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Curious to know what is the most important aspect of a pleasurable dick.

My sister-in-law once told me that she much prefers a cock with lots of girth and must be between 7-8 "and hard as a rock.

dpc0919 wrote:My sister-in-law once told me that she much prefers a cock with lots of girth and must be between 7-8 "and hard as a rock.

Did you measure up or fall short?

You forgot big glans.

Is this for HW to answer only?

Or men will put what they think vs what women want...

Good poll though

I voted cut/uncut because I only like circumcised.
My second choice would be color because I only like white men.

The others aren't really that important. Most men are about the same size. I don't notice a difference in size, they all pretty much feel the same. Some men know how to work 5 inches better than ANY guy I've had on the larger side, plus they give better oral. Most men don't realize this but us women are not very deep. I can take maybe 5.75 inches of penis into me, and that will hit my cervix and can be uncomfortable on deeper thrusts. I've had 7 inches and he couldn't put it all the way in. I think having a man go all the way in so our bodies touch is better than a giant one where it doesn't go all the way in and I can't feel him press against me. As long as he has average thickness then I don't really feel a difference between average and above average thickness. Never had super thick but that might hurt and not into that. I want them to be 5-6 inches, average to slightly thick, circumcised and white. And attached to a man with muscle and rugged good looks.

Almost all of these attributes are important to me, but girth is the single most important one because I need to feel filled up and perhaps even stretched.

AZVixen wrote:I voted cut/uncut because I only like circumcised.
My second choice would be color because I only like white men.

The others aren't really that important. Most men are about the same size. I don't notice a difference in size, they all pretty much feel the same. Some men know how to work 5 inches better than ANY guy I've had on the larger side, plus they give better oral. Most men don't realize this but us women are not very deep. I can take maybe 5.75 inches of penis into me, and that will hit my cervix and can be uncomfortable on deeper thrusts. I've had 7 inches and he couldn't put it all the way in. I think having a man go all the way in so our bodies touch is better than a giant one where it doesn't go all the way in and I can't feel him press against me. As long as he has average thickness then I don't really feel a difference between average and above average thickness. Never had super thick but that might hurt and not into that. I want them to be 5-6 inches, average to slightly thick, circumcised and white. And attached to a man with muscle and rugged good looks.

I love a woman who knows what she likes and can articulate it! Well done! You also state a fact that flies in the face of a lot of our fantasies about cock size. You are correct, studies show that most men, like 80%, are about the same size. The "average" size is between 5 and 6 inches. I've asked my wife if she can feel the difference between a 5 inch cock and a 6 inch cock and she says "no, not really." Yes, there are big ones out there. I've seen plenty in my prior swinging days, but they are the exception. We tend to look at a 7 and think it's 8 or 9. But as AZVixen says, a lot of women can't handle much over 6 or 7 and then the guy can't go all the way in. Women's bodies are different, so this is a generalization.

Ugly Cuckling wrote:Curious to know what is the most important aspect of a pleasurable dick.

I chose "number of erections" because of stories by my wife. Many guys have difficult getting erections, particularly when they're nervous, and a few nervous guys cum too soon. She has said periodically that some men she agreed to fuck have had trouble attaining erections. Most but not alll of those were men she met from personals ads. She is understanding about that and helps them any way she can. The problem is unrelated to whether the guys are single or married. Yet, it's frustrating when she's hot and wants a dick inside her. She has two long term fuckbuddies and recently met another who probably will be. I doubt that her interests in the long-term stud pals has anything to do with their ability for erections (she has persistently said the attraction is personality and compatibility), but thpse two longest-term guys rarely have that problem.

Her suggestion to those with a frequent erection problem is to see a physician who specializes in that area, and several practice in our area. She gives them a couple of chances but if they don't see a doc as she suggests, she isn't interested in seeing them again. I have asked a few times what sort of cock she prefers and her answer is, "the ones attached to guys I like." I have observed though that her boss and a younger college student, the long-term guys, have bigger penises. She said that's not her reason she enjoys fucking them; they're compatible personalities. I'm confident that's actually her reason.

