Why am I finding this date with Joe like the hottest thing?
I know, right? I am going out with him tonight, and I am as nervous as when I first saw Ted. Joe and I are texting, and it's pretty erotic that I might get a new FB. It's dinner and a comedy show. There is no expectation of sex, but I do have the key to Ted's place, and he won't be home. So I have that option to take this further.
My question is does your husband know that your now adding 2 or more guys to the mix? Is he aware of the potential mini gang bang or does it even matter what he thinks about it?
There is only one new guy (Joe). The other guy is kinky but involved in a relationship, and not really ideal for my situation. So Ted has not introduced me. Also, my husband and I have talked about this, and he does know. Actually, one of the things I expressed to my husband is that I enjoy his encouragement for me to go further (should he really want that). In his effort to please me, he has been suggesting I spend weekends with Ted, and get more aggressive with meeting new guys. He has even went as far as looking for bulls, and offering me their pictures.
This is a little bit concerning to me, because his orgasm denial is really making him submissive and feminine. While I am getting a lot of encouragement and benefits, I am also realizing he becoming highly suggestive and vulnerable. Just this week he hand washed and folded all my panties and lingerie. It's just a bit shocking that orgasm denial can be this powerful of a tool.
Does the way you treat your husband, make your time with Ted more exciting?
So great story about this... My husband and I were doing some errands that required both our participation, and we were going out to dinner after. Ted replied to an old text message I sent earlier, where I asked if he wanted sex, as I was available for him. He said yes. Even though it was an old message, and I told my husband to bring me to Ted's. When he pulled up, he asked how long I was going to be, because we had things to do. I said "I don't know" in kind of a sexy tone. Then he asked me if he should wait or come back later. I looked at him, and said "I really don't care what you do", and I slammed the car door without even thinking about how he might take that.
When I was having sex with Ted, it was more exciting knowing my husband is in a chastity device and in an awkward place not knowing what he should do with all the errands and the dinner reservations, etc. After I was done, I called my husband, and he was 10 minutes away. I acted upset that I had to wait for him, while Ted's cock was in my other hand. Ted loved that, and later that night my husband admitted it was hot too!