Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[Zona]

Maybe you are learning to cherish the amazing woman that makes your life complete, not merely her outrageously sexy body, but the sweet living heart that beats inside her, and the soul within her that loves you with devotion, despite your flaws. Is it surprising that one day you should awaken and not want to share that?

Nope.

Excellent post, BS.

[reese]

Ballspanking, thank-you for your words of wisdom!

[reese]

Last night, my wife received a text from an ex FB from years back.
Reading the text (she offered) he informs her how he's back in the area and would really enjoying meeting up with her for a drink!
My wife's reply was cautious and a little shocked to hear from him.
She informs me...."baby, I'm not sure if I want to see him.... I'm afraid that I'm gonna make you go crazy again!" She means.... She's afraid to unleash the animal in me!

[lkh96]

Dying to know who the ex is ???
Is his story written here ??

[reese]

Yes it is
David

[lkh96]

Need to go back to the pages......
Phew !! That would be hard work....hahahaha

[reese]

Lol I don't even know where he's at in this thread
Ridiculous..... Almost 195 pages

[lkh96]

Help me out.......hahaha
Whats his timeline ??

[reese]

Way back earlier days of HW play not sure where in pages guessing 10-20 area

[lkh96]

Reading the previous pages, circa 2011, i noticed how the missus wrote everything in so much detail. It was literally porn. So hot and so erotic. Wonder why she is so tamed now in her writing. Bring her back reese.....lol

Enjoy the cuckold-hotwife play guys.

[bjaficionado]

Not even close to 10-20 range. Reading a bit of that, I agree with mrs_reese. That guy sounds like he just wants to create trouble.

[reese]

Mrs is more reserved now and not willing to just react to my requests.
I miss those days.... But I also don't miss the uncertainty and confusion.
The more i long for the porn star days, the more I remember those days of confusion, jealousy, anger, frustration and missing my wife.
Not sure if we'll ever be "that" couple again.....
I'm happy we found some stability in our marriage despite her hotwife play.

[lkh96]

I agree......reading back what you guys wrote 4-5 years ago, everything was in full power mode. Exciting but a scary ride. The thrill seems to overpower your marriage.

Who cares if you don't fit into a certain category or chase new thrills. As long as what you guys have provides a good married life, i say continue so. Nobody is keeping scores. Whatever works for you guys works. Forget the cheerleaders and people here who egged on you guys to explore newer fantasies and plays. Play the play that leaves none of you hurting.

Best wishes. Enjoy "safe" fantasies.

[Zona]

If this is the same David that Mrs Reese dated before she met you, reese, she first tells us about him in her post on this thread on February 15, 2011, Page 130.

Regarding his recent text attempting to restart their adventure, my feeling is that she should either ignore him, or reply that she has no interest in meeting him even if it is just for drinks. You both know he is hoping for a lot more than that. I think she is not interested in that.

From reading your recent posts and Mrs Reese's, it appears to me that your marriage has reached a level of love and tranquility that I think you both should try to retain. I gather from Mrs Reese that she is perfectly happy focusing 99% of her sexual energy on you, yet getting that extra boost from an occasional romp with Jeff.

I think she wants to keep it that way.

And I think you do too, reese. Although part of you longs for the excitement, chaos and angst your previous lifestyle brought you, you are still frightened by the prospect. To me it appears that you are only about 10% on the side of returning to your old lifestyle, while 90% of you likes your marriage the way it is now.

My opinion is that you should go with the 90%.

Further, I think Mrs Reese wants you to advise her to leave David well in the past. I think she will love you even more if you do that.

[BallSpanking]

My 2 cents...
I would leave it entirely up to Mrs Reese.
She knows what she wants, and what she doesn't want.
In addition to her husband, she already has a BF, and it didn't sound to me like she was in any mood to be a wild HW again, in fact, I sometimes get the impression she does it more for Mr Reese than for herself.
Maybe I'm wrong, maybe Mrs Reese still has a wild hair for David, but if she does, I am certain she will know when the HW play gets to be too much.

Party on, Garth!