Since I could only pick one I chose thick (girth). One of my wife's favorite toys is a beer bottle.

My wife doesn't care but I like to see my wife with a circumcised, cut, man.

My wife is very expressive about what she finds hot with respect to cock. She even calls the process of finding partners, “shopping for cock.” For her it is like hunting for a new dress, pair of shoes, or piece of jewelry.

KK looks for what she calls a “pretty,” or “gorgeous” cock. It is more than a single variable. First she demands cut, and smooth-shaven hardware. She loves oral sex, and hates pubic hair in her mouth - it makes her gag.

The other factors include shape, and firmness. She likes a nice, hard, upward curving erection. The length itself is one factor, but girth/thickness are also part of the appeal. She generally loves a big, mushroom cock-head - where the glans is larger in diameter than the shaft. Coloration, skin tone, and texture are factors - she likes big veins, dislikes blotchy, uneven skin tone. A potential partner’s balls also factor in, she likes nice “hangers” as she calls them.

Part of her screening ritual is examining a potential partner’s cock for those factors, including evidence of broken skin, lesions, warts, or other evidence of poor health or grooming.

Also on the list is stamina, combined with the ability to get hard, and stay hard when I am present, either watching or participating. She hates one-minute wonders, and guy’s who can’t get it up and keep it up when in the presence of another male.

I posed the questions to Farmgirl and she said "cut/circumcised" is what she wants most of the choices, followed by average length and girth

zorro wrote:You forgot big glans.

File that under "shape" but yes you are correct.

My wife says the man it’s attached to

Ann’s not particularly bothered about his cock as long as it “does the job”, but she does prefer uncut to cut as she likes his head coming into view he gets aroused. Her big turn on is big heavy balls thinking about all that sperm soon to be inside her.

We voted cut. Marla prefers a cut penis although it is not a firm rule. Unlike many on OHW she is definitely not a size queen and prefers average length and girth above all else. Not sure why so many are hung up about size, but all the guys that contact her talk about bigger than average, and this does not work in the favour.

TO

jw_kk wrote:My wife is very expressive about what she finds hot with respect to cock. She even calls the process of finding partners, “shopping for cock.” For her it is like hunting for a new dress, pair of shoes, or piece of jewelry.

KK looks for what she calls a “pretty,” or “gorgeous” cock. It is more than a single variable. First she demands cut, and smooth-shaven hardware. She loves oral sex, and hates pubic hair in her mouth - it makes her gag.

The other factors include shape, and firmness. She likes a nice, hard, upward curving erection. The length itself is one factor, but girth/thickness are also part of the appeal. She generally loves a big, mushroom cock-head - where the glans is larger in diameter than the shaft. Coloration, skin tone, and texture are factors - she likes big veins, dislikes blotchy, uneven skin tone. A potential partner’s balls also factor in, she likes nice “hangers” as she calls them.

Part of her screening ritual is examining a potential partner’s cock for those factors, including evidence of broken skin, lesions, warts, or other evidence of poor health or grooming.

Also on the list is stamina, combined with the ability to get hard, and stay hard when I am present, either watching or participating. She hates one-minute wonders, and guy’s who can’t get it up and keep it up when in the presence of another male.

Excellent essay! A+. It is a bit simplistic to narrow it down to a poll. Assuming the guy is likeable, then each aspect contributes points toward the grand total. For ex, 5 yrs ago she dated a really cool black guy with a monster cock. But he could only last 1 minute. He had done many black girls with big butts, but adored my wife's latina olive skin ass

Hair is a turnonff but can be shaven. Small cocks are almost always eliminated; or kept on the side for a slow Monday night.
High volume of cum is also a PLUS. She goes bareback after the 2nd week.

