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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Sun Apr 29, 2018 5:17 pm

Just a little curious, This thread is at almost 30,000 views but only a few comments.
My wife always asks me about "our story" and if there are any comments. I usually read my posts to her.
That is about as far as her interest goes to the site but I can tell she get's disappointed when I say there are no comments.
Is this story just too routine to comment? I know pictures would help and she is starting to say "ok" to posting non face pics.
Only problem is the fact that you can't post in this thread so it sort of breaks things up.
I'll see what I can do.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Sun Apr 29, 2018 5:34 pm

woojolly18 wrote:My wife and I just started in February, so we don't have a lot of experience. IMO those are red flags waving furiously. Although we're new, this situation - feelings more than FB\FWB - is one of our guidelines for taking a pause and reassessing the situation. That being said, some guys like or want a situation like this to happen. If you aren't comfortable, beyond the regular anxiousness, then it might be time to call a time out.


woojolly18.

My wife is a big flirt so I don't read so much into her texts. If she really meant all of it she probably would't share them with me, right?
I do know what you mean though. We have talked about it a little and I know that just casual sex with a stranger doesn't do much for her. She needs a connection of some sort. I guess you could say, the stronger the connection, the more her enjoyment. Hence I don't want to be the KJ and kill her enjoyment. I believe she knows what she is doing.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by woojolly18 » Sun Apr 29, 2018 5:55 pm

tit4atat wrote:
woojolly18 wrote:My wife and I just started in February, so we don't have a lot of experience. IMO those are red flags waving furiously. Although we're new, this situation - feelings more than FB\FWB - is one of our guidelines for taking a pause and reassessing the situation. That being said, some guys like or want a situation like this to happen. If you aren't comfortable, beyond the regular anxiousness, then it might be time to call a time out.


woojolly18.

My wife is a big flirt so I don't read so much into her texts. If she really meant all of it she probably would't share them with me, right?
I do know what you mean though. We have talked about it a little and I know that just casual sex with a stranger doesn't do much for her. She needs a connection of some sort. I guess you could say, the stronger the connection, the more her enjoyment. Hence I don't want to be the KJ and kill her enjoyment. I believe she knows what she is doing.
You know your wife best, and I was pretty much responding to your prompt asking for thoughts. And I'm sure our rookie status in hotwifing had something to do with my reply.

Coincidentally, my wife also needs to have a connection and isn't one to just hop in the sack within minutes of meeting. Like you, I'm not worried she'll leave me for the guy she's sleeping with. Part of it is making sure we're overly cautious to avoid complications. Part of it is also to reduce the chances of her being hurt or having to deal with the emotions that could result from getting close and the relationship ending, for any of a multitude of reasons.

You two seem like you've figured out what works for you, so that's great. We're doing the same here.

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Mon Apr 30, 2018 1:54 pm

Latest text string with LG as of 4/30 so this was yesterdays texts

??? well, you have to do what you have to do

Her: My friend in Missouri called me when I was shopping and just wanted to chat with me. I talked to him for few min. He was crazy when I sent those pix. We haven’t talked on the phone for a while

Him: Haha. What pix did you send?
Her: He asks pix of me here and there just like you. the same as what i sent you.

