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A New Revelation

Posted: Tue May 09, 2017 3:58 pm
by tit4atat
I recently was on a long business trip, actually two trips separated by only about 2 weeks home. Both were about a month so almost 2 total. For the past year I have been not mentioning the HW thing letting her do her own thing. She knows how exciting it is for me though when ever she shows any interest. Over the time away it was hard to communicate due to time zone issues and busy schedules. Despite all this she kept to herself and never mentioned being horny.

When I finally returned home, we almost went straight to the bedroom. This is not the norm as she is normally conservative and slow for things to heat up. Clearly she was really horny and I asked her if she played at all while I was gone. Her answer was "no, she didn't" which was no big surprise.

We start really getting into it and as I am fucking her she looks up at me and says, "I have a confession to make, I have a crush on a guy and I want to fuck him!" Wow, I was shocked. It has been almost 2 years since the last time anything even close to this has happened. Two years ago she flirted with a guy while we were on vacation and I ended up calling him to our room to chat with her. They ended up fucking but nothing too serious.

Curious I probed a little while trying to hold back my cum. "Who is it that you want to fuck?" She tells me the story and who it is but I have never met the guy as it stems from her work. Next I ask her if she would ever give me a blow job again and as expected her reply was "maybe someday but not any time soon, you know thats not my thing". Then I figure maybe I can tease her a bit so I ask her, "Would you suck this guys cock if you were together?" Without hesitation she admits, "of course, if I ever get a chance I would". Then pushing things a little further I asked if she would let him fuck her ass. Her reply to this was "probably not, that is only for you". Well I know better as I don't get that often. Perhaps once every 5 years. Even though she said no, I think she probably would give her ass to this guy she has a crush on. After all with the NRE I am sure she would do anything at this point to help get his cock in her pussy considering the way she explained it.

So what do you think will happen? Will she be bold enough to catch this crush of hers and get a good fuck? Well, it just so happens I am away on business again so all I can do is wait and see what she says. Will she tell me if there is any progress? I sure hope so!

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Wed May 10, 2017 12:49 am
by Mr1SexyGILF
Sorry to be so blunt, but this sounds like a recipe for disaster.

From what you have shared so far, it seems there could be a lot of room for improvement in the communication between you two.

Are you ready for her to fall head over heels in love with another man, and the possibility of her leaving you for him? It does happen.

Mr GILF

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Wed May 10, 2017 1:48 am
by Samanthasman
Hot story. What are your rules? Any updates?

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sat May 13, 2017 2:55 pm
by tit4atat
Mr1, thanks for the reply. Yes, there is always room for more communication. That is why I was so surprised she came out and fully stated without any reservations that she "wants to fuck this guy". We have been communicating a bit about this for years and had some experience before we got married. We were in distant cities and with my encouragement she slowly learned to bring guys back from the bars at night to her room. She shared all these encounters with me, there were about 12.

Since marriage she has turned away from that type of activity but now seems to have a desire. As I have seen many times on here where husbands push wives to play, it is always best when the wife knows she has the freedom and then finds an opportunity organically herself.

I am not really worried about her falling head over heals although there is always the possibility with or without this lifestyle. I did lose my first wife to such a situation where she cheated and fell head over heals so I have some experience with that. I believe my wife knows the boundaries and can keep it just fun as she has in the past. The guy she is interested in is also married so that also works to my favor too.

It was certainly a big thrill to hear her make such a statement after so many years. Clearly the seed has grown and always been in the back of her mind. She is still way more hesitant than I am however. Since she is a bit shy I doubt she will ever make a bold enough move on this guy to make anything progress.

Sam, I am just going to wait silently until she gives me another revelation. I won't push or beg for info and hope that she will let me know if there is ever a conversation with the guy. I know she doesn't want pressure so it might be a while or never before I hear any updates. For now I am just happy that she even mentioned her desires so up front.

As for rules, there are none. She always knows she has the green light for anything if I am there or not. I believe she prefers that I be at least a small part of anything she does or even be there to watch. She really currently needs something to boost her energy and confidence at the moment and I think this could be the ticket. Her work life and home life have been stressful for a while and I would love for her to have a distraction from it all.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sun May 14, 2017 9:20 am
by 54321
It is encouraging to learn that she has had previous experience.

I get the feeling though that she regards that experience as 'experimentation' or 'messing around'
which was only OK before the legitimacy of marriage (where this sort of thing never happens :lol: ).

It's important to tell her how much you love her whether she does this or not
and how, if she does it, your relationship will still be happy, stable and on track.

