Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[jane]

awww.....congratulations hon.

[BallSpanking]

Yay, Mrs Reese!!
Thank you for posting.
Warmest regards from myself and all your fans.

A salute to you...

"Scwiiiiiiiing!!!"

[Aynsley]

Mr. & Mrs. Reese.
Given all that the two of you have gone through in the HW-world,
I would confidently branish anyone who questions the judgment of you two
as completely foolish! You two have pushed the envelope more than most
anyone I know, and if you say 'You two are Okay'...then that's good enough for me,
and I would hope....for everyone else.

Thanks for the update!

[Morgan]

Dear Mrs R
Great to hear from you.
After so many years, and adventures, I was way more concerned about more complications with your Ex. than serious problems with Reese.
I have a little question.
Have you ever teased Steve with the possibility that you might take another lover?
How can he get the full experience of you if he isn't cucked like your husband

[reese]

Good Morning,
My wife urged me to write something on my thread after she posted yesterday.
It's been a while as we've been caught up in our crazy world that we live in!
Personally, since she's been exclusively dating Steve, I am not able to post a lot because I am not with my wife when she's with Steve.
I am ok with that!
I think over the years we both have settled down as we experience the highs and lows of
Hotwife lifestyle.
I used to wish for everyday....hoping to watch my wife with a lover.
Today, my excitement involves never knowing which day she will be with Steve, knowing that she is telling him that she loves him as they make love together.
It's the "unknown" that drives me crazy!
There is a more consistent pattern of play now as well as an equal balance of her time that she gives to Steve and I.
I've been asked by a person who is trying to convince his wife to be a Hotwife,
"How can I live this way, knowing that's wife is in love with another man".
My only response is that in love the challenge of
that and I also trust her not to leave me for her lover!
It allows her and I to share in an intensity of
Love and Trust that most relationships will never encounter!

Morgan, I've been pushing my wife to cuck Steve!
She refuses to do that though.
She says that one "crazy ass man" in her life is enough.
She blames herself for allowing me to turn her into a Hotwife as it really keeps me in a state of
constant hardon as she likes to point out!

So all the friends who care about us and shares their thoughts and opinions on this thread.....
Thanks for being there!
I appreciate you all!

[BallSpanking]

Good to hear from you Mr Reese!
Your input is always of interest to me, of all HW husbands on this site, undoubtedly you are one of the most experienced, perhaps even "expert"!

[mrs_reese]

Aynsley- thanks for always being there for us
Xoxoxo

[mrs_reese]

Mrstruckstar, and Jane, luv you xoxo

[mrs_reese]

Samanthasman,
I want to personally address a few of your questions.
Hubby does have veto rights.
But over the years, the veto right has caused confusion and anger at times.
It's only natural to be upset if your man says to stop and it's been a pleasurable experience.
Be careful of that.
This time is my last time.
Hubby and I had a very long and serious discussion a while back, and I did not want to be a Hotwife again.
After a lot of persuasion and persistence by hubby, I agreed to be with Steve again under one condition; that hubby uses the veto right wisely, and if he chooses to veto, I may never want to be a Hotwife again.
It was his terms all the time, now it's my terms.
If I fell in love, he needed to trust me no matter how nervous he may become.

Being a Hotwife is very confusing and tormenting at times, it may be difficult for the man only because he is giving up his prizes possession.
But for a woman, it's an emotional headache dealing with both men and trying to keep feelings under control.

Xoxo
Hope this helps

[joytous3]

If TLO were interested in posting here, she'd quote the phrase from When Harry Met Sally-"I'll have what she's having" We've exhaustively searched for the relationship you describe here and just about given up. She doesn't want to play musical beds, she wants a lover. I don't know how close to poly I can get, but you two seem to be on the trajectory we'd prefer to be on.

[mrs_reese]

Joytous3
It's taken me 6 yrs to find this!
I am not going to walk away at any moment.
Let's face the facts.
Hubby wants me to be his Hotwife.
Hubby can't not be truly happy unless I am a Hotwife.
I was not happy as a Hotwife until I
Let Steve.
We all are very fortunate!
This situation will probably never arise again!
Xoxo

[mrs_reese]

It is so difficult as a woman to be put in a position of sexual infidelity with a husbands permission first off!!
Then juggle motherhood, shame and guilt and pretend it's ok!
Then go out in slutty bar clothes and hope you are not noticed by a family member or friend as men approach you.
Then try to open up to another man and realize that in a strange way, your husband doesn't want you.
Or you realize that he is a twisted pervert with serious issues.
All those things a Hotwife deals with and more!
Then after the affair; more guilt and shame and thinking your marriage will never be the same.
Then after a lot of psychological soothing BS from the husband, you pick yourself up and continue to be a Hotwife bc it makes HIM happy!
He is more sexual to you than ever before!

