and wide open! It was so sexy. Afterwards, I strapped on that lovely 11" thick cock that he loves and fucked him silly until he came so hard.

We both just collapsed afterwards. But sex should leave you sore and exhausted and sticky, right? :)
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Unread post by jane » Sat Feb 09, 2019 5:56 am

what a great relationship you two have

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jane wrote:
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what a great relationship you two have
Thanks, Jane. I'm a very lucky woman!

And doubly so tonight- the three of us are going to a BDSM party together and it's going to be so much fun!
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OMG. What an amazing night last night. I had a great scene with a lovely young woman, and then I spent time snuggled up on a couch with Charles and Henry. Then Henry decided to get a little frisky and slid his hand up my skirt while I was leaning in Charles' lap with my feet in Henry's lap. It was so sexy to have Charles holding me and kissing me while Henry was playing with my clit until I had so many orgasms...

... in a room full of kinky fuckers who were enjoying the show, as vanilla as it was :)
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Unread post by SSQ » Wed Feb 13, 2019 12:21 pm

Funny how I wanted to describe last night as amazing, too, and saw that I used that adjective on the weekend. I guess my life is pretty amazing right now! I am so lucky. I know I've been saying that a lot lately too but sometimes I feel like I need to give myself a pinch, that this is too good to be true.

Charles came over for our standing date night and the three of us had a lovely dinner together. We hung out for a while and socialized; my men are becoming good friends and that's awesome. They've both told me that they think they are a lot alike, which is a good thing. I'm glad they get along so well. I didn't think kitchen table polyamory was for me, but when everyone clicks like this it's pretty wonderful.

After dinner, I was craving something sweet and my wonderful husband Henry said "Give me fifteen minutes." I made some after dinner cocktails for the three of us while Henry baked his famous coconut chocolate chip cookies from scratch. OMG. I need a thesaurus to keep coming up with these superlative adjectives because things are making me so happy that I'm getting repetitive!

The weather was terrible again, so Henry suggested that Charles spend the night again. No complaints from us! We went upstairs and spent the next two hours having the most amazing sex. I brought out the Motorbunny and he turned into such a slut for me. I used it first to show him how much fun it is, then warmed him up with my gloved fingers before telling him to hop on. Then I sucked his cock while he was riding it and it was so intense for him! I loved hearing his groans and seeing the look on his face. When his legs were wobbly, we shut it down and got back into bed, where he ate my pussy like a starving man. I came so hard again and again before he finally slid his cock inside me and we orgasmed together.

We cuddled and talked late into the night... he had an early morning but we didn't want to stop and go to sleep. It was such a good date.

Then today, I had a lunch date with Henry and we have plans for tonight, and I can't wait!
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Unread post by SSQ » Mon Feb 18, 2019 11:49 am

OMG what an amazing night with Henry yesterday. We like to watch porn when we fuck, and we found some really good stuff yesterday. There was a great BDSM video in the submissive sex part of Kink.com and I really enjoyed it. I was definitely picturing Henry as the bottom. It was a lot of fun and led to a lot of dirty talk and some really satisfying sex. We took out both the Motorbunny and the fucking machine and some other toys and had a blast together for over two hours.

LOL I don't really do quickies. I wonder how long most people have sex, from beginning to end- not just the part with the penis in vagina which is what I think most studies are looking at.
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Unread post by armyguyot1 » Mon Feb 18, 2019 12:47 pm

It's not uncommon for us to think we have been at it for 20 minutes only to realize it's closer to 2 hours. What fun. Damn. Lately we have lost track of her orgasms. She is so fun and easy.

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