Him: You like to keep a stable of men interested
Her: it wasn't very sexy but he got all excited
Him: You are a piece of work darlin.
Her: and you are too baby
Him: Thank u
Her: I could be very serious too
Him: I know.
Me too
Her: its just that we have just known each other for a week
Him: And we've had a few pretty good adventures
I don't know your real feelings for me!
Her: yes i agree
Him: You'll come to know me in time b
Mischievous
Playful
Harmless
all
Very fond of you
Her: proove it more baby!
Him: Ok.
Will do
Her: in action
Him: Can't you tell?
Her: I like it when a person really does what he needs to proove
Him: That I'm crazy about you
Her: I had one bad experience
Him: Just one!?
Her: i believed in everything he says and i got stuck here
Him: yes
Talking about hubby?
Her: yes because i had one affair only
my other bf
Her: got stuck for almost a year with him. So glad that's over!
Him: You like driving men crazy
Tempting them.
Her: not really
i like to be loved
Him: Hmm.
Her: i am not a game player baby
Him: I tell you I'm falling and you act like that's a concern
Son is asleep, sipping whiskey, smoking weed
You should join me
Her: no it isn't a concern, i appreciate it but also recalled you told me last time for the moment
Him: Listening to the greatest reggae you've ever heard.
could
I understand.
Her: can you tell me the title of the song i like that i asked you two times
Him: I know the song you're talking about. I'll figure it out.
Her: Going to bed now.
Him: You're falling for me.
Her: dunno
Him: Gonna be awesome
I do
Her: you keep saying that! don't play with my feelings baby
Him: I do like you and starting to miss you that's all i can say
Her: I miss you too.
Him: Goodnight sexy lady.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Mon Apr 30, 2018 2:52 pm

This was the text string of the other friend she was referring to in the string above.
If you have read the complete thread above, he is known as her 10 yr ex bf (Black) that she went to his hotel room
and got fucked twice by about 2 months ago.

Him: Wow! I was not ready!!!
I’m at the car wash when I opened these up. Did you take these or did the photographer?
I was running errands with my kid. The first thing I noticed in he pics was your hair. It looks good.

Her: No i took it today with my phone after washing my hair
How about the tits?
I had this hair when i met you!

Him: Maybe because it is just washed? Dunno. Looks good.
Tits look great. As always.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Mon Apr 30, 2018 3:07 pm

It seems something has really sparked in my sexy wife!

Things that have been mentioned recently:

1. She has been stepping it up with her 10 yr ex (BBC) and asking when he plans to come back to the area.
Stating that they should watch a basketball playoff game together.

2. Yesterday she went shopping and then was headed to the bar where she met a guy a while back that she really liked.
He claimed that was his hangout and since she didn't get a number, she has to just stop by and hope for the best. Unfortunately, life got in the way and she got a call from her daughter and had to change direction before she got there.

3. Discusted with her regular fb/bf and not been returning his email for a while. However says someday she will see him again. Although I think that may be over.

4. Really heating up with her newest flame LG. He's busy all this week and she is already lonely (although she is due menstruation tomorrow), hence the reason for looking for more attention.

Not sure what to make of all this. This is the woman that criticized me so much over the last few years about this whole HW thing. I think she is really starting to understand the benefits of it all now.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Mon Apr 30, 2018 6:24 pm

Hmm, here is another string of text between wife and LG from today.

Him: I am so hard right now
Her: oh?
Him: I want to fuck you every day.
Her: you have to find ways baby
do u hear me
Him: Yes, I want to fuck you at your house.
Her: will find time for that baby
Him: Can’t believe you sent a topless pic to another man. Naughty lady.
Her: He is my old friend. I told you about him and he lives in another state.
Nothing to worry!
Him: Not worried. Driving now
Her: Love you baby!
Him: I love you too.
Her: are we crazy in love?
Him: Seems like it.


Very interesting. She said she was going to step up her game and tease him. Not sure who is teasing who??
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Wed May 02, 2018 6:07 pm

Do any other hot wives use the "L" word with their lovers?
Just curious.
Any experience on this?
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by youngkscouple » Thu May 03, 2018 1:09 pm

Just now discovered this thread but it is easily my new favorite. Man I am sorry you haven't gotten as many comments and encouragement as you and L would like, because you both really deserve them. You have a great way of describing the situations so well and I love the text transcripts too!

I will say, this feels like it's going in somewhat of a cuckold direction. That isn't a bad thing at all, and I could be totally wrong too. I have always kind of felt like a hot wife scenario becomes a cuckold one when the wife begins to form a real ongoing relationship with loving feelings involved. Like more than a casual BF or FB. It feels like that might be what she really wants here but is maybe afraid to have? A second man whom she can not just fuck but genuinely love and share feelings for when you aren't around, or even share when you are around. A lot of husband's like that, seeing their wives take it to that next level. How do you feel about sharing her to that degree? About the prospect of her giving her heart to someone else fully when they are together, then embracing you as well when she returns to you? Does that notion excited you?

