Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[reese]

Hi everyone, I wanted to share a few thoughts.
First, thanks to everyone for their interest in our adventures.
I appreciate you all!

Unfaithfullyurs...you make a valid point with your question of why a husband wants to be separated from his wife when she's w her lover!
Personally, I've experienced many wild moments where I have been directly involved with my wife and her lover or lovers.
I believe that I am in another "zone" with this lifestyle.
The mystery and intrigue of the "event" have fascinated me to the point that I love wondering what she is doing at a given moment.
Knowing that she is fucking her lover at any time of the day, hoping to see a text message or picture sent to me.
Waiting for her to come home.... RECLAIMING her!
This is more of a "hot button to push" for me now than watching her in action!

I've evolved in a sense I guess!
Thanks for your best wishes my friend!

[joytous3]

To both the Reese's:

Mr., you and I are incredibly similar.
Mrs., you and The Lovely One are incredibly similar. She doesn't want FB's, she wants a lover, only one, the real thing. She had that once, oddly enough the very first guy we played with just on a lark. She doesn't want to go full poly and neither do I. Your confusion is very understandable to me. It's abundantly clear that Steve is THE guy who does it for you. So far your Early Warning System has saved you from bringing down the house, and I hope that continues. I wish I had the magic potion that could enable a woman's heart to go just so far and not push it into something destructive but no one knows better than I the power of a woman's loving heart. I live on the receiving end of one of those hearts .

[reese]

Joytous3..... Well said my friend!
You are so right Sir!

[reese]

Mr Ballspanking, btw, I enjoy your posts.
Very insightful.... Sometimes you lead my wife astray!
Lol

[BallSpanking]

Mr Ballspanking, btw, I enjoy your posts.
Very insightful.... Sometimes you lead my wife astray!
Lol

Me???

[mrs_reese]

I'm meeting Steve tonight.
I'm nervous and excited.

[BallSpanking]

Just in case, pack toothbrush...!

[jane]

I'm meeting Steve tonight.
I'm nervous and excited.

[mrs_reese]

I luv this man!
I gave up my stubbornness and allowed him to make love to me.
Now I can't stop thinking of his wonderful ways.
I can feel all those emotions coming back.
He ended his relationship with his partner recently as he told me that he needs to be with me everyday.
Oh no!

[BallSpanking]

Congratulations, Mrs Reese!
Welcome back, I hope you will keep us posted.

[hardwettalk]

Oh boy the knife is starting to twist, hold on Mr R I think the roller coaster just left the platform.

[joytous3]

As if this weren't interesting enough already....

[mjb0007bond]

I wonder if this thread has grown stale?
Is all this kind of redundant?
I think so.
I mean; posting the se stuff over the past 6 yrs over and over again !
6 years? That's crazy?

No, No, No, please, this is the hottest, most enlightening thing I have ever read.

Mr and Mrs Reese, I nominate you two the hottest couple in the world.

Cheers, mjb0007bond

[BallSpanking]

Hi Reeses!
I was wondering how it is going with Steve..., or has the lovely Mrs Reese resumed her HW play with other guys too?

[manbear89]

This probably ended badly.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

This probably ended badly.

As one who has read every page of this thread I hold a much more positive outlook on the recent absence of the Reeces. Time after time they have professed and shown their profound love and commitment to each other.

In recent years there have been other periods of silence followed by an "all is well" check in. There is actually nothing on this entire forum that would surprise me more than to find out this "ended badly".

Mr GILF

[ChasteHusband62]

This feeling of being "left out" is definitely part of being a cuckold. For me, it is the competition you yourself mention that's the biggest thrill! As a cuckold YOU OUGHT TO FEEL THAT YOU HAVE LESS OF YOUR WIFES TIME AND ATTENTION! If she's fucking other guys then OF COURSE she's going to have less time for you---but, that's the reality of being her cuckold. Does her extra marital affairs make her happy? If they do, your reward is in helping to support her in any further adventures. As you said: The completion makes you a "better husband." It's easy to get lazy in any marriage, and start taking each other for granted! (This is what led my wife and I into the cuckold lifestyle in the first place!) To have someone else in the mix (even just occasionally) spices everything else up! With cuckoldry, there can be no such thing as "cheating." If you both want that, then it's a matter of choice! Then, there can be no such thing as "cheating!"

For me, this sense of my wife having less time for me is now a big part of the over all turn on! Why? BECAUSE I KNOW SHE IS GETTING NICELY FUCK BY ANOTHER GUY BESIDES ME! I'd savor those crazy emotions your feeling. That is precisely what makes what you and your wife are doing SO MUCH FUN!!! A cuckold OUGHT to have "less time" to fuck his wife. I think you'll enjoy it more, and appreciate it more, WHEN YOU DO GET A CHANCE TO 'HAVE' HER FOR YOURSELF!!!

[Ben]

I luv this man!
I gave up my stubbornness and allowed him to make love to me.
Now I can't stop thinking of his wonderful ways.
I can feel all those emotions coming back.
He ended his relationship with his partner recently as he told me that he needs to be with me everyday.
Oh no!

I do hope the Reeses are doing well and have simply been too busy to post here. I find it coincidental that they both seem to have stopped posting right after Mrs. Reese stated "I luv this man!" where it seems she was referring to Steve. Frankly, the possibility that things have ended badly for them scares the hell out of me. The reason being that I see myself ending up in the same situation as Mr. Reese.

