From Considering To Being Truly A Hot Wife

[Husbands Kandi]

Thank you malzy567!!

[nevertoolate]

Glad to see you folks are making progress and thank you for the photo shoots. Some us men like to see the hot wives fully dressed either in work attire or evening wear as well as the more erotic scenes. It is always a thrill to see how we might meet you out out in public. Your photos remind me of a girlfriend I had many years ago. We kept a long distance relationship so she and I saw other people. There was no shame or jealousy on my part when she told me about her exploits and it was the fodder for many fine long distant phone calls.

The massage session sounds like a great "safe" way to start. As with the girl friend and later with my wife, we husbands often have a difficult time expressing the erotic trill of seeing any woman in the throws of lust and passion, let alone someone we love. It is part of our attraction to all women, but it is an extremely strong bond we feel when we see our lover at the hands of another skilled lover. It is an extension of what many men set as goals; trying to last as long as possible and give a woman as many orgasms and breathless moments as possible. As we get older, we men sure can use a little help and are excited by the prospect.

[Husbands Kandi]

Glad to see you folks are making progress and thank you for the photo shoots. Some us men like to see the hot wives fully dressed either in work attire or evening wear as well as the more erotic scenes. It is always a thrill to see how we might meet you out out in public. Your photos remind me of a girlfriend I had many years ago. We kept a long distance relationship so she and I saw other people. There was no shame or jealousy on my part when she told me about her exploits and it was the fodder for many fine long distant phone calls.

The massage session sounds like a great "safe" way to start. As with the girl friend and later with my wife, we husbands often have a difficult time expressing the erotic trill of seeing any woman in the throws of lust and passion, let alone someone we love. It is part of our attraction to all women, but it is an extremely strong bond we feel when we see our lover at the hands of another skilled lover. It is an extension of what many men set as goals; trying to last as long as possible and give a woman as many orgasms and breathless moments as possible. As we get older, we men sure can use a little help and are excited by the prospect.

Hi NTL,

Thanks for posting on both my threads! Thanks for the suggestion of the PG pix too. We have an upcoming vacation and I purchased some new outfits just for the occasion. We think they are really cute! I’m sure there should be opportunity to post some of those. Great Idea!!

Husband liked the idea of the massage session for that exact reason. It would be safe and a sure bet. We’ve read countless stories of HW’s being stood up and it breaks our hearts. Then it’s kind of happened to me. Messaging someone last month, all non-sexual, and when he found out our vacation was where he lived, he offered to be “my first time.” We start planning the hook up and our messaging gets all hot and steamy, then he falls off the face of the earth! He hasn’t even logged onto OHW for 3 weeks. Needless to say, I was devastated!

But back to the good stuff about the massage. Yes, Husband is SUPER excited about it!! He loves that I’m flirting (online and in person) w/ people. He loves to hear about my fantasies I’m having about other men. The masseuse and I have started corresponding about the upcoming event (and moved from subtler flirting to outright). And you’re right, Husband has a hard time expressing it verbally, but when I see how aroused he is, I get the message!

Cheers! ~HK

[TedtheBellhop]

This is such an exciting thread! Hearing about the build-up is so sexy. I have so many questions.

I saw the photos, so I know your husband is no little guy. However, does the possibility of trying something a little larger excite you?

Can you share some details on the correspondence between you and the masseuse? I'm DYING to know what you've been saying to each other.

[Husbands Kandi]

This is such an exciting thread! Hearing about the build-up is so sexy. I have so many questions.

I saw the photos, so I know your husband is no little guy. However, does the possibility of trying something a little larger excite you?

Can you share some details on the correspondence between you and the masseuse? I'm DYING to know what you've been saying to each other.

I'm so glad you are enjoying my thread! Go ahead and ask questions - I'll do my best to answer them.

