Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Nov 08, 2016 6:32 am

Hi everyone.
Sorry been busy.
I didn't really have time for the photo thingy!

But hubby and I talked a little last night.
He misses watching me live.
I think I'm gonna look for someone who will play with me while hubby is with me.

redskull · Unread post by **redskull** » Tue Nov 08, 2016 8:12 am

Lucky guy, Lucky hubby, and HOT & SEXY Mrs R. can't wait for the details.

Unread post by **Mr1SexyGILF** » Tue Nov 08, 2016 11:14 am

mrs_reese wrote:Hi everyone.
Sorry been busy.
I didn't really have time for the photo thingy!

But hubby and I talked a little last night.
He misses watching me live.
I think I'm gonna look for someone who will play with me while hubby is with me.

"Like"

Mr GILF

Zona · Unread post by **Zona** » Tue Nov 08, 2016 8:20 pm

mrs_reese wrote:Hi everyone.
Sorry been busy.
I didn't really have time for the photo thingy!

But hubby and I talked a little last night.
He misses watching me live.
I think I'm gonna look for someone who will play with me while hubby is with me.

(And maybe he can take some pictures?)

54321 · Unread post by **54321** » Wed Nov 09, 2016 2:58 am

I think I'm gonna look for someone who will play with me while hubby is with me.

David?

54321

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Wed Nov 09, 2016 3:38 am

David's not our guy 54321.
Mrs is hoping to find someone new.
She has not informed Jeff that I know of their affair, she want to keep his excitement at its current level, she believes that he truly enjoys the cheating aspect of their encounters.
I really miss watching her in action.
I think it'll help me with my occasional moments of silent jealousy!

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Wed Nov 09, 2016 9:02 pm

A second lover that is willing to have you watch sounds like the solution.
Sometimes these guys want to be Dom over both wife and husband...
Is that something you are willing to deal with, or just voyeur kind of action?

lkh96 · Unread post by **lkh96** » Thu Nov 10, 2016 2:03 am

Hahaha....the reeses are on the hunt !!

Unread post by **Mr1SexyGILF** » Thu Nov 10, 2016 6:10 am

Dicktwat wrote:Hahaha....the reeses are on the hunt !!

I cannot help being extremely envious of their prey

Mr GILF

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Sun Nov 20, 2016 7:22 am

Hello,
We just completed a 7 day vacation- our time to focus on our marriage.
But I want to share some of our discussions over the last week.
Our concern is "the boyfriend" label and random encounters.
My wife has proven time and again that she is perfectly comfortable with our vanilla marriage.
We both realize that we pushed the limits for years and my wife played to accommodate my compulsive obsessive- potentially self destructive demands and requests.
How does one just walk away?
My wife hasn't played with J that often BC she's reluctant to "trigger" me!
The bottom line is that my wife doe not want to pick up guys at this point in her life.
If she plays, he will have to be her steady partner or as she likes to say, her boyfriend?
Some in this forum believe labels are just that!
We don't think that way.
If my wife calls a man her bf then that's how she feels!
Leading me to the main point of emphasis with my post.
My wife warns me in most her delicate manner that if she continues with J, she will develop feelings and that will be confusing to her and damaging to my psyche!
She will continue with J.
She will start to spend more time with him.
She doesn't want for me to go back and forth with my feelings!
She feels that our marriage has evolved to a place that's very satisfying to us.
She wants to make me happy.
She knows I'm a freak and she accepts this happily!
We have been very careful with J.

During our vacation, we shared many intimate encounters!
We shared orgasms between us alone and talking about how she misses J' s cock!

But moving forward, our challenge today is risking it all vs a boyfriend.
Are we running out of luck?
When will that one particular lover be the "one" who causes
Our marriage to end?

We both believe that every time we play, no matter how secure
Our marriage is ....... "we are playing with fire!" and putting our relationship at risk.

lkh96 · Unread post by **lkh96** » Sun Nov 20, 2016 11:28 am

Love the honest post.

If one day, the 'one' bf comes around i hope your wife realises that he gets her only when she is all glamed-up, free of the daily mundane chores/burden like child-rearing, house-keeping, work related problems etc.

I hope she realises that there is no guy on earth who wouldn't want a woman free of every possible baggage of her everyday life, and yet, is willing to have sex without having to promise a single damn thing except give her orgasm and make sure she has a good time. Hell! That is the perfect woman every guy dreams of.

Time spent with the bf is something of a real life fairy tale. Deserted from the proclivities of life, one can be at their happiest and joyous self. I hope your wife knows that this self of "I" that meets and spents time with the bf is a bubble. And reality isn't much too far to ignore at one's peril. When the bubble burst, all that is left are memories of time spent together without being who we really are. And if the wife falls for that, honestly its her loss.

Again, there is also the strong possibility that she shares every aspect of her life from the sex to the everyday mundane life. Right from what she does when she wakes up to how her childhood life was, from her favourite colour to her office problems, from her favourite actor to her friends, from her confusion in having a bf and husband to the kids life. And if under these circumstances love does happen, it could be too real for your marriage to go on.

I hope to see you guys happily married forever.

BallSpanking · Unread post by **BallSpanking** » Sun Nov 20, 2016 5:38 pm

Mr Reese,

I think I understood the possibilities you suggested in your post, but you also expressed something unequivocally, you said: She will continue seeing Jeff.

If that is so, then the dynamic is no longer that of a game, this could be for keeps.

Am I reading you right?

