Do you insert his penis into your wife?

[WimJansen]

A bit biased list of answers. I never use my mouth, or hold longer than necessary. I just help when I see he is struggling a bit to get it in position. Not when she asks and I don't go out of my way. For me it is just practical, same like getting a glass of water for him. Or a towel (or two). Or hand her the oil or condom.

No answer is right for me, all 4 make a big deal out of it and we don't.

[metrohusband]

No, I've never done this, Beth has never asked me to.
She has always said that she prefers to think of her men as taking her, rather than her being given to them, so I don't think it's likely to happen. Besides, she knows how it turns me on to watch a guy grasp his Dick and push it into her .
That said, however, , she has done it for me(without being asked) putting me into other women's mouths and pussies whilst kissing me deeply and I know how erotic it felt for me for her to do so. (For her also, as 2 of them were her partners in well established girl/girl relationships)
As we are in this together, for each other's benefit , if she asked, I would reciprocate, even if I felt uncomfortable with the situation. That would be up for discussion between us afterwards.

If it was a guy trying to put one over on me and telling me to do it I would tell him to fuck off.!!
Each to their own I guess, if you enjoy it, do it.

[Jeff111]

MetroH, this may be slightly off topic, but given your response of what you'd tell a guy to do.... Donyou consider yourself cuckold at all? (I wasn't suggesting either way).

[ArizonaGuy]

HW's FB had me put his cock in my wife's pussy. Had no issues and looking forward to doing again.

[metrohusband]

MetroH, this may be slightly off topic, but given your response of what you'd tell a guy to do.... Donyou consider yourself cuckold at all? (I wasn't suggesting either way).

Jeff No offence taken in any way at your question., What I was trying to get across here is the fact that if Beth asked me, because as I say we are in this together I would do it.
But if it was the guys idea then I wouldn't, because Beth might not want me to, and also because , For me, it would be as if the guy was telling me.... then I would be playing by his rules. I have always adopted the adage of, "my wife, my rules". I don't wish this to sound like a commercial but you will understand why if you read our story in the library,,, I think it's in the upcoming chapter.Which will probably post over the weekend.
Regarding the cuckold question. If I may, I would like to point you to a post I have just made in the "who doesn't eat cream pies and are you thinking about it" thread which will explain my thoughts on this. It's currently on this page in the hot wife section.

[jamorgan66]

I'd love to have the opportunity !

[Rogonosets]

Buffy was fucking an old friend of mine from behind while I was under her in the 69 position. His dick came out, and I grabbed it to put it back in her pussy. I also managed to give his dick a few flicks with my tongue. He didn't seem to mind.

[Dzs1653]

Buffy was fucking an old friend of mine from behind while I was under her in the 69 position. His dick came out, and I grabbed it to put it back in her pussy. I also managed to give his dick a few flicks with my tongue. He didn't seem to mind.

This is a recent fantasy of mine, though I've never done it. Also, of one of us licking or sucking her clit while the other was fucking her. We'd need to be okay with the obvious proximity, of course.

[mrhotwifejen]

Voting as a wannabe here, but only when she asks would be my inclination.

[69fipflop]

Voting as a wannabe here, but only when she asks would be my inclination.

Doing it for your lady sounds the right way to go!!!

[Gasyjack]

ı would love to.
also I thought it is not gay thing.
if I would with a man alone so this is gay thing but ıf I hold bulls cock for my wife this isdifferent

jack

[Dzs1653]

I don't think it matters whether someone considers it a gay thing, a bi thing, a beta thing, or whatever. Do we really need to classify everything? I think what matters is that all parties enjoy whatever it is. And yes, I have fantasized doing things like this (but not done them).
-- D

[Luv2watchher]

I always let the BF put his cock into her, but I have often held her labia open for him. The moment of penetration is always very erotic. My wife always moans as she receives it.

[ErikaPeter]

I now play alone, but my husband used to watch in the past. On one of my first occasions, my partner asked my husband to guide his cock into me. My husband was quite willing and found it hot. Other partners have done the same, and my husband has volunteered to do it even when not asked. I don’t think that it is gay. My husband just enjoyed helping another man penetrate me. It was all part of the cuckold experience.

[Jack_and_Kate]

We are still a fantasy only couple but have discussed this very act in detail while playing and it turns us both on very much. It will definitely happen the first time we actually share her, we've decided. This way we both play a physical part in this initial step, into the sharing/hotwife lifestyle.

[Silverrider]

We are still a fantasy only couple but have discussed this very act in detail while playing and it turns us both on very much. It will definitely happen the first time we actually share her, we've decided. This way we both play a physical part in this initial step, into the sharing/hotwife lifestyle.

Just make sure you share that info with the gentleman who joins you prior to attempting it. If he’s not ok with it or is surprised, it might be just a tad awkward.

