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Some stories talk about HW's playing solo and others involve the HW hubby. What do you do as a couple?

She plays alone with other guys
I sometimes don't know when she plays alone with other guys
This is the way it is now with us.

Over the years my wife has been progressively increasing her privacy.


She plays together with me in the same room
Years ago, several times; she says she does not think she will do this again.

She plays in a separate or nearby room.
Several times, including earlier this year, but not these days.

Alone. She likes the freedom and tells me everything after.

My wife started as a cheater and has always dated for her own pleasure. Any satisfaction I get is incidental.

I used to be there but she felt like she was "putting on a show". He ex really got into it with me watching but it became more about him showing off than her pleasure. Her current fb and I know each other but I have never seen them fuck. I've learned to enjoy the wait.

I sure her preference would be #3 (MFM) but 9 times out of 10 she plays alone. Mostly logistical reasons

zorro wrote:Some stories talk about HW's playing solo and others involve the HW hubby. What do you do as a couple?

Good Poll.

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby

ME! I usually spend the night with my bf

So, checking my spread sheet.... 76% solo, 22% MFM, and 2% each playing with a partner in separate rooms.

We started exclusively MFM, then tried swinging, and now have migrated to solo play. I guess I should have placed more votes.

you don't really have a spread sheet, do you?

She plays alone with other guys: Infrequently, 3-4 times in the last 9 months or so. She says it's not as fun. However, her current steady lover is moving soon to another state, and I'm going to be gone for the entire weekend in about two weeks - as a "going away present" she's planning to stay the weekend with him and "help him pack". I don't mind - when I get home she always tells me what a "bad girl she's been", I usually tie her up and spank her ass real good....

She plays in a separate or nearby room: This happens very frequently. Usually our 3sum fun sessions last an average of 3-4 hours. So when I've cum the first time I'll leave the room to get refreshments, prepare a snack, watch some tv, etc.. The sound of the bed squeeking, her moans of pleasure, the headboard rocking - all that stuff just gets me hard again faster. One of the more exciting recent experiences: after a late evening of the 3 of us out dancing I went upstairs and fell asleep in our bed, tired but waiting for them to come upstairs. She came up 2 hours later... well fucked (on the couch). She accidently woke me crawling into bed, and after feeling her wet sloppy pussy I got instantly hard... it was just too late to spank her.

She plays together with me in the same room: This is by far our most comfortable and fun form of hotwifing - MFM DP/Tag Team sessions. I will though typically make an excuse to leave the room for awhile - it seems to make the guys more comfortable. Sometimes I watch through the crack in the door, usually I listen from downstairs, sometimes I set the video recorder on for all three of us, or just her and her FB. I'm a lucky man because she doesn't hold anything back with me in the room. Including telling them what perfect cocks they have, fuck me harder, etc.. I love it.

Those are the 3 forms of HW play for us. We're planning for her to stay with him for the weekend to help him pack and get ready for his move in a few weeks - She says they will cam their activity to me - that will be a first.

What I don't understand is why only 10/379 visitors to this thread have voted. It's anonymous and should include virtually all options. It's fine not to leave any comment. But please vote!

zorro wrote:What I don't understand is why only 10/379 visitors to this thread have voted. It's anonymous and should include virtually all options. It's fine not to leave any comment. But please vote!

10? I see 101 votes, which means at least 34 voters. (Unfortunately the forum poll software doesn't count "voters", but "votes", making it impossible to distinguish between three voters each voting for a different choice, or a single voter picking all three. Thus you can't really tell anything from the results, since you don't even know the number of participants!)

Considering it's a 'voluntary' poll on and open forum, that's not such a bad participation rate.

You are right, RR! There are only 10 comments, and that's a fair response for most any thread on the open forum. Don't know how many people have actually voted, but it is far less than 100%. The distribution is very, very interesting. It suggests that most HW couples have the wife play solo. Awesome. Different from us (she hasn't chosen to play solo -- yet -- despite being given the green light). But maybe the couples who include solo play know something we don't. When I was but a SM FB, playing with the wife solo occasionally happened but mostly it was MFM or at least same room sex. And when I was in an open relationship, it was never as interesting to hear about a partner's play with another guy I had not met than to see her at play accepting cock.

Such an interesting lifestyle.

zorro wrote:What I don't understand is why only 10/379 visitors to this thread have voted. It's anonymous and should include virtually all options. It's fine not to leave any comment. But please vote!

I suspect that on any thread there are a lot more visits by wankers, er, I mean, lurkers, than visits by doers. Be thankful the wannabes are honest enough not to vote on what they wished was happening for them.

all4g wrote:

zorro wrote:What I don't understand is why only 10/379 visitors to this thread have voted. It's anonymous and should include virtually all options. It's fine not to leave any comment. But please vote!

I suspect that on any thread there are a lot more visits by wankers, er, I mean, lurkers, than visits by doers. Be thankful the wannabes are honest enough not to vote on what they wished was happening for them.

True, but there was deliberately room to leave for the wannabes to express their presence.

An interesting poll might be how wannabes would want to have their wife play if she were open enough to do what the women would do what the guys wish they would. Stuff for another thread.

Plus, we are all probably wankers, since something like 90% of guys supposedly jerk off.

MrsJms wrote:you don't really have a spread sheet, do you?

I absolutely do. Name, date, where I met them from, a counter of how many "days" we were together, and Solo, MFM, or MF-MF. I also have some other info when I have it. Marital status, occupation, age bracket. I can tell you how many months/years I have seen a FB, and how many times we have been together. I have never tracked what I wore because that gets out of the easy usage of a spread sheet.

Mrs_Butterfly wrote:

MrsJms wrote:you don't really have a spread sheet, do you?

I absolutely do. Name, date, where I met them from, a counter of how many "days" we were together, and Solo, MFM, or MF-MF. I also have some other info when I have it. Marital status, occupation, age bracket. I can tell you how many months/years I have seen a FB, and how many times we have been together. I have never tracked what I wore because that gets out of the easy usage of a spread sheet.

Do you analyze the data with pivot tables? VBLookup?

Wife started with me watching and has slowly evolved into going "solo" with her current bf. She will give me details later, after I'm fed (creampie). She also used to require condoms, but since she knows her bf really well, he gets to go bareback.

Mrs_Butterfly wrote:So, checking my spread sheet.... 76% solo, 22% MFM, and 2% each playing with a partner in separate rooms.

We started exclusively MFM, then tried swinging, and now have migrated to solo play. I guess I should have placed more votes.

Would love to see the spreadsheet.

zorro wrote:What I don't understand is why only 10/379 visitors to this thread have voted. It's anonymous and should include virtually all options. It's fine not to leave any comment. But please vote!

I tried to vote but the poll station closed by the time I got to it. So now I'll just have to place a comment in where I would have voted. My HW plans to play solo for any future encounters. In the past we have always played together with MFM, but we have both decided that we want to try things a little bit different if she ever comes across a guy that she wants to be with.

MrsJms wrote:you don't really have a spread sheet, do you?

Hmmm...I'm willing to bet that Mr.JmsJms would rather like YOU have a spreadsheet.

She plays alone but nearly always tells me that it will be `a boyfriend day' for her...and then I will often hear at least a little about her latest adventure later.
She has only allowed me very limited watching in the years I've been sharing her.

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Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.

She used to play alone but now demands MFMs. She has my full permission to play alone and has said she may in the right situation but if the FB isn't down with a 3some after the first play session she'll stop playing with him.