Would you / Do you play at home

[sextiescouple]

I’m wondering how many hotwives would invite their friend over to their own home and have a playdate. This assumes of course, that it’s safe: i.e., no kids, no other significant problems like a chance of the mother-in-law walking in and discovering you romping around.

Please give only one answer.

Hot-husbands, feel free to put your two cents in if you’re sure how your wife feels.

And, of course, giving detailed comments will be greatly appreciated.

[jw_kk]

We used to have a "rule" to never play at home... that fell by the wayside, for a variety of reasons. We no longer have kids at home, so that's not a problem.

Of many concerns, one was safety/stalker related - if we had an encounter go bad, or a clingy guy, having him know where we lived was something we considered a problem. Another was discretion - we didn't want neighbors to become aware of our lifestyle.

Since we've been doing this, that "rule" went away, without any negative consequences. We've had no issues with the stalker/clingy guy, and we long ago decided that any neighbor that got interested in our activities was something we could enjoy out of "naughtiness."

[sextiescouple]

We never had any problems with my ex playing at home. In fact, that was preferred.

Often we'd set up a meet at a local bar, and if Mary liked him, we'd invite him home. Sometimes Mary would entertain a gentleman by herself (always someone we knew and she felt safe with.)

We never worried too much about the neighbors. What are they going to do, gossip about us? (Like we weren't already the pariahs of the neighborhood.) Since the kids were long gone by the time we got around to hotwifing, that wasn't any problem at all.

My current girlfriend and I are trying to start up MFM threesomes, we plan on meeting the gentlemen nearby and if she likes them, bringing them back to my apartment.

[Her number1]

Farmgirl only plays at home with guys we know so, there is no safety issue. And it doesn't happen all that often. Most of the time there is too much chance of other people coming by (family, friends, ect.)
But, neither of us have a problem with it if its the right person.

[CoupleRendevousMhalf]

Large majority of the time it is at our home, we are set up to meet and entertain here.

Our only issue is a neighbor across the way tends feels feels she knows us well enough to just knock and walk in. Lee has to remember to lock the door if she entertains whil I'm away. Once when I was home and Lee and her lover were upstairs enjoying themselves and the door bell rung with our neighbor standing at the door. I had to my friend was there to help with my pond pump and Lee was upstairs napping. When I told her she was napping she said Napping and looked at me odd. I said yep and my friend is in the backyard waiting on me so I had to go. I still wonder if she knows or at least suspects.

[metrohotwife]

Yes we play at home regularly..we have trusted "friends "staying overnight and sometimes weekends .Our place is fairly isolated. So no prob with neighbors.

[up2her]

Wish it could be at home, but can't see that as a realistic option. Hotels every time. We are a HW/Stag couple, so it is almost always us together meeting the guys. I leave the room quite a bit, if we are already comfortable with them. Planning some solo play time, but she doesn't play whenever, wherever, whomever like some ladies in the lifestyle. So, we don't even go to someone else's place. I'm a paranoid guy I guess. Judging by how hard some previous one-time play mates have pressed and prodded for another chance, I think I'm correct for my concern. We have no room for drama in our regular life together. So, we plan for discretion. Over time with the same guy, we get slightly looser with the rules, but ever mindful of the potential for a stalker.

[oldgeneroushot]

We have RARELY played at our house as discretion is very important to us! Sons are grown and gone but have lived in the same house over 20 years with neighbors we consider friends who have no idea! And Nellie prefers dating young black men who would definitely be noticed in our neighborhood! She spends weekends with BFs in San Antonio which is about 2 hours from us! To date, we are not aware of her being spotted! That said, there have been 2 occasions that she has brought BFs home for the weekend but had great cover stories each time and took them out in public with our friends and us! One was actually on Easter and he went to church with us! Half the church ladies were hitting on Nellie's friend! LOL Have to say, those weekends were the hottest ever! Something about them using our bed, our kitchen counter, etc!

[AZStag]

Never.

Ever.

[two4fun]

Friday afternoon is supposed to be our first time doing this. I'll be at work.

[aglee]

Nearly all my play is done here at home.