[2inUPMichigan]

Maybe a lot of the issues in the thread back and forth could have been avoided if there was simply another option such as:

"I have no interest in inserting his penis into my wife"

Since no option was given for those that are not interested you will probably continue to read a lot of back and forth.

[petey boy]

In my case, SIR usually enjoys me sucking him hard then slip-it into Beth. If he takes her doggie i usually rim his ass
or suck his balls. After he cums in her or on her i usually suck and lick him clean then as they kiss i eat her clean.

[Absanon]

I don't want to turn the thread away from the O.P.'s specific question so I'll try to be brief. If others object, I'll delete this and move it to another thread.

For me, cuckolding (as used on this website) involves viewing the husband as being less worthy in some way than the lover. Because of his perceived inadequacies, his sexual access to the woman might be limited or denied altogether. In the extreme, his wife and/or her lover(s) might mock the husband. In other words, it isn't about the husband's abilities, size, or particular actions bur rather how the wife views the husband, and how he views himself. But rather than mind being viewed as less than the lover, the cuckold takes pleasure in it.

Feel free to critique the above definition. But if it's accurate, then I don't believe that a husband directing the lover's penis in the hotwife makes the husband a cuckold. The husband is simply engaging in an activity that gives his wife pleasure. In my view it's in the same category as finding the hotwife a lover, or stripping her for her lover, or tasting the results of their sex.

Of course, if the wife or the lover mock the husband for engaging in any of these actions, then yes we would have a cuckold situation.

I totally agree with you and your definition of a cuckold!

It must have been so hot to realize that your wife wanted you to put her lover's cock into her. In a way, it is the ultimate act of giving your wife to another man -- and she wanted you to do it. Can you describe how you felt?

That's how I personally feel about it! I've done it only once, out of the blue as I'm very obsessed about that moment of the first penetration. The moment the cock head enters between the pussy lips and you feel that soft 'POP' when he gets inside.
I wanted to see this from close by, and although i'm not a cuckold in the here-above written definition I actually wanted to be the one that put his cock inside her. I'm the dominant one and she's the submissive one so I guess doing that would be the act of giving her away like a slut wife.

Other than this I have had no bi-sexual experiences or desires. Even sloppy seconds disgust me

[Dzs1653]

I too was taken aback by the suggestion that the subject of this thread is inherently a cuckold thing. The trouble is that the word has had many different meanings over the years. But if we adopt what seems to be a "current" definition pretty much along the lines of what Irwinhill posted, then we shouldn't assume that just because a man would like to do this, that means he wants to be (let alone would tolerate being) humiliated, demeaned, considered "less", or placed in a submissive role. Nothing against those who do choose this, of course.

[isinlarsa]

I too was taken aback by the suggestion that the subject of this thread is inherently a cuckold thing. The trouble is that the word has had many different meanings over the years. But if we adopt what seems to be a "current" definition pretty much along the lines of what Irwinhill posted, then we shouldn't assume that just because a man would like to do this, that means he wants to be (let alone would tolerate being) humiliated, demeaned, considered "less", or placed in a submissive role. Nothing against those who do choose this, of course.

I agree that it doesn't necessarily mean the husband wants to be humiliated, demeaned or submissive. In a sense, it can be seen as asserting control -- using the other man's cock as a sex toy to please your wife. I would love to rub his cock against her vagina and clit, getting her very aroused until she's begging me to let him fuck her. After that, I would enjoy the visual of my wife getting fucked by another man. The best porn ever!

[annsman]

I thought I’d posted this before, so probably on another thread.

Ann and I were sitting on the settee with her boyfriend knneling on the floor between her feet. He was just about to enter her when she asked me to “put it in”. I could see she was seriously tuned on and desperate for him to have her and she pleaded with me “please”. I’d never touched another man before and had no interest in it, but I looked at him and he just shrugged his shoulders so I held her lips open and guided his cock into her.

It was weird holding him, nothing like holding my own cock. The turn on wa putting in her her and not actually holding him.

[Dzs1653]

,,, The turn on was putting in her her and not actually holding him.

I envy you, as I've never been in this situation. But if I were, I'm sure the biggest turn-on for me would be the fact that I was doing something which, for whatever reason, was a big turn-on for her.

[Suitandtiebull]

I've had quite a few hubbies insert me--and I like to add the twist of having them kiss the head. A blessing, of sorts.

It's usually after I notice he's particularly attentive to my cock that I invite him over (or whisper for her to tell him). The inserting can be somewhat of a surprise but when I tell him to kiss it at the last second...I always watch her expression, it's always very very hot.

[manmuscle]

Every chance that I get. Especially if I get to fluff him to raging hard with her assistance.

It is not a gay or cuck thing, it is just hot.

Even better, clean his cock via a BJ after he has filled her up with his cum. This lets her enjoy being full and start to leak out. Then I eat my creampie.