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Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Mon Feb 19, 2018 4:16 am
by ErikaPeter
SunAngel wrote:ErikaPeter wrote:It did happen to me once. I had an abortion.
How did it happen? My wife also had an abortion. She's on the pill but it happened after an international trip when the schedule was thrown off. She had sex with her bf as soon as we got back and in the heat of the moment, no one really thought of it.
It was similar, but in reverse. I made a trip overseas to visit an old boyfriend. There was no way I would have anything like a condom between him and me to interfere with our intimacy, and I desperately wanted his cum inside me. The disruption in my pill cycle probably made me fertile. Ironically, we had unprotected sex many times when I was 16 and he was 17, but I never got pregnant then.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2020 2:45 pm
by AstaSilva
The huge amount of abortion supporters surprises and scares me.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2020 5:54 am
by insertomit
AstaSilva wrote: ↑Sat Nov 07, 2020 2:45 pm
The huge amount of abortion supporters surprises and scares me.
Why does it scare you, are you a fetus?
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2020 10:45 am
by SheLikesWhenIWatch
When we were younger, her pregnancies were ABSOLUTELY BRUTAL and we decided to stop after our 2nd child was born. (We thought the 1st brutal pregnancy was an anomaly. The second child left us with no doubt about what future pregnancies would be like. ABSOLUTELY BRUTAL.)
So..........
She asked and I agreed to get snipped.
Unfortunately (in hindsight), I made my family aware that I was getting snipped. Parents, brothers, sisters......Everyone knew. (And everyone knew why!)
Then, about 5 years after getting snipped, the wifey decided she wanted to give the fuck-buddy/boyfriend lifestyle a little try. She was addicted after her first fuck! She was all in! (Perhaps I should say her bf was all in......ALL IN!)
The problem, of course, is that he shoots live rounds. Early on, she agreed to go on the pill if he would be exclusive to her. He could fuck her bareback and cum in her all he wanted as long as he didn't fuck around. (She agreed that she'd be exclusive to just the two of us.)
He agreed in a heartbeat! (What can I say? She's a great lay! We LOVE sharing her, and she LOVES being shared.)
Later, we talked about what would happen if her birth control failed and he put a bun in her oven. (Actually, the thought always aroused me, but I was terrified at what I'd say to my family.)
We never quite resolved the matter, always defering to the "We'll cross that bridge when we get there" proclamation.
We knew that if it happened AND if we (mostly she) decided to keep the baby, we'd have to admit that we've been fucking around.
That's the part that aroused me. My family would find out that my wife has cucked me! I'm pretty sure there would be a sort of quiet respect for her among my sisters, sisters-in-law, and maybe even my mother. You just know they'd be going home to fantasize about cucking their husbands...if they haven't already cucked them. There's history of cuckolding among many of our extended family members, so I don't think it would be an incredibly groundbreaking shock.
Knowing us, though, we'd probably have the baby and include her bf as part of the family. It would be awkward at first, but we'd all get used to it.
Bottom line: Don't tell your family (or ANYONE) you're getting snipped!
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2020 1:07 pm
by insertomit
You can say you got a reversal.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2020 1:19 pm
by afagehi7
insertomit wrote: ↑Sun Nov 08, 2020 1:07 pm
You can say you got a reversal.
Can't they still get sperm for in vitro?
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2020 1:08 am
by Wesley Hudson Valley
If a husband and a wife are both in agreement to be in the Hotwife lifestyle and to point out the obvious she is having sex with other men and the husband is fully supportive and into it and the wife gets pregnant by chance by another man....I believe the mature response should be....congratulations all around you and your wife are going to have a raise a child.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2021 6:44 pm
by SheluvstheD
My wife and I thought about quiting birth control in the past and use plan B the morning after just so she could experience another man getting her pregnant
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2021 7:08 pm
by SheluvstheD
My wife (32) and I (34) discussed her quiting birth control in the past and use plan B the morning after just so she could experience being fertile and letting somone else fill her with no protection and potentially "get her pregnant" for the night. We both thought it taboo and naughty and were very turned on by it, but we never acted and left it as a fantasy because we didn't want to risk having a 4th kid. She is still on BC so she always let's guys cum in her, and really there is still that risk but it has worked for us so far, she hates condoms so much that would rather use pullout method rather than use a condom, whether with me or other men... so birth control has definetly been our go to and has prevented many accidents the past 9 years since we started the HW lifestyle
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2021 5:32 am
by armyguyot1
Welcome to the forum SheluvstheD.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2021 7:32 am
by Des 31
Having had a tubal ligation, my wife cannot become pregnant. But had it happened, I'm sure the two of us would raise the child as our own. I think it would be unlikely either of us would notify the biological father, but if she felt he should be involved, I would be fine with that. I would not want child support from the man. Unless a child is adopted, I see no reason to inform him or her we were not the biological parents; that would be assumed by all.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2021 8:37 am
by stevens4fun
Well said!
SheLikesWhenIWatch wrote: ↑Sun Nov 08, 2020 10:45 am
When we were younger, her pregnancies were ABSOLUTELY BRUTAL and we decided to stop after our 2nd child was born. (We thought the 1st brutal pregnancy was an anomaly. The second child left us with no doubt about what future pregnancies would be like. ABSOLUTELY BRUTAL.)
So..........
She asked and I agreed to get snipped.
Unfortunately (in hindsight), I made my family aware that I was getting snipped. Parents, brothers, sisters......Everyone knew. (And everyone knew why!)