Also, it would be so much better if her first hotwifing adventures were conducted when
you are NOT out of town. You need to be there for her to come back to.
You need to take her back lovingly, to thank her for coming back to you,
to give her flowers and to reassure her that you love her unconditionally.

Communication, reassurance and love.

54321

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sun May 14, 2017 10:01 am
by zorro
Hmmm. Sounds familiar. Don't rule out the possibility that your wife has already fucked her co-worker while you were away. She may be feeling out if you are still okay with that before she lets the cat out of the bag.
Normally I caution about sex with co-workers: they are fraught with professional disaster. But she may well have already started and is trying to figure out how to share that information with you without risk of retribution.

Or perhaps her communication with you is better than it sounds to me and others. Maybe she is just opening up her fantasy interests. What raised my eyebrow is that that has not been her pattern to date.

Keep us informed as you learn more.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Mon May 15, 2017 3:48 pm
by tit4atat
54, Yes, I would love to be in town if anything happens so I am there to come home to and tell the details. I should be around more soon. So far there has been no further mention of it. Of course this is not the right time of the month though. She has started dressing different with more interest in how she looks. I agree, fooling around before marriage seemed to be easier for her for some reason. Not sure exactly what the reason is but probably guilty conscience.

Zorro, I don't think anything has happened to date and I think she would have told me most details if something had. She knows it excites me for her to have details to talk about and that I would be nothing but proud of her if she fucked the guy. I have had a previous wife go the cheating route while I was away on business so this would not be new to me either. When we were dating, all her play was continuously communicated with no hesitation so I wouldn't expect anything different now. As a matter of fact, when she told me she had a crush and wanted to fuck this guy, she said it in a way that told me she was proud to tell me something interesting is going on in her head. Normally if I ask her what she is thinking or her fantasy, she just says like most that she doesn't have any thoughts like that.

As for the co-worker I agree that it can get complicated. I said co-worker but that is not totally accurate. The guy is very distant from her job and not really related but does have some influence over her. It is very rare that he comes around to her place of business so it will take some doing on her part to convince him to make a special trip. He came around several times in a row and it seemed to her that maybe he stopped by to check her out. Still just a hunch on her part. Not a sure thing.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Mon May 15, 2017 8:21 pm
by Happyjohnson
Looking for ward to hearing the follow up on this story!

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri May 19, 2017 12:40 pm
by tit4atat
Still no new progress, but this weekend I will probe if she has made any contact with her crush. I also have one other small possibility brewing for her to have a chance to flirt with another guy before I return from a business trip.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri Jun 16, 2017 6:53 am
by Uncle Rico
Hi and congrats on your wifes progress.
I too have a few reservations. Sometimes its not what we say but how we say it. She says that she has a crush on him. This might imply some sort of emotional attachment. I would have rather heard "this guy is hot and I think I want to fuck him".
Her taking you to bed as soon as you got home could mean that she has been thinking about him a lot or that its already happened and she is trying to feel you out on it.
You said that you BELIEVE she knows the rules. Thats not good enough. You should sit down with her as soon as possible and reestablish them. All failures discussed here, on this web site, would seem to start with a lack of communication or understanding of just what the boundries are.
Dressing differently also gives me pause. Differently for who? If he only comes into town occasionaly, and she knows when, I would think it would only be on those days.
Having said that, he may have given her that boost you said she nèeded, in which case its a plus.
I think its great that she's told you what she has and sitting down and talking to her about the rules again is a good way to push your agenda without appearing to do so. But, from what you have told us about the recent developments, I get the impression that she is holding something back. I hope I'm wrong. Trust is too important to lose in any relationship.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri Oct 06, 2017 5:16 am
by tit4atat
There have been a lot of developments recently and I want to catch up with them here soon. Also I didn't want this string to fall off the chart as I want to keep building it as things progress.
In any case, she is still having a "crush" on the same guy but hasn't had the courage to move forward too much with him. She has had several more meet ups with him but always in the presence of others. She remarked the other day, "I can't believe I didn't come up with a plan to get him alone so I could get his number". Actually she has his number but needs to know if she can call it.

There are also developments with another guy. I'll fill in when I get some time.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri Oct 06, 2017 5:37 am
by tit4atat
Uncle, thanks for the comments.
She actually said, "I have a crush on this guy and I want to fuck him". I am not worried about the crush part. Yes, she might develop feelings but that is part of the excitement for her. She won't enjoy this whole process unless she has some level of feelings. We are a solid couple and do talk openly. I actually would rather her say she has a crush than just keep it under her breath. I think many woman would do that. Say "I want to fuck this guy" but leave out the fact that they really have a crush on him. I mean after all, why would a woman want to fuck a guy with no connection?

