Just Beginning

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello Friends,

It’s been a while since I have posted an update. My wife and I are doing really well. Kids are getting older and we find ourselves with a little more free time together, which is a good thing. We are so happy and ever since we opened our communication, we became so close. My wife hasn’t become a Hotwife yet. We talk about non-monogamy frequently, but, just have not decided to move that direction.

Our biggest hang up is finding someone and it being discrete. This is our secret and we have a lot to loose professionally if it was exposed. It’s a shame that society is like this, but thats the world we live in. The good news is we are having awesome sex and love having sexual fun together. I still have a strong fantasy, but it is not about me. I want my wife to be comfortable and feel safe if we every thanks the next step. For those who have read our story, you can see we have been in a holding pattern for several years. I am okay with this and truly believe this is caused by general life getting in the way. Also, we just have not met the right guy.




I miss this forum and hope to write more often about our current situation.

Thanks
M

M- Good to see you post again.
As you have decided not to move in the HWing direction, what about sort of pseudoHWing. You and the wife go to a bar (well it doesn't have to be), separately. She is dressed semi sexy at least and open to getting hit on and collecting numbers, with some potential PDA. You take your time "hit" on her and take your prize home.

It’s good to be back with my old friends. My wife hasn’t rules Hotwifing out, in fact recently she has been showing more interest. If anyone has ideas on sites to send her to, she says she would like to research it some more. I have thought about trying to get her to this site and become verified. I know there are some really good people on here that may be able to answer her questions.

M - Good to know not only has she no ruled it out, she is willing to do some research.
Can I point out the obvious and say here. And once she gets verified as a woman, she would have access to the women's only forum. I think I have that correct.

[Mlghten]

She is signing up - waiting for the account to get authorized

[Swanilla]

What geographic area are you in?

Midwest

For the midwest, I'd recommend taking a look at LifestyleLounge.com. There are always really fun enents that are low pressure (especially meet-n-greets) to mingle with other open-minded people. We love the theme parties too... just go with no expectations and enjoy the sexy vibe to mingle.

[Her number1]

She is signing up - waiting for the account to get authorized

I'll pass that along!

[Mlghten]

What geographic area are you in?

Midwest

For the midwest, I'd recommend taking a look at LifestyleLounge.com. There are always really fun enents that are low pressure (especially meet-n-greets) to mingle with other open-minded people. We love the theme parties too... just go with no expectations and enjoy the sexy vibe to mingle.

Thanks for the info, I check it out.

[Mlghten]

She is signing up - waiting for the account to get authorized

I'll pass that along!

[4incheslong]

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[Remuss1]

Hi Mlghten!
I read all your story which is very interesting and exciting. I hope you will have the opportunity to watch her fucked by another man at least once.

[Mlghten]

Happy Monday friends. Wanted to provide a quick update as to what’s been going on with us. My wife has recently had an interest in learning more about the lifestyle. She has been talking with a few of the wonderful women on this site to get some insight into what this is all about. It’s been a little slow as she is not real great with technology.

In the mean time we have been having a great time together. Our alone time has been off the charts as of late. She seems to want more as time goes on. She has a strong desire to want to dress up and feel good about herself. I try to encourage this and promote her being more flirtatious while in the wild. I few weeks back, we were out a a bar with friends and she was approached by a few guys from a bachelor party. She had a few conversations with them and it was obvious to me, across the room that they were interested in her. We had a long conversation after that night followed by a hot evening.

We will see where this goes:)

BTW - Thanks to the women helping her

[Long Lurker 34]

Happy Monday friends. Wanted to provide a quick update as to what’s been going on with us. My wife has recently had an interest in learning more about the lifestyle. She has been talking with a few of the wonderful women on this site to get some insight into what this is all about. It’s been a little slow as she is not real great with technology.

In the mean time we have been having a great time together. Our alone time has been off the charts as of late. She seems to want more as time goes on. She has a strong desire to want to dress up and feel good about herself. I try to encourage this and promote her being more flirtatious while in the wild. I few weeks back, we were out a a bar with friends and she was approached by a few guys from a bachelor party. She had a few conversations with them it was obvious to me, across the room they were interested in her. We had a long conversation after that night followed by a hot evening.

We will see where this goes:)

BTW - Thanks to the women helping her

M- Nice post on the encouraging side of the scales. So did you have a good raunchy convo afterwards, ragging her about collecting some phone numbers at least.

[Mlghten]

Happy Monday friends. Wanted to provide a quick update as to what’s been going on with us. My wife has recently had an interest in learning more about the lifestyle. She has been talking with a few of the wonderful women on this site to get some insight into what this is all about. It’s been a little slow as she is not real great with technology.