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Thu May 03, 2018 6:30 pm

young: Glad you enjoy how this has progressed. So far it has been nice for both of us.

I don't really feel like it is cuckold but then again everyone defines that differently. I guess by the classic definition it is.
She said she will step up her game and tease LG, her newest bf a lot. It's always hard to tell from the text what is teasing and what could be real.
I know she needs connection with a guy to have sex. She is not so into one night stands. I can understand that.
Basically I am letting her chart her territory and decide what she wants out of this. In no way do I want to try to control every move she makes.
I generally go by "no rules" . She knows what she is doing.

I'm now sure if she wants to genuinely love another man but who wouldn't really given the chance.
Adds so much more excitement and enjoyment in the long run for her.
As for most of us, yes it excites me and of course it shows clearly the level of love in our relationship. If she goes too deep, can I win her back??
That is of course exciting. Taking things to the limit and back. Only time will tell how the hearts play out.
Everything excites me! I think her also at this point.

By the way, she has been frustrated this week at the lack of communication from LG. This is week with kid and has many obligations. She still wants "her time" with him.

I'll past in the most recent text. She said, "boring" about them recently.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Thu May 03, 2018 6:40 pm

Since at least youngkscouple liked reading the daily text messages I will include more. Yesterday and today were fairly light and not too exciting.
Her exact words, "boring"

Her: Good morning baby!
why are not texting me back???
Him: Good morning. Scrambling to get Austin to school and left without my phone.
Her; I am home now baby!
Him: I just got son. Heading to the rink
Busy day
How was your?
Her: very busy and still doing work stuff at home
I need you baby!
Him: Mmm. Soon. Need you too
Mmm. I have to drive now. Will text you when I get to rink.
Her: have you taken your cat to the vet?
Him: We tried but she went berserk when we tried to get her in the crate.
Her: How is it going there?
Him: Driving hone
Him: Hi. Home now. About to go to bed.
Her: still early baby
Him: Have to get up at 5:00
Her: well have a good night
Him: You too.
Her: you sounded really tired
couldn’t feel your sweetness!
Him: Sorry. Just busy and in my dad world.
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Re: A New Revelation

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Then today 5/3

Her: Hopefully you had some good sleep. Good morning
Him: Good morning. Yes got good sleep. Up at 5:00 and at the rink at 6:00. Just dropped off at school. Com call in 3
Her: What Com ???
Him: Conference
Her: i see. have you been thinking about me?
Him: Hi. Just walk in the door. How was your day? Yes I do!
Her: had a long day. worked 9 hours without lunch break! just eating my lunch right now!
yours?
Him: Very busy. Exhausted. Hockey game coming up soon. Cooking dinner. Hope to relax soon.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Thu May 03, 2018 6:49 pm

Wife likes a lot of attention and for a few days has not been getting enough. I guess I don't count, haha.
For the most part I can't give her too much anyway as I am 2 time zones over.

She has hinted about going to look for "bar guy" again or text him. He never replied after their last tiff. Hence probably the only way to contact him would be to go to the bar. She says she wouldn't do that unless I take her there. Also hinted about going to look for a once met crush and some other possibilities. Seems every day the long work hours get her too tired by the time "free time" comes around. Not too mention this week is solid menstruation week.