Annie

[c_takeme]

Hi
We've converted a garage that is across a private garden courtyard into an 'entertainment lounge' to play in. It is like a small flat. Really big bed, one antique and one very modern chaise lounge, plenty of alcohol and snacks as well as bathroom and big open shower. I also keep a selection of sexy outfits - to change in and out of with my playmates!

So, I guess technically we are at home, but we save our marital bed for Steve and I only.

Kisses
C

[JMNBABE]

Wife actually prefers being at home with Lovers, but not with me there. She says she's "not a porno star", so her liasons are affairs, usually with guys who don't know I know.....and a few of them I did not know initially.

CW

[tosaintsfan]

So far never played anywhere but home. Like others, we meet at the local bar and if there is a connection it's back home. Never had any issues with neighbors that I know of but when I go to the pub by myself I get some odd stares.

TO

[txhwhubby]

My wife prefers to play at home. We converted a bedroom into her personal hotwife room. Our new house will have an even more elaborate hotwife room.

[isinlarsa]

We started with her bringing men home. For me it added to the thrill that my wife was getting her married pussy fucked in our marital bed. It sometimes made the guy nervous though.

[old folks]

We might if we knew the person very well. Neither of us want stalkers, thieves or druggies knowing where we live. We damn sure do not want someone knocking on the door at all hours wanting to play.

[zorro]

We almost always played together, but on those rare exceptions it has been at our own home.

[calicolombia69]

We have RARELY played at our house as discretion is very important to us! Sons are grown and gone but have lived in the same house over 20 years with neighbors we consider friends who have no idea! And Nellie prefers dating young black men who would definitely be noticed in our neighborhood! She spends weekends with BFs in San Antonio which is about 2 hours from us! To date, we are not aware of her being spotted! That said, there have been 2 occasions that she has brought BFs home for the weekend but had great cover stories each time and took them out in public with our friends and us! One was actually on Easter and he went to church with us! Half the church ladies were hitting on Nellie's friend! LOL Have to say, those weekends were the hottest ever! Something about them using our bed, our kitchen counter, etc!

I laughed at your post! Similar stories. Twice had black guys who turned heads in our upscale "hood" They were actually friends of our eldest son and took a liking to their friends "mom" -ie my wife.... so there was a good excuse for them hanging around the house

[hotmom_ma]

My response doesn't fit any of them. I think I picked the 'if SO is home' because that is required for anyone new --but honestly we don't usually play at home.
Early on we had a couple of people here (after meeting elsewhere) but then decided not to.
The only exception is my long-term lover/bull who does come here. BUT we have seen him for 3+ years, and he works nights so it is often late-night after neighbors have gone to bed etc.

[subrickguy]

We always play at home. Sometimes I go into another room while they fuck. Sometimes my wife wants me to join in. She always wants me to eat the cream pie and clean him up. If I am in another room, she calls me in to do my duty. I have learned my place and gladly do it. After he leaves, we have hot sex together. It works for us.

[radio4ron]

We've always played at home, and my wife's insistent on me always remaining in the room. Of course it's a long road making sure we are dealing with good quality men before we allow them in our home to have sex with her.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

So far my wife has had one guy over to play at our house one time. She liked it. (I think it made her less nervous playing at home.)

I expect the guy to come over a few times a month. We aren't friends with any of our neighbors, so we don't really care what they think.

My wife asked me to leave while he was at out house. Though she indicated she might allow me to meet him if she starts doing more non-romantic activities together with him, since they have some non-sexual interests in common, so they might become real friends instead of just lovers.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

So far my wife has had one guy over to play at our house one time. She liked it. (I think it made her less nervous playing at home.)

I expect the guy to come over a few times a month. We aren't friends with any of our neighbors, so we don't really care what they think.

My wife asked me to leave while he was at our house. Though she indicated she might allow me to meet him if she starts doing more non-romantic activities together with him, since they have some non-sexual interests in common, so they might become real friends instead of just lovers.

[DedicatedHubby2013]

So far my wife has had one guy over to play at our house one time. She liked it. (I think it made her less nervous playing at home.)

I expect the guy to come over a few times a month. We aren't friends with any of our neighbors, so we don't really care what they think.

My wife asked me to leave while he was at our house. Though she indicated she might allow me to meet him if she starts doing more non-sexual activities together with him, since they have some non-sexual interests in common, so they might become real friends instead of just lovers.