Thank you for complementing Husband's equipment. And to answer your question, yes, I would love to "try" someone larger. I've had other lovers (significant others) before my husband - smaller, maybe longer but not thicker, but that was over 7 years ago. I've not been w/ another man since then, so I don't really have a preference right now. I just want to be in the game and not on the sidelines anymore!

I can certainly share some of the messages w/ the masseuse. What a great request! Thanks. There will be some editing, such as our names, some logistics, and regarding my tattoos. I’ll give some background and then go into the emails after. Would that be okay?

[alan137]

Update:

On Tuesday we met with the erotic massage therapist (we’ll refer to him as J). I must say, I don’t think I was truly excited till now! Not only is J easy on the eyes, but he seems very passionate. He talked about how he has sex differently than other people (what?) that he’ll make a spiritual/erotic connection with me, rather than fucking me (oh, oh I like that). I think this will be a most enjoyable first experience

He seemed more concerned about what I wanted to get out of this experience, other than “doing this for Husband.” Which was surprisingly harder to answer than I thought it was.!

For me (and my wife and her BF) this aspect is what makes the difference. They make love. They have a spiritual/erotic connection with one another. It isn't just fucking and, as the husband, and like Kandi, I like that a lot! And so does my wife.

Alan

[TedtheBellhop]

It's been a crazy busy week for me. I would LOVE to see some of the messages exchanged with the masseuse. The build-up for this is so intense!!!

And of course you would like to edit it for anonymity. I hope you find the time.

[Mrs E]

It's been a crazy busy week for me. I would LOVE to see some of the messages exchanged with the masseuse. The build-up for this is so intense!!!

And of course you would like to edit it for anonymity. I hope you find the time.

Ooh, that would be nice, I must admit!

[Husbands Kandi]

For me (and my wife and her BF) this aspect is what makes the difference. They make love. They have a spiritual/erotic connection with one another. It isn't just fucking and, as the husband, and like Kandi, I like that a lot! And so does my wife.

Alan

Hi Alan,
I'm so happy your wife has a FB that has that spiritual/erotic connection with her. Does she have just the one FB? Or does she take multiple lovers?

I think each FB will end up providing a unique and different experience. I am absolutely excited that the masseuse prefers the sensual and erotic connection over fucking. But don't get me wrong, I'm all for a playmate who wants to do just that, fuck. But what do I know. I'm not even a "real" hotwife yet, lol. I'm sure every aspect of this will take on a different life as it evolves.

Thanks for commenting/following the thread

[Husbands Kandi]

Okay Ted and Mrs E… Ask and you shall receive:

The setup (kind of boring):

Husband emailed the masseuse in July after he revealed his fantasy to me. It was a simple email, that he was interested in getting a sensual massage for his wife. That his wife would feel more comfortable meeting w/ him before agreeing to going through with it. We would be on holiday in August and requested to meet with him then. His response to Husband’s email was very understanding, agreed to meet, and understood the massage wouldn’t be taking place in August. Husband asked me to reply to the masseuse at this point.

My reply explained that if the massage took place, it would happen in December - as a gift for my 40th birthday. That I felt I needed that amount of time (between July and December) to “wrap my head around the idea, even though I’m excited about the experience.” I also requested that Husband be present during the massage (his website indicated this would be allowed) so that Husband's fantasy would be fulfilled and that I felt more comfortable (safe) w/ him being present. I solidified the scheduled meeting.

Keep in mind we were VERY new to this and I wasn’t NEARLY (how can I stress that even more!!!!) as excited about it as I am now (or eager!!!!). So you might imagine my surprise when the masseuse responded that not only could Husband “be present throughout the massage,” but that “he’s welcome to watch and/or join in as some point. It’s entirely up to you.” My eyes got about as big as they did when Husband first told me about his fantasy! He gave us his address, directions, and confirmed the appointment.

And as you already know, we met with him in August (I posted about it on Aug 21). I sent him a follow-up email a couple days after our initial meeting. I would have sent it sooner, but I was a bit busy and preoccupied by a very horny husband (to my delight!).