Things might heat up around weekend time.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Fri May 04, 2018 7:54 pm

Todays text with LG, Friday 5/4

Her Hi! Did hockey team win? Fell asleep early last night.
him Hi. Yes they won 4-0
her how's dad's world going???
him Haha. Scrambling to get my son fed, dressed, lunch ready and out the door. Now back to work.
her Just got home, worked an hour less today. Are you still working?
him Driving to rink
her work has been eating me up! Need a long break...
him I know it has. Hopefully relief when new teachers start
If I could!
her I only have one and not cleared yet with her criminal background check. Don't know when she can start. It has been a tough week! Just wanted to get out of USA!!!
wish i could just hide whenever I don't wanna face the world!
him Forgive me for asking, is the urge to leave USA something that occurs monthly?
her Not really! only when I'm feeling so down!
That's why i said if i could! Not easy as I have obligations!
not as simple as I hoped for!
him Sorry you're feeling down.
her You don't have to feel sorry. I'll be ok. Probably just missing hubby and you! lol
Is son playing?
him You do get lonely. Practicing. He has tryouts next week for AA
her Yes I do.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Fri May 04, 2018 8:04 pm

So just now I notice on security camera that wifey went out on the town (friday night)
She took shower and got dressed up.
Then she just called me from downtown (am out of town on business) and asked,
"what's the name of that bar on the corner"
She is clearly looking for another something to keep her busy.
The place she is at now was quite busy a week and a few days ago when she went there with bf LG.


Can anyone make sense of some of her texts? Not sure what she is implying??
Can't tell what is going thru her mind??
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by youngkscouple » Fri May 04, 2018 8:52 pm

Sounds like she is just trying to keep the communication going until she can see him again, to connect with him a bit more beyond just sex. Seems pretty normal to me. I'm not reading into any of it.

By the way, is she sending you these transcripts or do you have a way of tracking them yourself?

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Sat May 05, 2018 7:47 pm

Latest texts from 5/4 evening and 5/5 morning.

Him Drive over to my house
Her are you serious?you could have picked me up on your way home.


Her i can’t drive up there esp at night.
Him Maybe I should come visit you at your place.
Her Yes one of these days but have to be in the afternoon when my daughter is at work.
if you’re ok with that!
Him I could make my way over to you tonight
Her Kind of late and you must be exhausted and also still have my period. Wouldn’t be fun for you.
Him Wouldn’t mind spending my night with you.


Her Have you fallen asleep?
Him Yes I fell asleep
Her I see!
we can plan something next week if you want. Hubby won't be back yet.
Him Sounds good. I look forward to seeing you.
Her I really miss your kisses and the way you make love!
Him I miss you too.
I wish you liked being eaten out.
Her yeah I know Needs a lot of practice
You can help me with thAt
Him I don't mind practicing.
Her is that your favorite thing?
Him I like to please.
Usually that's a pleaser.
Her i know but you have pleased me in so many ways!
Him Awe Shucks.
Her and you drive me crazy
Him You were half crazy when I met you I
Her now a whole lot crazy!
Him Gonna steal you away.
Her you already did!
Him Wow!! Congrats to me.
Her You arr so much fun to be around!
Him Come stay w me for a few days.
yes! I am not kidding
Her and how am i going to work?
Him You'll have to learn to drive the hill.
You can do it
Her it will take me more than an hour to get to work.
Him Prolly not. N
Her work in xxxxx
Him Yeah your probably right.
I'll come stay with you.
Her and my daughter??? just like you i have my daughter who still lives with me
like your place, it's very therapeutic
Him Yes it is.
It probably won't take you more than 45 to get to work
Her that's the place i need to be at right now
i don't think so!
i can't drive up on the hill
any plans for tomorrow?
Him Early soccer game then home to work in yard. Then dinner w a couple who is separating after 25 years.
Her wow! after 25 years...
Him Yeah I know.
Her there's no certainty in marriage
seems like things fall apart overtime
Him Even the best relationships are complicated.
Her Yes I know!
Him Really?! How would you know?
Her experience and friends telling me
Her I am going to sleep now. Catch up tomorrow. Maybe you can pick me up after your dinner.
Him Gonna go to sleep now
Haha
Her why laugh
Him Because we were both texting that we are going to bed
coincidence
Goodnight sexy lady. I can't wAit to fill you up again.

Her Good night too!


