While this response has nothing to do with my wife, I had a long-term affair partner, Marie, that fetishized black men, specifically group encounters/gang-bangs with black men.
I arranged a gang-bang event for Marie, and after the fact, found out about her fetish and craving. Through a series of connections, and introductions, we were introduced to a series of events that were known in the area, organized specifically for a safe environment in which women, married, or single, could hook up with black males.
Our connection was an organizer of a local party group for a quarterly event called the “Snow Bunny Round-up.” The long story short was that organizer, along with two other women, orchestrated a sort of local circuit party designed to allow mostly white women, married, dating or single, with no discrimination, access to groups of well-endowed black males, for one-on-one or group sex.
There was an end of year “Round-Up” that was timed to coincide with another nationwide circuit party, which is pretty well known, the “White Party.”
I participated with Marie in the Snow Bunny Round-Up / White Party circuit for three years. Most of the events were held at downtown hotels, although there were three I recall that were held in private homes in a couple of exclusive, gated communities.
Some women attended these events solo, while others, like Marie had a companion or escort. I was there to support Marie, and provide after-care, because these sorts of gang-bangs can be quite physical, exhausting, and for some women, emotional. Marie was an interesting, and somewhat “damaged” woman - a devout Catholic, married, but a total slut with insatiable needs. After these events she would be an emotional wreck, filled with self-loathing, while at the same time off-the-chart horny and lust filled.
Watching Marie, on the outside a sweet, innocent little housewife, in a total state of abandon and cock-lust was an amazing thing. Seeing Marie in a sea of bodies, a big cock in every hole, slathered in cum was intensely erotic. Marie would enter sort of a fugue state, a little sexy maniac, gorged with cock and cum until she was physically exhausted, limp, and nearly catatonic. My role after those events was to provide her physical care, and emotional support, before returning her home to her unknowing husband.
Just curious how did you find out about this party. Would love a link. You can PM me.
This happened far enough in the past that my contacts are long since stale.
I found out about the party, and made the contact through a black male dancer/stripper that was one of Marie's objects of desire, and a participant in the first gangbang I set up for her. When I tried to arrange the second event, he set me up with the Snow Bunny Round-Up contact - I don't know if this is still an ongoing event, or if it has since morphed into something else.
Experience suggests that all-male revues can be a source of contacts for this kind of thing.