[lkh96]

BS......i wouldn't 'leave entirely' to mrs. reese.
Rather, its upto 'them'. How they fleshed out.
Readin up on their past experiences, things get mangled up whn only one does the tango.

You guys are a married couple. Two heads and hearts are always better than one.

[BallSpanking]

Agreed, but a husband can allow his wife the full choice as to what she wants to do, after all, it's her body.

[lkh96]

I am referring to the reeses, a married couple.
Not to mr. reese the cuck and mrs. reese the hotwife.

Clearly you and i have no idea what's up with their lives. It would be moronic of us to squibble over who owns who or how they should proceed with david.

I am not gonna cheer them on nor raised presumptive red flags. They are a married couple. They know themselves better than anyone else. I am just gonna tell them to butt their heads together and talked it out, that is, of course, if they would listen to me.......lol

[BallSpanking]

Mrs Reese knows very well what she does.
If I were Mr Reese, I believe I could fully trust her intuition and her decisions.
Mrs Reese, if anything, is even more protective of their marriage than Mr Reese.
Hence my comment.

[lkh96]

BS i know you have been involved in this thread way before me and also, i believe, you are more familiar to this lifestyle than i am. Expertise and experience wise, you win hands down. Readin this thread, its timeline tells a story of two married people. Reflected in it are a slice of their personality, their hangups, their promises, their fallings.....in essence, their life.

In the beginning, circa 2010, you can see how they are so sure of this lifestyle. Every note of caution thrown in was explained away with lyrics of love, 'slave to hubby', a solid marriage, notes of tenderness, 'how could i ever leave my wonderful hubby', 'we can stop when we want to'.....you get the gist. An unbreakable marriage was shown everytime someone mentioned 'brakes'.

Fast forward 4 yrs later, and you hear the rant of mrs. reese about hotwife whn she fell hard for the guy (i dare not mentioned his name out of respect). Life stoped being rosy. The delicacy of human emotions can only be stretched so far before it outlast its purpose. The lifestyle that gave them the thrill and sexual high outlast its purpose only to bring in problem(s). I wouldn't say "Mrs Reese knows very well what she does". If she did, said incident would not have happened.

My point is i wouldn't go so far as to say "Mrs Reese, if anything, is even more protective of their marriage than Mr Reese". I don't for a second believe that mr. reese isn't protective of his marriage and his wife. A marriage can only be sustained as long as the two involved are both protective of it. Nor do i believe that mrs. reese enjoys sex with other men only because mr. reese wants her to.
at the end, it always takes two to tango.

On a side note, mr. reese you talked of being an addict to hotwife lifestyle. I look back at pages 120-122 and realised "flyinfast" was right all along in his assessment. You can time travel to who you were in 2010 if you re-read it. You have come a long way since though.

P.S: I wrote this primarily in response to BS last cheering.
It is not written in particular to david.

[debbydo]

it's very hard the first time to see your wife take a strange cock ,,,as you sit there and watch ....even worse if you do all the pre -oral work up for her than just sit back and let the other guy fuck her ,,,,,,,, her asshole and pussy taste is still on your tounge as you watch his cock head slide deep into her pussy ,,,,,,and you wait untill his cock slides out of her pussy with the cum sliding out after he is done with her

[reese]

Hey everyone..... I appreciate all the comments lately.
It helps me sort out my thoughts and feelings.
My wife and I decided to back off from David.
She texted him last night and simply asked "why?"
He said that he missed the fun they used to have.
She told him that she is now out of the lifestyle.
He accepted and told her he'll stay in touch!

[BallSpanking]

Sexy and sensible wife you have there, Mr Reese.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Hope this little reevaluation did not dampen her desire for Jeff.

Mr GILF

[Zona]

Hey everyone..... I appreciate all the comments lately.
It helps me sort out my thoughts and feelings.
My wife and I decided to back off from David.
She texted him last night and simply asked "why?"
He said that he missed the fun they used to have.
She told him that she is now out of the lifestyle.
He accepted and told her he'll stay in touch!

This site only allows eight smilies, or I'd put about 20 of them up there.

I think together you made a very wise decision.

IMHO another dalliance with David might likely cause trouble down the road.