Good morning sexy lady
Hi Good Morning! just woke up and preparing breakfast for daughter and myself. Did you just get back from soccer?
No. About to head out.
ok
did you dream about me last night
I’m dreaming about being inside you right now.
yeah me too. woke up a bit early and horny!
I’ve already stolen you away?
yes for the most part!
Mmm. I want you so bad right now
should you be haeding now
Yes. I’m heading out in about 10 minutes. Back to dad world.
Wish you’ve picked me up last night
we could have been sleeping together
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Sat May 05, 2018 7:50 pm

youngkscouple wrote:Sounds like she is just trying to keep the communication going until she can see him again, to connect with him a bit more beyond just sex. Seems pretty normal to me. I'm not reading into any of it.

By the way, is she sending you these transcripts or do you have a way of tracking them yourself?

She sends them to me. As you can see she openly sends all texts to me. I really didn't ask for them but like to see them. There are some interesting things bouncing back and forth.

She asks often if the readers like the story and if there are any comments. Usually I have to say, "no, no comments" Thanks for the interest!
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by youngkscouple » Sat May 05, 2018 9:04 pm

It's tough to share your story here and get no response, despite knowing there are literally hundreds, if not waaay more people eagerly reading your words. I know that's discouraging, I've been there back when my wife and I played with others close to a decade ago. (We're both mid-thirties now). That's why I started chiming in. I'm usually a lurker but I didn't want you going so long with so few comments encouraging you on!

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by woojolly18 » Sun May 06, 2018 9:43 am

tit4atat wrote:She asks often if the readers like the story and if there are any comments. Usually I have to say, "no, no comments" Thanks for the interest!
My perspective is, I haven't commented much on the forums and probably won't be a frequent commenter. That being said, I left a reply when you asked for thoughts a few days ago, but the story you've been posting doesn't have a lot to comment about. It's interesting to you because it's your relationship. The majority is general conversation between two people talking lovey dovey.

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by youngkscouple » Tue May 08, 2018 12:40 pm

Yeah I like the convocation stuff, but to each their own. I just hope your wife can find some additional excitement from sharing!

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Wed May 09, 2018 3:11 pm

Here are the latest developments. First, I will arrive back home Thursday after a long stretch of work travel.

Last weekend wifey was going crazy. She had all this time and her bf, LG totally ignored her. Sunday he said he needed a recharge day because he had been so busy for the whole week. She lost a lot of interest in him that he will have to work hard for to get back. She felt really rejected. They had all this talk before about him coming over to our house but then nothing on his end.

I think just today things started warming up again by text but still not back to the level it was. Wonder what happened after he was chasing so hard for a week or two.

In any case maybe I can reap the benefits from the fact that she has been so lonely and didn't get satisfied recently.
At least that is my hope. I have a feeling if things keep developing that she will see him even if I am there. Perhaps special arrangements will have to be made to accommodate such a case. We will see.
I am open to her going out when I am there.

Needless to say there were not a lot of spicy texts going back and forth but seems last night or today that has changed. She hasn't sent me anything yet. Last night she went to a NBA semi final game by herself. Again frustrated that with all these men around she still didn't have anyone to accompany her to the game.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Mon May 14, 2018 12:59 pm

Finally got home and enjoy come reclaim time. I asked her if she wanted to see her bf this last weekend if he had free time. Looks like he arranged his weekend to keep busy because he knew I was home.

BBF has been stepping up the heat a bit and chatting more. Hmm, wonder if a visit from out of state is in the works soon?

We went to the club where the bf she dumped hangs out. Turns out he left just before we got there. A lot of his friends saw wife and some talked to her so clearly he will know she was there.
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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by FilthyLondoncpl » Sun May 20, 2018 1:55 pm

Loving this story, the best posts are the ones that are clearly real where we can read the developments as they happen....keep going and hope your wife gets the satisfaction she deserves soon. Bookmarked.

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Re: A New Revelation

Unread post by tit4atat » Tue May 29, 2018 11:52 pm

Filthy, thanks for the comment.

Sorry to be off line so long but was out of the country on business for a while. Needless to say there have been developments to report and I will try to get time to type out a summary of where things are since my last post.
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