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 4:24 am

Sorry Mr. ballspanking, I'll elaborate.
Mrs. is completely "on the bubble!"
She can end this with J immediately!
She can continue to spend time with him as a casual relationship.
But, she opened up to me and expressed concern that moving forward with J, she will eventually fall into the "he's become my boyfriend" mode!
He's been patient, but he's expressed a desire to see her more!
He continues to believe that she's having an affair!
She likes the intrigue of being a cheating wife!

Mr. Dicktwat,
My wife understands the dynamic of the perfect relationship scenario that happens when she chooses a lover! But she also admits that it's a perfect world! She realizes that it's not the real world with her lover.
But it's a world that's difficult to escape once she lets her guard down!

The bottom line is that my wife has expressed her fears to me.
She's completely ready to move on from J and end it!
But as much as she has tried over the last few months, she's not ready to meet random men again!
She either wants vanilla or J.
She's completely fine with whatever direction I choose!

lkh96 · Unread post by **lkh96** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 4:58 am

Man what a crossroad you are in.
I can feel your angst and trepidation with regards your marriage, at the same time the delicious cuckold lust is just too overpowering it can't be helped.

I admire the honest conversation you guys shared.

Will you guys be telling J the truth anytime soon ???
Mr. Reese, are you ready for a poly-like situation ???

Unread post by **Mr1SexyGILF** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 11:33 am

Mr and Mrs Reese

Let me preface my thoughts with ths comment. I am one who gets frustrated when the OHW cheerleaders encourage a couple to continue pushing their boundaries in the face or glaring red flags.

As a member that has intently read every post of your 196 page thread, and enjoyed much dialog with both of you over the past 6 years, I have to say I do not see the red flags here.

Yes Ms Reese is realistically concerned and cautious. Is there even a remote possibility that Jeff could take Mrs Reese away from you? I say, no. Could she slip from Lust to Love, You bet.

I am confident that if you two choose to continue tempting fate, and living life on the edge, you will be just fine. I get the feeling that both get a huge thrilk out of this naughty kink. You are to young to be throwing in the towel now.

Just my $0.02

Mr GILF

reese · Unread post by **reese** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 4:29 pm

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings....
Everyone!
We both read some of the recent posts.
It's comforting to know that we have friends who truly care about us!
It's been 8 years now.
Thank-you!

lkh96 · Unread post by **lkh96** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 5:55 pm

Mr1SexyGILF wrote: I am confident that if you two choose to continue tempting fate, and living life on the edge, you will be just fine.
Mr GILF

whatever happened to the advice our parents gave us as kids......"do not play with fire lest you get burned" and "don't stand too close to the ledge or else you might fall and die"........

Zona · Unread post by **Zona** » Mon Nov 21, 2016 9:51 pm

Danger. Danger. Danger.

How many times must you fly so close to the sun, Icarus?

Will this be the last time?

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:24 am

Hubby and I read some of the responses recently!

I want to share something.
I love him more than the hottest babe I could ever be with!
I don't think we have marital problems or that hubby needs council.
He just wants the ultimate sex.
Hubby is successful and usually gets what he wants!
So I see this as hubby always wanting more and more!
I've tamed him for years, I've played to his demands and requests.
I've stopped him from dangerous requests, told him enough is enough One too many times!
We're good!

I'm really not obsessed with huge penises or younger men!
I am my husbands wife and I'm proud of that!
But remember this, I am my own person.
I am independent and have a brain.
I will never do something that I am not comfortable with!
And right now if hubby wants for me to be his Hotwife, I'll be that because it make us happy.

D_Lited_HubWife · Unread post by **D_Lited_HubWife** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:30 am

An inspiration, you are.

doglegg · Unread post by **doglegg** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:36 am

So well said.
You and your husband are a team and a good one.
Keep doing as the two of you see fit. Thanks for letting us see your relationship.

ambershere · Unread post by **ambershere** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 9:17 am

so very very well said and oh so honest/kudos to you and the hubby

lkh96 · Unread post by **lkh96** » Tue Nov 22, 2016 9:45 am

54321 · Unread post by **54321** » Thu Nov 24, 2016 2:08 am

Dear Mrs Reese,

I appreciate your dilemma.

You don't want to just pick up random guys. Fine.
The affair with J is going well for now and will remain OK
as long as he doesn't ask for you to replace your hubby.

It seems to me though that in the long term, you would be better off with
two or three boyfriends who knew about Mr Reese and were clear about
the nature of their relationship with you. That way, you can enjoy
a level of emotional involvement with your lovers while maintaining
your primary relationship. Having more than one lover would help keep things
in perspective, I feel.

Hotwifing is always a 'buyer's market' for the hotwife. There will always be no
shortage of guys who would jump at the opportunity, so you are in a position
to set the terms and conditions of whatever type of arrangement suits you and
Mr Reese perfectly.

Every good wish,

54321

Unread post by **mrs_reese** » Mon Nov 28, 2016 1:46 pm

Hi,
So this past Saturday,I went with my girlfriend to her Thanksgiving party at her business.
They tend to celebrate most holidays!

Hubby was out with the boys.
I was approached by a cute younger man, maybe 30 years old, tall, blonde wih blue eyes and a yummy body. My gf knows about my lifestyle but we don't usually talk about it.
She asked me at the party if I was still playing around because a co- worker was hopeful to meet me.
"Sure, it never hurts to say hi!"
I never realized how cute he was!

Since I didn't know too many people, well, only my gf to be exact, I felt comfortable to flirt and tease my new friend.
We danced, kissed and exchanged numbers.
Later that night, hubby was his usual self, as I couldn't give him enough of me!
What is it about my scent I put off when I play?

Anyway, it was a fun night.
I'm not going to call my new friend.
I'll wait and see if he calls me.
Still not sure if I'll do anything more.
It was fun and now it seems too much of a hassle.

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