Take it slow jumping into the reality. But that doesn't mean you can't have a lot of fun with it until that happens.Thank you hotwifelover. I think we’re taking it slow and trying to just take it all in. But yes, we are having a blast right now. Just talking about the prospect of another man fucking me is exciting enough to get my husband in the mood. And we loved your post. I’ve actually been making up fantasies kind of on the fly to rile him up for playtime. I’ve created a few “characters” and based some of them on interactions we’ve had with real people. Just this week I made up a story about having to fly across country to my company’s home office for “training.” Husband has suggested I post it for everyone’s enjoyment here. I’ll tweak it and maybe share… And other men hitting on me in reality right now makes my husband SOOO happy.
Tell him about guys you find sexy. If you have names, all the better. Like the cute guy stocking the produce, or helping you with something at Home Depot. Get his name, and refer to him during sex. Ask your husband things like, do you think "Steve" has a nice cock? Do you think he'd want to fuck me with it? Show me how Steve will fuck me. What do you think he'd do if I . . .
Go out, with a female friend, or alone, without your husband. Whether you actually meet and flirt with guys or not, send him texts saying that guys are flirting with you. Tel him one of them is really making you wet, and ask what you should do if he makes a move on you. Tell him you think it might happen tonight, but that you're nervous and not sure. What does he think? Ask him, "What if I just give him a handjob in his truck?" "Would it be OK if I suck him a little bit too, or let him touch my pussy?" "Oh baby, I'm soooooo wet right now! Are you sure you are OK with this?"
Before you come back in the house, peel off your hose and panties and hide them in your purse and muss your hair. When you get inside, be coy about it, then rather than tell him what you did (or didn't do), put his hand there and let him feel how wet you are. Maybe even put a little KY or something to make it ridiculously wet. I don't advocate lying, even to please him. But you can tease the hell out of him saying things like, "Oh my gawd I am such a slut!"
At some point, you'll have to be honest and admit you didn't do it, to keep things on the up and up between you. But to make it hot, it's important to make it feel real, and not like "just a fantasy." How to do that without lying? Easy. When you have to eventually admit that nothing happened, say "No, it didn't happen. But I was ready for it. There just wasn't anyone that I felt really good about. And "Jane" was with me, so I had to kind of behave." Another good thing to offer is to say "It will happen. I don't know when, but it will happen. But it has to be the right guy, at the right time and place. But it will happen. Your naughty wife is going to fuck someone else. There's no turning back now!"
This kind of play not only makes for hot and exciting fun for you both, it also gives you both an opportunity to explore the aftermath of feelings. After orgasm, men often feel different. Be alert for that, and prepared to change gears if he feels angst after orgasm. If and when it happens for real, it will be his responsibility to manage that for himself, at least in the immediate aftermath, as you will be dealing with your own roller coaster of emotion.
But I definitely want to work in your suggestion in order to see how we handle the emotional rollercoaster. Thanks again!