In the mean time we have been having a great time together. Our alone time has been off the charts as of late. She seems to want more as time goes on. She has a strong desire to want to dress up and feel good about herself. I try to encourage this and promote her being more flirtatious while in the wild. I few weeks back, we were out a a bar with friends and she was approached by a few guys from a bachelor party. She had a few conversations with them it was obvious to me, across the room they were interested in her. We had a long conversation after that night followed by a hot evening.

We will see where this goes:)

BTW - Thanks to the women helping her

M- Nice post on the encouraging side of the scales. So did you have a good raunchy convo afterwards, ragging her about collecting some phone numbers at least.

Haha - we did have a great convo afterwards, followed by several nights of hot sex. I asked her what she would have done if one of them asked her to take a walk:). Yikes - great forplay talk.

[mastiff]

Glad to read that you haven’t given up

[iiijrc]

Mighten, Have you considered asking your wife if she might like to try a threesome with you?That way you would be with her which is something she seems to want.

[Mlghten]

Mighten, Have you considered asking your wife if she might like to try a threesome with you?That way you would be with her which is something she seems to want.

We have talked about it. At this point, she has not shown much interest in a threesome. She does like the idea of me being present. That just may because she feels safe with me being there.

I think it will depend on if she finds someone she is comfortable with.

[Mlghten]

Still here, hope to post an update soon. Happy Holidays to all my friends on here.

[Her number1]

Still here, hope to post an update soon. Happy Holidays to all my friends on here.

Happy holidays to you as well!

[Long Lurker 34]

Still here, hope to post an update soon. Happy Holidays to all my friends on here.

M - Excellent, looking forward to it. Best of the season.

[Mlghten]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

[Her number1]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

We're doing great!
And, I always enjoy your updates. It's the little things that are so important in this.
Anyone can post a fuck-story and call it real, but they seldom start out that way.

[bbarnsworth]

Mlghten, it's wonderful that you are showing so much patience. Getting into this lifestyle can never be about pressure. I know I absolutely wouldn't want my wife having sex with other men if she were doing it because I wanted her to. It's awesome because SHE wants it. Perhaps your wife will get there some day, perhaps not. It's all about the journey! Keep us posted!

[Farmgirl]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

Well, hellooo. Does your wife read any on the site? If she did, or if you read to her some of the posts/comments that you like, it could help her in adjusting to this.

[Mlghten]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

We're doing great!
And, I always enjoy your updates. It's the little things that are so important in this.
Anyone can post a fuck-story and call it real, but they seldom start out that way.

Thank you my friend and oh so true. We still have a great relationship and I appreciate all the sound advice on this site.

My wife and I talk all the time about the lifestyle and how close we have become since these discussions began. You know I have been at this a very long time. One big update is she has had discussions with her best friend about my desires and the lifestyle. Guess what, her friend and her husband are just like us. He wants to share her and she says she isn’t comfortable with it at this point. She did find out they went to some lifestyle resorts and loved it.

My wife definitely wants to go to a lifestyle resort but says she just wants to watch other people. Her favorite porn is those with the red room and swingers. We have a lot a fun in our room when watching it.

[Mlghten]

Mlghten, it's wonderful that you are showing so much patience. Getting into this lifestyle can never be about pressure. I know I absolutely wouldn't want my wife having sex with other men if she were doing it because I wanted her to. It's awesome because SHE wants it. Perhaps your wife will get there some day, perhaps not. It's all about the journey! Keep us posted!

Thank you, the journey has been wonderful and the biggest benefit has been the enhancement to our relationship. Thanks for following

[Mlghten]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

Well, hellooo. Does your wife read any on the site? If she did, or if you read to her some of the posts/comments that you like, it could help her in adjusting to this.

She hasn’t been on the site in a long time. She is horrible with technology, if this was all written in a book/magazine, she would probably be reading it daily, . She is an old soul. I do need to consider opening it up and reading it with her.

Great to hear from both of you.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hello to all my friends on here. No exciting updates. Wife and I still talk frequently about the lifestyle. She is not there yet. I say yet because I will never loose hope. It’s fun to just talk about. Hope all of you are well.

M

We're doing great!
And, I always enjoy your updates. It's the little things that are so important in this.
Anyone can post a fuck-story and call it real, but they seldom start out that way.

Thank you my friend and oh so true. We still have a great relationship and I appreciate all the sound advice on this site.

My wife and I talk all the time about the lifestyle and how close we have become since these discussions began. You know I have been at this a very long time. One big update is she has had discussions with her best friend about my desires and the lifestyle. Guess what, her friend and her husband are just like us. He wants to share her and she says she isn’t comfortable with it at this point. She did find out they went to some lifestyle resorts and loved it.

My wife definitely wants to go to a lifestyle resort but says she just wants to watch other people. Her favorite porn is those with the red room and swingers. We have a lot a fun in our room when watching it.

M - It seems to me that your wife and her GF both could have a wing woman and someone to talk too directly about HWing things. For that matter yourself and the other hubby.