I notice a constant theme on here about rules. I notice many guys push their wives toward this lifestyle and then slap them when the smallest rule is broken. To me this shows disrespect and a need for control. I feel this lifestyle is more about giving freedom than controlling someone. If she ever fucks another man I want her to feel like she did it for herself and not just for someone trying to manipulate her every move and control the whole situation the way he wants it for his own pleasure. I think that is where a lot of men on here go wrong. Yes, both parties should get something out of it but face it, it can't always be about hubby's fetish.

Yes, she has been dressing differently and taking to exercising trying to tone up. Why? Certainly because she has a reason to impress someone, sure someone else, not me. However this is a good thing. She wants to gain the confidence she once had. Yes, this could be a sign that she is already doing something and in a normal marriage I would say very possible. However, she is open and willing sometimes to discuss her thoughts and desires. I know for sure, nothing has happened yet. Will it? Yes, for sure she is on that path. For years she didn't want to have much to do with fucking another man, but now she has a new confidence and excitement that she has opened up and says she really wants it. Oh, and not just the one she has a crush on. She has taken steps to actively look for others on her own. That was a huge shock when she said, "I went on a date today with a guy I chatted with on Match". She did some sort of free trial sign up and bam, went on a date. Granted just a date to go walking around a lake. I was really surprise she took the initiative to do this on her own. It was very exciting to hear what she had done while I was splashing around in her soaking wet pussy.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri Oct 06, 2017 6:53 am
by Wolf
I don't see rules as being a way to control someone. I see it as a way to protect the marriage, which should be a priority for all involved. We have a rule that my wife doesn't play when I am traveling for work. It's not something I feel comfortable with and would stress me out. If I'm working out of town and am stressed out and distracted by her playing at home it could negatively impact my job performance. That's not a good thing.

I can't say that what you are doing is good or bad, every couple is different. I don't see it as a good sign that she went on a date and you didn't know about it until after the fact. My wife and I would have communicated about all of her online chats and decided together if she should take the next step. That's how we play, but everyone is different. It's all about what works for you and your wife.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Fri Oct 06, 2017 11:17 am
by yielding william
tit4atat wrote:I recently was on a long business trip, actually two trips separated by only about 2 weeks home. Both were about a month so almost 2 total. For the past year I have been not mentioning the HW thing letting her do her own thing. She knows how exciting it is for me though when ever she shows any interest. Over the time away it was hard to communicate due to time zone issues and busy schedules. Despite all this she kept to herself and never mentioned being horny.

When I finally returned home, we almost went straight to the bedroom. This is not the norm as she is normally conservative and slow for things to heat up. Clearly she was really horny and I asked her if she played at all while I was gone. Her answer was "no, she didn't" which was no big surprise.

We start really getting into it and as I am fucking her she looks up at me and says, "I have a confession to make, I have a crush on a guy and I want to fuck him!" Wow, I was shocked. It has been almost 2 years since the last time anything even close to this has happened. Two years ago she flirted with a guy while we were on vacation and I ended up calling him to our room to chat with her. They ended up fucking but nothing too serious.

Curious I probed a little while trying to hold back my cum. "Who is it that you want to fuck?" She tells me the story and who it is but I have never met the guy as it stems from her work. Next I ask her if she would ever give me a blow job again and as expected her reply was "maybe someday but not any time soon, you know thats not my thing". Then I figure maybe I can tease her a bit so I ask her, "Would you suck this guys cock if you were together?" Without hesitation she admits, "of course, if I ever get a chance I would". Then pushing things a little further I asked if she would let him fuck her ass. Her reply to this was "probably not, that is only for you". Well I know better as I don't get that often. Perhaps once every 5 years. Even though she said no, I think she probably would give her ass to this guy she has a crush on. After all with the NRE I am sure she would do anything at this point to help get his cock in her pussy considering the way she explained it.

So what do you think will happen? Will she be bold enough to catch this crush of hers and get a good fuck? Well, it just so happens I am away on business again so all I can do is wait and see what she says. Will she tell me if there is any progress? I sure hope so!
Don't sweat her reluctance to give you oral sex. Most women are reluctant to do that with men they're long familiar with. With new guys, it's fun and commonly expected prior to fucking. As for whether she will fuck that guy or the next, she will eventually. With her attitude and your mutual agreement, it's just a matter of time.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sat Oct 14, 2017 7:04 am
by tit4atat
Update: So things have heated up a bit with one of her followers. Not the one she has a big crush on but one that she has been emailing regularly. She has even complained that he is moving too slow. Not getting free often enough to meet up and when together not advancing toward her fast enough. They did have a big conversation about sex the last meet up and both got hot and heavy but no major touching or kissing happened. Probably will next time thought.