First off I have heard some women say there is something extra in a dick that is uncut. I don't believe that as when it's hard, you can't really tell the difference and if a wife is good she only sees them hard for the most part. The description of a dick being unattractive could be debatable as pussy are kind of the same way until a guy get aroused and then they are the most beautiful thing on the planet. Mine loves to look at mine and loves to see it squirt. She has never gotten over a kind of school girl curiosity about dicks and loves them and the look of them and playing with them. I think the overall look of a dick is all relative and may be relative to how turned on a woman is at the time she looks at it. Might be ugly if some guy waves it at her but the same dick might be beautiful if she is wet and wanting it. I guess someone said beauty is in the eye of the beholder and in this case it might be eye as well as other parts. I don't think anyone can argue the large, hard and curved part and I am not arguing this part. I am just saying.

The most important attribute is the man it is attached to ;-) That is what turns a woman (or cuck) on.

Think about it all you cuckold types, if you had a big fat cock would you be that much better in bed? I doubt it. Lol. I bet you would still want to give your loved ones pussy to a more deserving man :-)

Just like the diamond, the hardest substance known to man, there is a "C" system for a quality COCK, the hardest substance known to a hotwife. While diamonds have a 4-C system, COCKS have a 8-C system; they are just twice as complex.

1) Circumcised - This is a must!! And the circumcision should be very tight to completely expose the HEAD with no loose skin, even while soft.

2) Circumference - Thick is the word here, at least 5 1/2" girth and preferably even thicker with a nice long shaft.

3) Corona – The HEAD should be big, beautiful, full, flared, and plump.

4) Color - Light tan shaft with a nice medium purple/pink HEAD.

5) Curvature - A perfect COCK curves slightly and deliciously upward, pointing towards a hotwife's eagerly awaiting mouth and G-Spot!!

6) Contour - The shaft should be of uniform thickness with nice veins. The HEAD should flare out a bit wider than the shaft and appear nice and plump; ready to by gently sucked and stroked.

7) Consistency - refers to how hard and muscular a nice COCK appears when erect. A hotwife loves the looks of a very muscular looking COCK.

8) Complete package - of course no COCK is perfect unless attached to a hot muscular physique. Hotwives love to look up at their bull's nice 6-pack abs.

She says girth is most important but likes at least 6'' to 8'' in length. She loves that feeling of being full of thick cock in her pussy and also relishes the challenge of deep throating her bulls fat hard cock. Going to see him this weekend for two nights of carnal pleasure.

I know a woman who calls herself a convert -- convert to liking bigger cocks. What brought this conversion about? Before, she never really thought about cock size. Cocks were all good to her and size never came to her mind. But recently (six months back) she has met a man who is a good 7 inches, but also very thick. She went bonkers over his cock and said herself that she is a convert: she now definitely prefers a cock like his.

Now of course the man attached to that cock is also important. But that, we all know. That's a given. Just like, for me, small breasts is what I prefer on a woman. But it is always the woman attached to those small breasts that makes the overall experience satisfying.

So, in all cases, it is the person attached to the preferred organ which is the key. But once one has said that, the thick cock -- or in my case, the small perky tits -- become the cherry on top that makes the experience super perfect.

annsman wrote:Ann’s not particularly bothered about his cock as long as it “does the job”, but she does prefer uncut to cut as she likes his head coming into view he gets aroused. Her big turn on is big heavy balls thinking about all that sperm soon to be inside her.

Testicle size has absolutely nothing to do with the amount of ejaculate. In fact, semen is stored in various internal accessory organs (prostate gland, ejaculatory ducts, seminal vesicles, and bulbourethral glands), and NOT in the testicles.

So her "big turn on" is completely unfounded and based on a misconception (Do you get it? "Mis-Conception.").

What makes a man's penis enjoyable?

If he knows how to work it!

My wife always says it has to have girth and she loves it if it also has a big glans (her first lover especially).

"But more important: he has to know how to use it!"