I’ll post those correspondence in the next "installment," lol!

[hotwifeloverpdx]

Okay Ted and Mrs E… Ask and you shall receive:

The setup (kind of boring):

Husband emailed the masseuse in July after he revealed his fantasy to me. It was a simple email, that he was interested in getting a sensual massage for his wife. That his wife would feel more comfortable meeting w/ him before agreeing to going through with it. We would be on holiday in August and requested to meet with him then. His response to Husband’s email was very understanding, agreed to meet, and understood the massage wouldn’t be taking place in August. Husband asked me to reply to the masseuse at this point.

My reply explained that if the massage took place, it would happen in December - as a gift for my 40th birthday. That I felt I needed that amount of time (between July and December) to “wrap my head around the idea, even though I’m excited about the experience.” I also requested that Husband be present during the massage (his website indicated this would be allowed) so that Husband's fantasy would be fulfilled and that I felt more comfortable (safe) w/ him being present. I solidified the scheduled meeting.

Keep in mind we were VERY new to this and I wasn’t NEARLY (how can I stress that even more!!!!) as excited about it as I am now (or eager!!!!). So you might imagine my surprise when the masseuse responded that not only could Husband “be present throughout the massage,” but that “he’s welcome to watch and/or join in as some point. It’s entirely up to you.” My eyes got about as big as they did when Husband first told me about his fantasy! He gave us his address, directions, and confirmed the appointment.

And as you already know, we met with him in August (I posted about it on Aug 21). I sent him a follow-up email a couple days after our initial meeting. I would have sent it sooner, but I was a bit busy and preoccupied by a very horny husband (to my delight!).

I’ll post those correspondence in the next "installment," lol!

Wow tbis is exactly what I would like for my wife.... how do you go about finding some one like J? Are the listed anywere?

Thanks

[viking43]

Boring, are you kidding? It is very exciting, please keep us updated

[elina]

Yes, please keep us updated,
love the anticipation growing as it is soon December......

Sincere regards
elina

[TedtheBellhop]

We're off to a great start! I can't wait to hear more.

[Husbands Kandi]

Wow tbis is exactly what I would like for my wife.... how do you go about finding some one like J? Are the listed anywere?

Thanks

Husband read an article about women receiving a “happy ending” during a massage. Then he googled tantric massages and that lead him to CL. He found someone who’s business was somewhere we like to vacation. We checked out his website and Husband had “a good feeling” about him. And Husband sent J an email… You could always check out CL for tantric massages in the Portland area. If you need more info, PM Kentros (that’s Husband) I’m sure he’d be happy to chat.

Boring, are you kidding? It is very exciting, please keep us updated

Viking! Welcome to my thread!! Glad we can share something other than porn, lol!! I’ll have another “installment” of the emails between the masseuse and I soon.

Yes, please keep us updated,
love the anticipation growing as it is soon December......

Sincere regards, elina

Nice to see you again! Happy you’re still checking in. And the massage date was moved up to November (b/c I’m just so fucking eager for this to finally happen!)

We're off to a great start! I can't wait to hear more.

So glad you want more to hear more. I have the next post ready for you… Hope you all enjoy.

[Husbands Kandi]

Follow-up email: (little less boring, but not exciting yet either) Installment 1

My next email read as follows:

“Hello J, It was wonderful meeting you.

Thank you for providing a comfortable environment for both Husband and I to discuss and eventually experience this new journey we've embarked upon. You've brought us closer to making his fantasy a reality.

Prior to meeting you all of our conversations were fictional stories to arouse my partner. But now you’ve added new level of excitement for me that certainly wasn’t there before. I’m looking forward to my birthday. Please don’t shave the beard

We’ll be in touch, Husband’s Kandi and Kentros”

His response read:

Hi Kandi (and Kentros!)