She has been out of town for the last 2 weeks visiting family and I will leave on business the day after she gets back. My guess is that fairly soon she will be back on track where she left off. My trip will be long so she will have plenty of time to do what ever it is she wants to do. Just recently she sent me and email that she pasted all her conversations back and forth with the one guy.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2017 8:21 am
by tit4atat
Latest update: So two things have recently happened. First, she has been flirting a lot with the second guy. She went out on two or three dates with him while I was out of town. He was a gentleman every time and she was even saying she wished he would move faster and be more available. He always has a busy schedule and usually pushes dates out. When this happens she says that she will stop communicating with him but then always goes right back to it. I am out of town again for a lengthy work trip and she recently returned from her trip.

The last few days she has really stepped up the flirting and making it into sexting. She even text that "she was horny and wished he could splash around in my wet pussy tonight. Oh, I need a very hard dick. The reason I couldn't sleep yet and it is almost 1 am." She went on to explain that she has an empty house for the next 4 days and they could use that to their advantage. Then she said, "let me know what you can do?"

It looks like they are targeting Monday where he will get to have her in our marital bed if he doesn't come up with some lame work excuse. She text me the other night saying, "I am wondering if I really want to have sex with him, not sure". But then later in the day she heated up her text to him to even make it more clear what her expectations are. She really likes this guy as he is very friendly and nice and she is very comfortable with him. However the guy she has a big crush on is really her dream.

So the other thing that happened since she has been back from her trip and I have been away, she stepped it up a notch with the one she has the big crush on. To date they have only been professional but she can tell he has paid a lot of attention to her. He comes around at her work to check on things once in a while but clearly stayed much longer than needed on several occasions. Unfortunately there are always others in the room and she couldn’t make any type of move. This week she actually called him and told him that she had wanted to come up with an excuse like “oh you left …. Behind and run out to his car in the parking lot” this way outside she could ask if it would be ok to contact him or meet up for a coffee. She then asked if they could meet up sometime for coffee point blank. He did state that in his position they are not allowed to do this type of thing because he is in a position of authority and it could be interpreted the wrong way. Despite saying this he did say that, yes we should meet up sometime. He has clearly mad a point of trying to flirt with her over the past year also but in a very careful way. Of course working out both of their schedules to make that “sometime” work could be difficult. In any case she was beaming ear to ear with excitement that she had made a move. She really wants to fuck this guy. She is not sure why but says they have some sort of really good chemistry.

This week should be exciting to see what happens on both of these situations. Today she has been feeling bad like coming down with a cold. Hope she feels better tonight or that could ruin her playtime tomorrow!

If they do get together tomorrow and both enjoy it then I think they will be having many more to come as I am away for much longer than usual and our house is often empty now 4 days a week.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2017 4:46 pm
by tit4atat
Another new update:

The plan was that they would have the house to themselves Monday morning for their date. Previously she had no intentions of ever bringing him to our house. However this weekend she had sort of started to plan it that way. Then today, our roommate came back from a out of state trip also complicating the issue. She asked me what she should do. I basically told her to go on with the plan as is. If he is home and catches her then it would just be interesting to see what the roommate does about it. Would he tell me or keep it his and her secret? If he thinks bad of her for cheating (what he would think is happening) we basically wouldn't care.

Despite not being sure the other night, I just called to check in and she was at the parlor getting something done. The last time they had plans (that he ended up backing out of) she went to the parlor the day before and had her pussy freshly waxed. Not sure what she is doing today but clearly something to sweeten the deal if it goes down tomorrow.

It will be painful to be out of state and not be able to stay in touch. It may line up time wise that I can have some conversation here and there, like just before the date. We will see. Definitely a lot of excitement here!

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2017 5:55 am
by aussienerd
Great update, sounds like things are going very well.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2017 8:14 am
by jamorgan66
Exciting times

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2017 9:19 pm
by tit4atat
Update:

Well, it happened as planned. Her friend, let's call him D, came to our house as scheduled this morning. They went straight to the bedroom and started hugging and kissing. It didn't take long for them to end up in our marital bed fucking. She said his dick is larger and thicker and it felt good but he couldn't last long enough for her to cum. He has not had sex in years so all the build up was probably too much to control. Not to mention, she said her pussy was dripping wet when he finally pushed inside. I know myself when she gets that wet it is almost impossible to keep from shooting too soon.