Then he drops the bomb on you and says he can't take it!
Stop the affair!
He's scared!
He becomes crazy with jealousy and anger!

And I say to any man reading this;
How dare you!
You begged, scratched and clawed your way into convincing your woman to be a Hotwife and you abruptly want to stop?

Just my opinion!
But it needed to be posted!

[joytous3]

I love you, Mrs. Reese. A sweet heart, a strong sense of right and wrong, an indomitable spirit, a stiff backbone, an intense distaste for unfairness, a raging but graceful femininity, a solid self-image, need I go on? I'm married to one like you, and ever so grateful. Do your thing, do it your way, and let it wail!

[Salsonero]

Let me echo the admiration of Joytous3. You really know who you are and what you feel.
You are a brave and strong woman who is not afraid to throw herself open to life.

Thanks.

[mrs_reese]

Joytous3 and Salsonero, thank-you for your kind words.

Just thought I would post something about my night.
I was w my "other man" and we spent another fun night alone at his place.
Hubby was home by himself.
The thing that I'd like to share is that I am currently cucking my husband in a way that is driving him crazy again.
No sex!
My body is not owned by him anymore.
He is allowed to clean me up with or play with my feet.
I am enjoying watching him suffer!!
Lol!
Oh, it's not that bad him!

[Treborn]

Mrs. R, you are the most incredible, thoughtful and open person on this entire thread. I hope you never stop posting. I just hope you will grace us with a few more photos of your intoxicating body.

[BallSpanking]

Hi Mrs Reese,

It is, of course, no one's business but your own, as to how and when your HW activities take place, and the agreements in place between you and Mr Reese. But it does surprise me somewhat that you are enjoying causing him torment (although I recognize he instigated all of this), because I have always known you to be sweet and considerate first and foremost (it is beyond question how sexy you are), so the fact you are enjoying his angst makes me think you are enjoying the 'payback' for hubby making you a HW, something that you apparently resented, but went along with.

I just hope you will find a happy status quo where you can each be satisfied and have love.

[joytous3]

Now that's what I mean by "let it wail"! Fun!

[mrs_reese]

Not sure how long I can go on cucking my husband .
I feel disconnected.
Honestly, i want him in me right now.
He's playing softball with the boys.
He thinks that I will be away tonite w my "other man".
I think I'm gonna call off sick and wait for hubby.
Xoxo

[Salsonero]

That is so sweet!

• • • sigh

[Mr Quick]

Not sure how long I can go on cucking my husband .
I feel disconnected.
Honestly, i want him in me right now.
He's playing softball with the boys.
He thinks that I will be away tonite w my "other man".
I think I'm gonna call off sick and wait for hubby.
Xoxo

That's awesome mrs reese. Let him know he's still number one.

[billyblue]

Good for you mrsreese, some of us husbands with promiscuous wives are not always made to feel that we are in first place.

[BallSpanking]

I'm sure Mr Reese is dying to have you as his again!

[mrs_reese]

Last night, I made my husband happy.
He came home suprised to see me.
After showering I massaged him in my favorite outfit (guess?).
Once he was relaxed I sat on top of him and brought him to a very fast orgasm.
It's been maybe a few weeks? I think.
Once he was finished, we talked for a while and feeling very energetic, I asked him if he would mind if I visited "my other man" and spent the night since it was "his" night.
Surprisingly, hubby was all for that.
I showered and was getting dressed in shorts and a teeshirt and noticed hubby watching me with his penis erect again.
This guy! Omg he never stops!
He looked at me and asked me to please give him one more time.
I stroked his penis as I told hlm how much I loved both the men in my life!
Needless to say, 2 orgasms in maybe 30 minutes?
Hubby couldn't complain!
I left hlm to spend the night with Steve.

Xoxo

[54321]

Bravo!

Every good wish for all three of you.

54321