It was great to meet you both. I'm glad that you had a positive experience here. And that you’re feeling more excited about the upcoming birthday adventure.

After meeting you and discussing things further, I feel even more excited!

I look forward to taking the next step.

Be well, J

PS: Glad to know you like facial hair.

[bsefs]

PS: Glad to know you like facial hair.[/color]

So am I!!

[Husbands Kandi]

PS: Glad to know you like facial hair.

So am I!!

Are you now? Just how glad???

[viking43]

I can imagine the excitement you and your hubby feel, it it probably pretty hot in bed at the moment - a little reality mixed with the fantasies makes wonders

[TedtheBellhop]

I love this thread! Can't wait to hear more.

[Husbands Kandi]

About a month later: (this will be a bit more exciting) Instalment 2

My email read:

Hello J,

I hope you are well.

Kentros and I have been discussing our upcoming session with you and we wanted to check on your availability. I’m very excited about seeing you again. And I don’t need to necessarily wait till my birthday in December. I didn’t need as much time “to wrap my head around this” as we originally anticipated. Would you be available November 20th?

Perhaps before the massage, you and I could sit together, discuss the session, start touching and ease into kissing. I’m excited to know what it will feel like to kiss you. I’m hoping to work out my own nervousness before the massage. I also think this will help me feel more comfortable w/ this experience and as we move from the massage to being intimate. I’ve not been intimate with anyone other than Kentros since we started dating, over 7 years ago.

I also want to check and see how Husband will respond. When we discuss this he always says he’s excited about the prospect of seeing me with another man. But I’ve also read, from the hotwifing community, that some husbands react differently than how they expected. I want to gauge his reaction and make sure he’s okay.

Let us know if November 20th will work for you.

Thank you, Kandi and Kentros

His response read:
Hi Kandi (and Kentros),

Nice to hear from you.

I'm glad that you're both feeling comfortable (and excited!) about seeing me again. That makes me excited. And I do have November 20th open.

I like your suggestion of sitting together and easing into the session with talking and kissing... maybe some light touching, before the massage. Whatever feels right.

So, how long a session would you like? We could go as long as you both desire!

Thanks, J

[pancuckold]

I love it when a plan comes together :-)

[viking43]

It sounds like a very good idea - and a very exciting one too

[TedtheBellhop]

November 20th is only about 2 weeks away. This is so exciting!!!

[Mrs E]

About a month later: (this will be a bit more exciting) Instalment 2

My email read:

Hello J,

I hope you are well.

Kentros and I have been discussing our upcoming session with you and we wanted to check on your availability. I’m very excited about seeing you again. And I don’t need to necessarily wait till my birthday in December. I didn’t need as much time “to wrap my head around this” as we originally anticipated. Would you be available November 20th?

Perhaps before the massage, you and I could sit together, discuss the session, start touching and ease into kissing. I’m excited to know what it will feel like to kiss you. I’m hoping to work out my own nervousness before the massage. I also think this will help me feel more comfortable w/ this experience and as we move from the massage to being intimate. I’ve not been intimate with anyone other than Kentros since we started dating, over 7 years ago.

I also want to check and see how Husband will respond. When we discuss this he always says he’s excited about the prospect of seeing me with another man. But I’ve also read, from the hotwifing community, that some husbands react differently than how they expected. I want to gauge his reaction and make sure he’s okay.

Let us know if November 20th will work for you.

Thank you, Kandi and Kentros

His response read:
Hi Kandi (and Kentros),

Nice to hear from you.

I'm glad that you're both feeling comfortable (and excited!) about seeing me again. That makes me excited. And I do have November 20th open.

I like your suggestion of sitting together and easing into the session with talking and kissing... maybe some light touching, before the massage. Whatever feels right.

So, how long a session would you like? We could go as long as you both desire!

Thanks, J

Fantastic news!!!

I especially like this part "We can go as long as you both desire!"

I could be a very naughty girl with that invitation. I'm sure you'll be too.