Then, about 5 years after getting snipped, the wifey decided she wanted to give the fuck-buddy/boyfriend lifestyle a little try. She was addicted after her first fuck! She was all in! (Perhaps I should say her bf was all in......ALL IN!)
The problem, of course, is that he shoots live rounds. Early on, she agreed to go on the pill if he would be exclusive to her. He could fuck her bareback and cum in her all he wanted as long as he didn't fuck around. (She agreed that she'd be exclusive to just the two of us.)
He agreed in a heartbeat! (What can I say? She's a great lay! We LOVE sharing her, and she LOVES being shared.)
Later, we talked about what would happen if her birth control failed and he put a bun in her oven. (Actually, the thought always aroused me, but I was terrified at what I'd say to my family.)
We never quite resolved the matter, always defering to the "We'll cross that bridge when we get there" proclamation.
We knew that if it happened AND if we (mostly she) decided to keep the baby, we'd have to admit that we've been fucking around.
That's the part that aroused me. My family would find out that my wife has cucked me! I'm pretty sure there would be a sort of quiet respect for her among my sisters, sisters-in-law, and maybe even my mother. You just know they'd be going home to fantasize about cucking their husbands...if they haven't already cucked them. There's history of cuckolding among many of our extended family members, so I don't think it would be an incredibly groundbreaking shock.
Knowing us, though, we'd probably have the baby and include her bf as part of the family. It would be awkward at first, but we'd all get used to it.
Bottom line: Don't tell your family (or ANYONE) you're getting snipped!
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2021 8:15 am
by JMNBABE
My wife WANTS to get pregnant by someone other then me, and I fully support that. As a result, I am ALWAYS resigned to using condoms with my wife to be sure that if she becomes pregnant, its not my baby. Been on condom only since November 2012. And limited intercourse also.
There have been 2 times during our marraige where she really thought (and HOPED) she had become pregnant by someone else.....once with her (older, white) Boss/Lover after a hastily planned trip to Cancun together; the other time was prior to that relationship with a Black Lover that she spent an entire weekend totally birth control free and BEGGING for him to knock her up, etc. Long stories, both are on here somewhere.
Both times, when her period started later than expected, she called me just CRUSHED that she was not pregnant and in tears!! And I have to admit, one of the most erotic things that has ever happened to me is to have my wife call me in TEARS because she is not pregnant by someone else and despondent over it.....and assuring her that she can try again with all the sexcitement that went in to getting to this point again. How many guys are THAT lucky?! LOL
If/When she becomes pregnant, we will have the baby and raise it as our own. No question about an abortion. In fact, the only time abortion ever came up was when she was FURIOUS at le for cumming inside her during the ONE time she let me inside without a condom on and she SCREAMED at me "if I get pregnant by you, I WILL have an abortion!!!"...and a few other choice words too, lol.
CW
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2021 9:35 am
by Rick3066
Many of the poll options say “Father” are you talking about the husband or the lover?
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2021 11:16 am
by Laney26
AstaSilva wrote: ↑Sat Nov 07, 2020 2:45 pm
The huge amount of abortion supporters surprises and scares me.
I seen only a few comments. I thankfully only had one legit scare in the course of a monogamist relationship. He wanted me to keep it if I was pregnant because he wanted a kid, but he was not financially or emotionally responsible enough in my opinion. That aside I just didn't want to have a child, couldn't afford it either as I was living paycheck to paycheck. Had I gotten pregnant I would have gotten an abortion with no regrets in that case. I nor any other women aren't obligated to live our lives and put our bodies through child birth or pregnancy based on other people's morality until the collection of cells turn into an actual baby that is viable I see nothing unethical about abortion.
I personally think its worse the people who would knowing take a bio fathers rights away and their child's rights by "raising the children as their own" but its their prerogative.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2021 12:35 pm
by Iwatchherplay
My wife can't get pregnant. It was that way before we played.
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2021 4:18 am
by vmb69
It happened to us, but wife miscarried, he didn't want kids, and would have not been involved. When we found out we talked about it and decided to keep it. We would have raised as our own
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2021 9:14 am
by WatchinginNJ
You know I'm generally not a fan of abortion but having been there and having to deal with it personally I can honestly say it's a horrible decision either way. In my situation it was the result of infidelity and ultimately led to my divorce. You need consent of all three people involved and it was messy and no way we could have even come close to figuring that out. Of course I have regrets and will go to my death bed wondering 'what if'. Ironically if it would have happened in the framework of ethical non-monogamy? I think it would have turned out different.
I'm generally agnostic, but if there is a god? It's the one thing that I think about; I thank god everyday for the children he gave me, and pray for forgiveness on the one that couldn't be. That's my only bet on the afterlife.
If I ever got a woman I was with pregnant, I would be happy to what ever extent I was invited to be involved. If one ever asked me to purposely get her pregnant, I probably would. Maybe that could be my penance?
Re: What would you do if you got pregnant (or what have you done
Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2021 1:23 am
by Parsifal
My wife's ability to conceive had to be ended for medical reasons when our daughter was born, which was before we took up her games. However, with all due respect to the couples who feel differently, we would not keep a child conceived by her in fun with an outside lover. She has two children by a previous marriage that I've willingly supported and raised. I very much love my stepkids too. But to put it rather bluntly they aren't my children. They relationship feels a step removed, maybe because the real father is still in the picture, maybe not. Call me traditionalist on this, but life is short, money too, and if I'm going to take on that responsibility and commitment it will be for a child that's 100 percent ours.