So I met with Ted yesterday for the first time in several weeks. He noticed I dropped off, and stopped coming by, and wanted to know what was up. We talked for a long time, about how to proceed. We didn't even have sex, as it was mostly all talking.
It starting with him asking if we have broken up, as I have his key, and I have some clothes at his place. He also wanted to go on a date with someone, and wanted to not upset me with that, so he wanted to clearly communicate.
We first talked about Joe, and the 3 some we had. I told Ted that the encounter left a negative experience with my husband and I, and that was partially why I stopped coming by. He assumed it had something to do with that, and felt very bad he pushed me too far. He is new to having a female sub, and was just trying to give me a new experience. I told him I don't blame him, as he slowly introduced me to Joe, and I never gave me sign I didn't want it. We just didn't like it. So he said he won't involve him again, unless I ask.
I also admitted that I wanted more of an emotional connection, and it seemed like I was just his submissive fuck toy. Which I enjoyed, but I also wanted an emotional connection he wasn't giving me (at least consistently). He said one issue is that I only come by 1-2 times a week, and I usually spend the night at home, and not with him. He admitted he missed me during the last few weeks, and wanted more of me, sensing he does has feelings. He thinks if we spent more time together, there would be a connection.
That is when I mentioned I am alone for 7 days in less then a month, and maybe we can spend some more time together then, and try this out. He immediately got excited, and asked if I would spend some consecutive nights with him, to try to build some momentum. One thing led to another, and I agreed, under some conditions. He agreed to them, which I can share later.
I need to keep you guys in a little bit of suspense!