Today my wife is at about her most fertile time of the month. She had condoms ready but he said he is fixed. They have shared enough time together for her to believe what he said as he is a good honest guy. Since my wife is not a fan of condoms she just went with it and took him bare. He came deep inside of her already dripping pussy.

At first she was nervous that he wouldn't send a message but I assured her he would. Sure enough this evening he sent some nice words about how he enjoyed her company. At the moment she is typing out her reply. There is no doubt that both want a repeat performance soon. Clearly the next time will be a lot easier and better as now much of the nerves have been calmed. She mentioned today that she would like this to be something like a once a month thing. I have a feeling it will be much more than that for a while.

So while talking about it she mentioned the guy she has the big crush on. Apparently after getting fucked in the morning, later in the day she got up the courage to call her crush and ask him out for coffee. It seems he was very interested and it probably will happen some time next week. She said she is now a sex maniac, is that good or bad?

Of course she wishes I was in town to come reclaim her. I must admit, I wish I was too. It would have been such an experience to be able to go right to the bed after D left and sink my now throbbing dick in that cream pie pussy. Something I have never experienced before but hopefully will one of these days soon!

We, like many other couples here have gone from the "never" to it actually happening...

I can't believe it all went down so smooth. It seems she really got a big "high" out of it. The slow developments with D took more than 6 months to develop. Partly because of time constraints and matching schedules and the like.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 2:04 am
by Mr1SexyGILF
Congratulations and Thank You for sharing this journey with us.

Mr GILF

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 6:19 am
by Mr ablondemilf
Great read! Thanks for sharing your adventure with us. Enjoy the ride! :D

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 7:21 am
by isinlarsa
Congratulations on your wife becoming a hotwife. Even though you weren't there to reclaim her, she did do it in your marital bed, which makes it just that much more savory. Maybe next time, you can take your place in your bed right after he leaves.

I think she is taking to the role of a hotwife with great enthusiasm, as indicated by her immediate desire to call another man. That should give you comfort that she is in it for the sex and not to get emotionally involved with another man. I'm glad for you that it went so well for the first time.

The fact that he has a big cock but didn't make her cum shows that size is not everything, but maybe he will be able to slow down the next time and give her a really good fucking.

Do you think she will be happy with just the two men, or will she be looking for more, now that she's taken the plunge?

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 7:55 pm
by tit4atat
One thing I have noticed in the last few days about this activity is that there seems to be a deep need to share this experience with someone. Sometimes I just want to blirt out to someone, "my wife just fucked another man today"

Yes, I can vent here but yikes, I can't talk to anyone I really know about it. I don't have a friend I can trust with this situation that would share my excitement. I don't think she does either. Perhaps that is one thing that tends to bring couples closer together when in the HW lifestyle. Since we can't talk to others we share ever detail and thought together. That brings a closeness of not only being husband/wife and lovers but also bing best friends that can share even the most intimate details without being critical of each other.

Face it, she thinks I am weird for letting her do this and even wanting it and also thinks she is weird for doing it also. Nothing like having someone so close like that in your life.

Re: A New Revelation

Posted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 8:24 pm
by tit4atat
isinlarsa, thanks for the comments.

Yes, she has taken to quite an unexpected enthusiasm immediately calling her crush (preferred suiter) and trying to get something going. Also yes, we already talked about some day having her lover take her and then I come in right after he leaves. This has been a long time dream as many others here have also. She said she didn't want a 3 some but wanted me to come right after. She likes to reserve something for me which may actually limit what she does with her lover. I won't be home for a while (a month) as I am out of town on business so she will have to wait for that to happen. Meanwhile I think she is content to fuck him more and get more comfortable where she can enjoy that big cock and cum with him. I am sure she will get to that point rater soon.

If she is lucky enough to get her main crush guy then she will be in heaven. Who know though, he may not be as good as her current bf. Oh, by the way, she has already referred to him as her bf. I think she really likes him and having fucked him now has amplified her feelings toward him. She is the kind of woman that needs to have deep feelings to get the most out of sex with a man. I can tell she feels sad if he doesn't contact her as soon as she expects which is rather often.

As for your last question, will she be happy with the two men? Hmm, I think if she was full on with both she would be content. However her crush is still uncertain and a long shot. This may be why she said tonight, "I should go to the bar and watch the World Series game". Unfortunately she was so tired from not getting enough sleep recently that she just couldn't make it. She watched from home and ended up falling asleep thru most of it. I wonder if the stress and build-up of finally meeting and fucking her new bf was the reason she was having trouble sleeping for the last week?? In any case it appears that as of today she is so hot that she wants to look for some more prey!