My wife and I are not in a hot wife relationship but it has been a fantasy of mine for many years. It is a possibility that it could happen now and given the circumstances of the man that my wife is exchanging sexy emails with it may be that she will end up playing with him alone. The two of us playing together had always been my first choice but, and this is when it was just fantasy talk, I had told her that she could play alone if she wanted to. It is amazing how reality can cause different emotions to come to the surface that can greatly change one's perspective!

I am determined to honor my statement that she can play alone if she wants to. Yes, I trust my wife and just as Mr. Reese stated in the opening posts of this thread I cannot explain why my anxiety levels increase to such heights when I think about it actually happening. It is both exciting and terrifying at the same time.

Anyway, back to the Reeses: I hope they will post soon and let us know what happened. If things did end badly for them then possibly they don't want to rain on anyone else's parade here but reading about the experiences of others here, both good and bad, helps the rest of us who are just on the threshold of the possibility of entering this lifestyle make a more informed and wiser decision.

[SmilingHusband]

their method of doing this was a train wreck waiting to happen. perhaps, it happened.

I am determined to honor my statement that she can play alone if she wants to.

best of luck with that.

[MrsTruckstar]

Everybody is different ......

[Boytoy12]

Hi everyone. Don't mean to bud in. Just saw the title and thought I would join in. My hotwife left a few hours ago for a weekend away with her new FB. I am home watching my stepdaughters. I am anxiously waiting a text from her but I'm sure I won't get one for many hours. It's hard to be patient. This is her 3rd time with him. He is a huge bodybuilder and she says he has incredible stamina. This is her 3rd time meeting him. The first two she took her daughters with so had to play it a little conservative, not too much tho from what she tells me. This time she wanted to be alone. I will let you know how it goes.

Hey, I can't message you back until you allow private messages.

[mrs_reese]

Hi everyone!
We are so sorry that we have not updated the community lately.
I am working fulltime in management, and hubby has his demanding career as well.
Forgive us.
We are all family here and I should have realized our absence would cause much confusion.

Hubby and I are just fine, please do not worry.
I appreciate the words of concern that I've read from a few posters.

I guess I need to update!
It's time.

I will be right back.

[mrs_reese]

I am back.
I read where someone posted that our situation is like a train wreck.
I am confused by that statement because the lifestyle that I am involved in with Steve and my husband is full of honesty and trust.
I can honestly say for the millionth time that I love my marriage.
I am the luckiest girl in the world because I have a husband that I trust completely as well as a man who adores me.
I am deeply in love with my husband in a way so much more different than my love for Steve.
If I lost Steve, I could move on, If I lost my husband, I would be devastated.

I did not ask for this lifestyle.
I only wanted a marriage to my husband.
I did not want to be shared.

Moving forward.
Steve and I are in love with each other.
I am with him on average two days a week, sharing the weekend equally most of the time with hubby and Steve.
This can be very difficult at times especially if we plan a weekend away or there are mixed engagements to attend.

I have not posted about my time with Steve only because what we share is satisfying to me.
I hope this doesnt offend anyone but being in love with him, I don't feel the need to post about our love making moments.

This is not easy.
Hubby will not live in a poly relationship.
Because of my work though, it is very easy to be with Steve.
I work long hours at times, so it's easy to tell anyone that I was working or travelling for my work when I am with Steve.

Steve is all that I could ever ask for as my lover.
He understands that I need to be with my family most of the week.
He is patient and caring.
He and hubby are friends and that helps a lot.
But don't think for one moment that everthing is fine every day.
There are times that hubby and I are fighting, and if I want to visit Steve, omg it causes major issues.
That is when I realize that no matter how great a hotwife relationship is, the normal marital issues will complicate any hotwife moment.
We do fight! I fight with both men sometimes on the same day.
They will stick up for each other at times or act like jealous babies as well.
Life as a hotwife to Steve and my husband can be a major pain in the butt sometimes!

As for my hubby.
He is in very happy I believe.
His hotwife fetish is satisfied everyday as I am in constant communication with Steve.
He can enjoy me after a long weekend with Steve.
He can do his kinky stuff to me after I come home on a random weeknight from Steve's.
The rush and craziness has given way to sharing in a hotwife relationship built on trust, respect ( that is really weird) and lots of sex!

I am so lucky to have a gorgeous lover who I am in love with and an equally gorgeous husband filled with too much manliness that he is in a state of constant "erection!"

I will try to post occassionally.
Please don't give up on us.
I promise to never go away completely.

Please write back everyone.
I want to know what you think and read your words again.
It's nice to hear from some of my long time friends.
xoxo

[Marc]

Sounds awesome. Mostly because you sound so happy. And it sounds like Mr Reese is also happy ( for the most part). Personally I don't think I could get as close to a poly relationship as you two have. I just don't think I could handle it. But if you two make it work that is wonderful. When my wife played she had plenty of solo time and she developed feelings for her lover but never to the point of poly.

As to the train wreck comment. No need to be confused. Just ignore it. Some on here have very narrow view of how hotwife relationships are supposed to be and if anyone else's relationship doesn't conform to their view it must be inferior and doomed to fail.

No train wreck to see here people. Everybody just move a long.

[mrs_reese]

thanks for your comments Marc